Azeroth Interrupted: Introducing a column about balancing life in Azeroth with life on Earth
Each week, Robin Torres contributes Azeroth Interrupted, a column about balancing real life with WoW.
My husband, who plays WoW 5 to 6 hours a day at a minimum, informed me the other day that playing video games in general and WoW in particular was very unproductive. Most people would give him the Captain Obvious award, but I consider the timing of the statement a bit odd, considering WoW Insider just hired me to write a regular column (yay!) about balancing real life with WoW. Certainly, playing WoW can range from being a very pleasant escape to ruining your life, but that is actually the case with any hobby or recreational activity. The fact is that, with a little effort and planning and lots of learning from mistakes, you can successfully balance real life with WoW and even use WoW to make real life better.
My husband, who plays WoW 5 to 6 hours a day at a minimum, informed me the other day that playing video games in general and WoW in particular was very unproductive. Most people would give him the Captain Obvious award, but I consider the timing of the statement a bit odd, considering WoW Insider just hired me to write a regular column (yay!) about balancing real life with WoW. Certainly, playing WoW can range from being a very pleasant escape to ruining your life, but that is actually the case with any hobby or recreational activity. The fact is that, with a little effort and planning and lots of learning from mistakes, you can successfully balance real life with WoW and even use WoW to make real life better.There are many examples of WoW players using their hobby for being productive, and I am not even talking about the despised and pitiable gold farmers. I'm also not talking about the Blizzard employees, because anyone in the video game biz can tell you that working on a video game can not only ruin your fun in that game, it can make you not want to play any video game at all for a while. But there are people who use the social aspects of WoW for professional networking, there are the professionally sponsored arena teams and there are people who actually put their WoW playtime on their resumes.
Of course, there is more to life than just making money and WoW can help there, too.
WoW can help you make and keep friends from all over the world. It can be a family activity or the rp game keeping your college D&D group in touch and gaming together. And, once you've made the initial investment, it can be a very cheap way to spend your leisure time if you are on a budget, particularly considering the cost of movies these days. Unfortunately, it can also be a way to lose friends, ruin relationships and lose your job.
My name is Robin (aka Freja aka Laurel aka Boadicea...) and I have played a multitude of MMOs over many years, from Ultima Online to City of Villains. Those of you who joined me in the Anarchy Online beta, laugh with me when we hear people complain about the bugs in WoW. And I hope you former EQers who complain about having to regen mana in a minute or two, remember the days of ten to fifteen minutes between battles when soloing as a caster. Ah, if only I had my yarn addiction then. MMOs have drowned my sorrows and caused them. A romance ended because of one and a very, very, very scary romance began there a bit later. I tested video games for a little at a development house (which sadly went out of business) and for a longer time at a publisher, which is where I met the level 70 Tauren Shaman loot addict that I married and with whom I spawned a minigamer (pictured above). I have made many mistakes during my tenure as a gamer chick and have gained a lot of wisdom from them. Hindsight is, in fact, 20/20.
My goal with this column is to impart advice on what to do when life on Earth interferes with life in Azeroth, but if I end up just being an amusing cautionary tale, that's ok too.
Robin Torres juggles one level 70 Tauren Druid, multiple alts across multiple servers, two cats, one toddler, one loot-addicted husband and a yarn dependency. After years of attempting to balance MMOs with real life, Robin lightheartedly shares the wisdom gleaned from her experiences. If you would like to ask Robin's advice, please email Robin.Torres@weblogsinc.com for a possible future column.
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 2)
Areis May 20th 2007 1:36PM
The "ruining your life" link goes to a spyware page - beware.
I now have to clean my PC instead of play. Thanks. Please check your links before you post them in a blog like this.
Ben May 20th 2007 1:46PM
Same here.Had to break out Norton.
"Real Life" before WoW. It is just that simple.
Gishe May 20th 2007 1:48PM
Firefox FTW?
Anyways, Robin, I look forward to reading your articles!
