Holy cow, somebody in the media got it right
As if to prove that not all media in Australia is completely insane about World of Warcraft, The Age has published a great column by comedienne and writer Wendy Harmer about her experiences playing WoW... with her eight-year-old son.Now this is what I'm talking about-- she praises the game almost unreservedly for not only teaching her son about how to interact with computers and numbers, but also for how to interact with people. In the world of WoW, where the kid is "often playing alongside much older people who have high demands on courteous behavior and fair conduct," the kid is learning how to be social and save up a "bank of goodwill" with his guild members. She even attacks the notion that playing MMORPGs is anti-real world-social-- she says his son plays with both his mother and his friends, and that the game actually encourages real-world interaction modeled on the game, just as past generations of boys modeled their playtime on the TV and radio shows they experienced.
And notice how, as opposed to most of the crazy WoW kids portrayed by the media, Harmer actually moderates her child's playing. She keeps the computer out of the bedroom, and, I'd guess, evaluates and adjusts his playing time as necessary. In short, she lets her child play the game as its meant to be played-- as a part of a normal life-- and he's better off for it. That's the picture of WoW that most players see, and yet it's a picture that's almost never shown by the media.
Now all we have to do is get that kid to abandon his Pally and play Horde...
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
spencer Oct 31st 2006 10:15PM
NOTE: I read this over and it seems very fearmongery
"she says his son plays with both his mother and his friends, and that the game actually encourages real-world interaction modeled on the game, just as past generations of boys modeled their playtime on the TV and radio shows they experienced"
This seems like borderline dangerous thinking to me. There is a very concrete disconnect between avatar based interaction and real world play. Children may learn general courtesy, sure, but they're learning it through several degrees of separation. Vocal inflection, body language and facial cues are FUNDAMENTAL for human communication, and an environment like WoW can, at best, only offer a distant approximation of them.
Now I know she's not saying it's a substitute for play, and it's wonderful that she monitors her child's time on the computer, but as we edge closer and closer to a purely digital childhood I fear that some parents may take the easy route of letting their MMOs babysit their children, which is a playtime that can in no way be compared to the face to face playtimes of yesteryear.
Krianna Oct 31st 2006 10:35PM
Get the kids interested in their pallis or whatever, then they play "swordfight". My mom was one of the original Tolkienfans and I grew up "swordfighting"-- it's great exercise, especially if they've ever seen the Princess Bride.
It also teaches reading comprehension-- by the time you hit thirty, folks tend to ignore you when you ask how to find something that was stated in the quest text.
twh Oct 31st 2006 10:57PM
"Now all we have to do is get that kid to abandon his Pally and play Horde..."
*Spit-take!*
Sir! You offend me with that remark! :p
*gentlemanly glove slap!*
Ngnsewa Oct 31st 2006 11:04PM
Personally I think it is a great article. Especially with how much Australian TV stations love sensationalizing and (actual) scaremongering in general.
(And yes, the only issue I have is that they are playing a Pally O_o )
swiftlydead Nov 1st 2006 2:05AM
heheh I always thought pally's were 14 y/o's. Little did I know I was wrong, but in the wrong direction =]
Savok Nov 1st 2006 4:02AM
I'm autistic, high functioning, for those who don't know what that means, I'll put it very, very simply. Social interaction is an alien concept to us, we're born with practically zero ability to communicate with others and it scares us quite badly. In fact the entire world is scary as hell to our eyes. I mean paralyzing phobia kinda fear here. Turn on a fluro light, the hum can overload our senses for christ sake.
Mostly I watch other people/TV/Movies to learn, but the only time I really get to be hands on is online. MMOGs have taught me a ridiculous amount about interacting with other people through raw experience that I can't reasonably get anywhere else.
So no, Spencer, I really don't see this as dangerous, I see it as saving the sanity everyone like me, and an asset to the rest of humanity because lets face it, where else are you going to interact on such a complex basis with total strangers.
p3arl Nov 1st 2006 9:14AM
am i the only one who noticed the you only spell AUSTRALIA! with one i. unless you were being funny?
ruddiger Nov 1st 2006 10:16AM
I doubt her son is playing the game for extended periods of time, they're only at level 30. And I wouldn't think he's at risk of poor social skills from playing this game, because he is 8 years old and therefore must go to school. An 8 year old is naturally quite different to that 16 year old on A Current Affair, who didn't need to go to school and could physically intimidate his mother into not controlling his WoW habit.
kelly Nov 1st 2006 6:26PM
an eight year old playing alliance. shocking.