The E-Ho game

We've all see the night elf female with white hair dancing in her Black Mageweave armor for "donations," or laughed at the forum threads involving girls (who are usually guys) that cyber in unfortunately public areas. Everyone pretty much takes these as part of WoW. But what about that girl who's always in private chat with the raid leader and tends to get more raid invites than the other hunters? Or the priest who's last on the healing meters, but first to have half the guild pass on items for her? Or the drama-prone tank who's gquit five times over "people being mean"?
No, an E-Ho is an entirely different creature. Simply put, an E-Ho is a girl who thinks that being female entitles her to receive more loot, prestige, or raid invites than other guild members. Examples of E-Hos include:
- Anyone who goes into various Ventrillos and announces how drunk they are, and how they'd really like a phone call tonight.
- Anyone who uses the phrase "You don't understand what it's like to be a girl in this game!"
- Anyone who thinks their myspace is a vital part of a guild application.
All of this leaves friendly female players with a dilemma: Do you be yourself and risk being seen as an E-Ho, or do you be aloof and get a reputation as an ice queen? If I give this druid advice about his job search, will he think I'm flirting? If I go to another channel to talk about specs with this rogue, will everyone else in the guild think we're cybering?
Because of situations like this, E-Hos must be flushed out of guilds as soon as possible. Since E-Hos thrive on attention, ignoring them will make them go away - but be careful they don't take some of your best players with them. Another strategy for dealing with E-Hos is to "up the ante." If they post pictures of themselves nude, post pictures of yourself nude, preferably in an unattractive position, and invite your guild to compare. If they give out their phone numbers in Vent and ask you to call, call and begin a long discussion about quantum physics or what color the sky is. The E-Ho will become frustrated at your "lack of appreciation" for her, and should leave in a huff after making a fool of herself.
Have you encountered any members of this wild and wooly species?
Filed under: Analysis / Opinion, Virtual selves






Reader Comments (Page 1 of 2)
Clementure Dec 11th 2006 6:37PM
Not yet, dammit!
Do you promise they're out there?
Freehugz Dec 11th 2006 6:44PM
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If they post pictures of themselves nude, post pictures of yourself nude, preferably in an unattractive position, and invite your guild to compare.
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i haven't met one yet, but i'll have my pictures ready just in case ;)
Ariel Dec 11th 2006 7:11PM
Unfortunately, I've encountered many E-Hos. I suppose I can't get TOO mad at them for making money the way they do (especially since there's apparently a high demand for NE dancing). What bothers me is that I actually get a bit nervous if someone happens to ask me if I'm actually a girl (which I am). Call me paranoid, but sometimes I'm afraid if I tell them the truth, they'll ask for "favors" and whatnot. Depending on who I'm talking to, I just lie and say I'm a guy.
someguy Dec 11th 2006 8:09PM
YES!!
I met a girl once IRL, and found out she was a wow player a few weeks later. I considered myself super-lucky to have found a chick that played wow, but later on I discovered that I had met an E-HO!!!
F That! I never called her back once I fully realized her true nature. Sorry princess, you may have been totally awesome, but I'm not interested in putting up with that type of personality.
dafnap Dec 11th 2006 8:11PM
...smart guys who have known and hated E-Hos in the past may be hesitant to let female players in their guild, and they may constantly be on watch for flirty behavior.
"Smart" wouldn't really be the word I'd use for it. If a guy automatically assumes that any girl applying to be in a guild is an e-ho, he's more along the lines of "chauvinist" than smart, but maybe that's just me.
E-Ho behavior isn't one sided, "e-hos" exist because guys play along. Don't give a chick money just because you found out she's a girl and don't ask for pictures. They can't be an e-ho if they aren't getting anything for it in the first place.
I'm like Ariel, I just lie now. It's easier than trying to explain that I really don't want to spend all day questing with a guy who tells me to sit in the corner and let him do all the work, to see random trade windows open up with expensive items or gold. Contrary to popular belief, most girls actually LIKE actually playing the game.
Althaus Dec 11th 2006 8:21PM
I think the "E-Ho's" just add to the reality aspect of the game. I came across one that was offering a strip for 5G, It got some funny banter going in General. I like having the different personalities out there, keeps me entertained when I'm jammed with a bunch of hard quests.
Woild Dec 11th 2006 8:25PM
A large amount of males I know roll E-Ho chars to get more "phat epics" by dancing naked in MC before a death run (to avoid trash.) They never tell people that they are actually a guy IRL so that they get treated better.
Mind you, they tend to complain a large amount about people treating them as inferior because they are female (even though they aren't.) Seems like old habits die hard and chauvinism is well and truly alive in WoW.
A small price to pay for 'bonus' dkp and phat loots some may say!
Brinstar Dec 11th 2006 8:54PM
Is it any wonder that some non-E-ho women either just don't/won't speak on TS/Vent, or won't tell anyone that they're a woman because of all the potentially bothersome reactions they could get?
I just joined a new guild, and I'm wondering how long I'll be able to get away with not telling people that I'm female.
Tripp Dec 14th 2006 11:31PM
Wow, I've been playing the game for a year and I've never seen or heard if this stuff. Maybe I'm lucky and I'm on a mature server. Maybe it is just not a prominent on the Horde side. Who knows?