Robin Torres May 20th 2007 1:50PM
Eek! For me and those I have asked, using Firefox or IE 7.0, it goes to an Ask Annie advice column about a husband who is addicted to WoW.
Robin Torres May 20th 2007 1:56PM
Ok, I removed the link. If anyone wants to risk reading the advice column about WoW ruining a marriage, here it is http://www.arcamax.com/women/s-128061-934396.
Skellynelly May 20th 2007 2:07PM
Grats on the column Freja! I look forward to more!
Areis May 20th 2007 2:06PM
Yeah, I run Firefox. Still did the hijack / redirect thing for me though.
Halicante May 20th 2007 3:02PM
Sounds like it will be an interesting column. As someone crazily in love with someone she met on wow, I am curious to hear your perspectives.
andrea May 20th 2007 3:50PM
Looking forward to your columns and finally seeing some words spoken from someone who sounds like an adult!
Jamus May 20th 2007 9:19PM
$.50 cents a month for me to help keep my sanity seems worth it for all involved. $.01 cent more and it is a no go Blizzard you here me?!?
But yeah, it helps to stay balanced no doubt about it. Real world pays to keep the online world in action, don't forget...
Malcolm May 20th 2007 11:04PM
I've found playing WoW a way to "save" money. My wife used to worry about me buying all sorts of stuff off eBay, now I just play WoW. So she thinks it's great, and I still get the pleasure of buying stuff but it only costs me money in the game.
Tool03 May 21st 2007 7:12AM
This should be an interesting column, I look froward to what you have to say.
Addie May 21st 2007 9:16AM
Thank you Robin... I need to break my web browser at work so I can get some RL done. >.< At home I play and at work I read about playing. Looking forward to some ideas & thoughts on Balance. (...it's not just my druid's spec? O.o )
JMc May 21st 2007 12:00PM
Congrats on the column, Robin! Good to see there will be some interesting stuff to read amongst all the dribble.
Oh, and don't forget to remind your husband that druids are better than shamans! =P
Theserene May 21st 2007 1:36PM
One of my friends, who is a guild leader, had to kick someone out of their guild for failing to balance life and WoW properly.
Their principal healer decided to let his 6 year old son play the character 'so he could spend some time with daddy', only he did it in 2 separate Naxx raids. Several very expensive wipes later and the guild gave him the ultimatum of either NEVER do that again or leave the guild.
The guy kicked up a stink about them being 'child-haters' and got himself promptly booted.
Me, my husband plays on the same server as me, horde as well, and we will help each other out on quests etc. it has actually reduced the number of household fights....
Patricio Marquez May 21st 2007 1:42PM
Hey Robin, nice Column!!
Real life and wow crash a lot, the other day, my girlfriend got mad with me when i came back to Mexico from an US trip with a wow hat and a shirt (which i was wearing proudly), she said: "Now you have clothes??? damn i hate that game!!!" and when i told her that i had my MacBook beacause at 21:00 i was going to attend a wedding inside the game, she got really pissed...
Theres a lot of funny anecdotes to tell about this, but i think its a great idea that someone writes about this.
Good luck and pardon my english.
Patricio
Aira May 21st 2007 10:27PM
I like to think I am balancing things well, but my heart was deeply saddened when I discovered that wowinsider is newly blocked for me at work due to being a "games" website. What am I going to do for a break?
DR May 22nd 2007 6:57AM
@11, i hear ya man. Wow for me has broken some serious D&A issues i had. Hey i now smoke 2 packs of fags a day, but at least im not chasing 2 six packs and 40 odd cones off good grass when i get home from work. I now chase quest rewards and beasts, and the occasional alliance griefer.
Thanks blizz for replacing 2 life threatening addictions for 1 life stealing addiction.
All sarcasm aside. It really worked. i love wow.
JJ May 22nd 2007 12:58PM
I look forward to this!!! Good to know other WoW playing moms are out there.
Riptidez May 22nd 2007 2:10PM
Can't wait to read more columns!