Why can't you? I'm sure you wouldn't be the first to roll a BELF chick while never saying quite enough in guild chat to be pinned down as male or female...

may i say that i've been guilty of that :D
...and also have been dumb enough to fall for that same trick lol

btw....

"I have very little patience with those who give us all a bad name."

i'm sure that somewhere out there a woman is thinking "jeez amanda, why do you have to be such a bitch and get all these terrible, horrible men that you think are reading your column out there to think that all women are like you..."

Let me tell you a story. Take it as you will.

I knew this girl, a Paladin healer, who wanted to come to Heroic Black Morass with my group. However, we already had a healer.

"I can DPS!" she said, linking an unenchanted Legacy.

"Nope," says I, "Holy Pally DPS isn't gonna work. Maybe next time."

Not long after, I get a tell.

"Why were you being an a**hole to X?" asks a guildie of hers.

"I don't want a Holy Paladin for DPS," I reply, slightly confused.

"Don't be a f***ing dick to my GF," says guildie.

/ignore
/learnlesson