Meh Dec 11th 2006 9:47PM
It's hard for a girl to play WoW =(
You get into an endgame guild and they require you get onto vent and talk so they know you aren't some chinese ninja farmer. Then when you do you become the new guild leaders fav and everyone gets jealous. D=
I've had this happen twice to me so far and can't find a way around it >.>' at the moment I just use the excuse 'My mic isn't working, sry' XD
Weland Dec 11th 2006 10:04PM
I have had the pleasure of only meeting one in WoW. Good thing she is gone as she had really pissed off the other women in the guild.
I think the worst was this guy in SWG that pretended to be an E-ho for almost 2 years. Got away with it too lol had all the credits and gear rolling in. Even used software to make his voice sound more feminine on teamspeak. What people will do for the attention.
olhado Dec 11th 2006 11:27PM
There's this girl on my server (H) that is always, ALWAYS on the LFG channel (or used to be. One good thing about the new LFG interface). There were all kinds of nasty things said about her, like how she was really a guy and that she was super ugly, but she still got lots of attention and though she complained about how much she hated the attention, never got off the LFG channel. She's been on my /ignore for like a month though so I don't know what her more recent escapades are.
Anon Dec 12th 2006 1:33AM
Cutefawn on Azgalor = E-Ho
Pent Dec 12th 2006 1:40AM
Join a gay guild, as a girl and you won't quite get the same treatment, imo.
Although if the guild leader is a girl... hmmmmm
;)
Natali Dec 12th 2006 6:15AM
Well, at least the annoying women can be lumped under a title. There are too many kinds of male assholes on WoW to give them a single title ;)
Luckily, I've only ever come across one E-Ho on my realm (EU-Kilrogg), and she's currently being used as a lure for a raiding guild to poach people from other guilds. I wish her luck in her new profession and thank the gods I don't get treated that way.
Michael Dec 12th 2006 8:17AM
Hame I "met" one? unfortunately yes, she was blatant and disgustingly obvious.
With that said, however, let me make it clear. It is NOT the norm in my experience.
In my guild, "The three kings" on Skywall (H), We have a small but growing number of femail players, we use Vent so I know the are actually women. They have never NEVER used being femail to garner any favors, and are more than adaquate players who know their characters strengths and play them very well.
One in particular, Tirona (Tauren Druid, feral), is very active in our guild both as a player and in an administrative role. Simply put, as a Druid, she kicks ass, both in PVE and PVP.
Is there flirting? Yes some, but nothing more than would happen between any large group of good friends. Nothing even close to being above a pg13 rating.
My point is, Yes "E-Hos" exsist, but they are the product of male players willing to be their "Johns" just to fullfill some hormonal fantasy. "E-Hos" are NOT, by far, only female players nor are the majority of female players "E-Hos".
I invite any female player, that is tired of trying to hide the fact that they are female, and has a horde character on Skywall to look up "The three Kings".
We will welcome you and you can openly be yourself. Check us out at:
http://www.threekingsskywall.com/
Thomas Dec 12th 2006 2:53PM
Never met one, though I tend to shy away from Goldshire. My guild has several women as members (even in an officer capacity) as does the raiding alliance our guild is in. Near as I can tell everyone is treated fairly and evenly - no favortism is displayed to anyone. Personally, if an E-Ho (who comes up with these names?) appeared on our guild applicant forum, she'd probably be shot down. We like our guild the way it is - easy going, relaxed, and in a friendly environment.
Hand Dec 12th 2006 8:23AM
I've encountered a few of these beasts whilst playing WoW, and they seem to be one of the main players I hate. I've had a guild leader which the guild fell apart cause she was a absolute nut, Another chick was in my guild once and was psting me telling me how hot she was etc etc and how I should get other players to give her gold.(/gkick) Then last but not least and personally my favorite to hate. Pre patch where a drop rate was very rare Something very special to me dropped in a run and some chick ninja'd it. she then hearthed. When i psted her explaining I had won the item and she needed to give it to me. her response was, "O but I'm a girl". I grats her then asked for the item, Which I never heard or saw again. Hate them, Some great girls that play but the E-Ho's can go search for diseases offline. Not a game for them.
Steel Dec 12th 2006 8:34AM
Your blog post seems to walk a fine line in tone between scorn and jealousy, Elizabeth.
I would like to invite any female players on Kargath interested in playing the game the way it's meant to be played while not having to hide their gender to check out Serenity (Alliance, http://www.wowserenity.com). Approximately a third of the guild is female, and we have an awesome female GL.
Zules Dec 12th 2006 8:39AM
I'm a female player, who feels like she should be able to talk on Vent or Teamspeak, and who should be able to post a (normal!) picture on the guild web site just like every other player. And I can tell you that you get a lot of things being said about you and to you that you never did anything to invite.
The first guild I was in, there were people who decided what my actual real profession must be after I first spoke on Teamspeak. It had to do with talking over the phone for money, and it had everything to do with their fantasies and nothing to do with the reality of my life.
Women players want to play without having to feel responsible for managing the way they come across 24/7 when they're on WoW. If you think I'm an e-Ho just because I can be amused at some of these assumptions and some of the flirting, that's your problem, not mine -- but why don't you step in and take a turn trying to be me on the healing rotation and see how you do, hm?