All the World's a Stage: 2008, year of the living roleplayer
So there I was, celebrating the New Year, when I realized just how long All the World's a Stage has been around. It's grown from an idea in the back of my head, to a pet project, into a full-fledged resource for roleplayers -- and it's still growing! Even after 68 weeks-worth of content, there's still so much to write about! It goes to show, if there's a topic you love, you should really write about it, because doing so makes you love it even more.Now, looking back on this year of writing, it strikes me that some things have changed, while other things have stayed the same. Some articles seem just important and relevant to today's concerns as they were when they were written, and many feel like they could use a bit of updating.
Just about a year ago, for instance, All the World's a Stage took a look at "The past, present, and future of roleplaying," which addressed the popular conception at that time that "RP is dead." We don't hear that so much anymore, do we? It seems many of the roleplayers have gradually been shifting around since then, grouping up into small communities on their old servers, or else transferring to a very few realms with a good reputation for roleplaying. Recently, I just transferred over to a new server and was thrilled to see how many roleplayers were hanging around the streets of Dalaran. RP isn't dead at all -- it's just got itself together now instead of being scattered all over everywhere. Congealed, as it were.
"Something to remember me by," my first article of 2008, was also my first article in this column to get over 60 comments -- not just "Noob, u suck!" comments either! I was impressed by the number of readers that had genuinely interesting things to add, usually sharing their own characters' idiosyncrasies and quirks. These quirks weren't necessarily "unique" so much as they were "memorable" and helped people to get a better sense of a character, even after just one or two meetings. That was the first article in this column to really give me the feeling of an intense conversation between the readers and I on a topic we all loved. We weren't just arguing a point back and forth, or going on about tangential issues -- we were sharing knowledge that all of us valued and benefited from. Ever since then, that same sense of sharing has been the goal I hoped for in nearly every article.
"There's something about Mary Sue" addressed one of the issues that seems to bother roleplayers most -- when they see someone playing a character in ways that person doesn't even realize are outlandish and totally unbelievable in the context of the Warcraft lore. Most commonly this happens when people try to add their own elements of fantasy and lore which aren't so compatible with the Warcraft setting (i.e. Vampires), or claim some close relationship to a major Warcraft story character that doesn't make sense (i.e. Arthas' ex-girlfriend), but really it's any sort of attempt to catapult one's own character into the spotlight at the expense of all others. If I had anything to add to that article today, I would warn people that everyone has a different interpretation of what "Mary Sue" means. Sometimes you may try to change someone with the best of intentions, but in the end just come across as a mean person with useless criticism. If you're going to tell someone that they are a Mary Sue, beware that you may be treading on sensitive waters and it might just be better to let the issue slide.
"Ten Commandments of Roleplaying" was a blast to write, and it's also a handy reference to look back on now and then. I claimed the right to modify it as time went by, but even now that it's been 9 months, I don't think there's anything I would change. The comments seemed to show that even though people placed varying levels of importance on each of the "Commandments," and in some cases would have phrased them differently, we all more or less agreed on them as a general body of principles that roleplayers should follow. They arise naturally out of roleplayers' needs when interacting with one another, and for the most part, they are universal.
The 3-part series on "Finding Roleplayers" was an attempt to help solve that perennial problem we often have, of finding people we like to roleplay with. Finding roleplayers isn't that hard, but finding ones we really connect with can sometimes be surprisingly difficult if you don't get lucky and stumble into a great group. Now that I've transferred to Moon Guard recently, I find myself once again looking for a new group of friends. Hopefully my own advice will be useful to me!
Alex Ziebart wrote a great guest-piece for this column, "Descriptions done right," about how to write good descriptions for the hallmark roleplayer's addon, "FlagRSP," which lets other players see a bit of extra information about your character, especially what he or she looks like. It's an excellent resource for players new to the addon, as well as experienced roleplayers who are just looking for new description ideas and techniques.
Michael Gray also wrote an excellent guest-article, "Sacrificing spells for the story," about those roleplayers out there who are so very immersive in their roleplaying experience that they will ignore certain spells entirely if those spells don't fit with their overall vision of who they want their character to be. A holy priest may ignore shadow spells, or a shadow priest may ignore healing spells -- they may never even train them at all! It seems crazy from a gameplay perspective, but Michael treats the subject with an even hand and shows how for some people it makes perfect sense.
Matthew Rossi, as usual, broke the mould in his guest-piece with an awesome introduction to something few of us ever thought of doing: "RP on a non-RP server." With his wit and casual style, he showed us that roleplaying is something you gotta just believe in -- when you get into character, put yourself out there and have a good time, chances are people will get caught up in it with you to one degree or another and come along for the ride. It's proof that roleplaying isn't something that happens because there are RP servers -- it happens because people put some passion and creativity into it to make it happen.
The ongoing series on roleplaying your race and class within the lore of World of Warcraft has been the most popular set of articles in All the World's a Stage, because it meets a real need that roleplayers have. There are lots of things a player needs to know about the lore in his or her character's background in order to roleplay well; otherwise you find other roleplayers at best don't know what to say to your character, or at worst -- heaven forbid -- look down upon you with all manner of harsh criticisms. So this series of lore-guides for roleplayers, not to far from completion now, aims to collect the basic info they need to roleplay well into one concise place, and give us a chance to discuss it. It's really hard to be concise sometimes, because the lore is so intense in many places, but there are always interesting opportunities to reflect on our characters' histories and get a better idea of what it might be like to live life in their shoes. After all, that's what roleplaying is all about.
I'll leave you with one of the articles that I enjoyed writing most, because it showed me how sometimes the art of roleplaying teaches you something about life in general. Sometimes just acting out your fantasy character in WoW encourages you to understand new concepts, gain new skills, develop new attitudes, and acquire more positive qualities in a way that actually improves your real life -- it gives you this amazing "Wow!" feeling that makes you glad you play this game. That happened for me when I reflected on some things and realized that neither my character, nor myself, are ever the "Center of the universe."
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Reader Comments (Page 2 of 3)
David Bowers Jan 5th 2009 11:23AM
Hi Max and Jeenome! I actually wrote an article about "Getting started with roleplaying" back in 2007! It was outside the time span I set for myself in this article, but perhaps you'd find it useful.
http://www.wowinsider.com/2007/10/21/all-the-worlds-a-stage-getting-started-with-roleplaying/
It's definitely high time to revisit the topic, though. There are plenty of new insights people have found in the last year to bring to the question of how to get started with roleplaying, especially in WoW.
Kylenne Jan 5th 2009 3:15AM
I just wanted to say thank you for this column, it's been an immense help to me and I'm sure to a lot of others. I've been RPing for years and years in various mediums (pen and paper, MUSHes, LARPs and Livejournal), and have been a huge lore nerd since the original WC, but had no idea where to start in terms of RPing on WoW. Your articles and the phenomenal commenters have really helped me a lot.
I don't know which side you play on Moon Guard, but if you ever run into a BE pally named Rauthien, be sure to /wave. ^_^
Max Jan 5th 2009 7:40AM
I just rolled on Moon Guard! David, do you really play there?
David Bowers Jan 5th 2009 11:33AM
Thanks Kylenne! I have the awesomest commenters in all of WoW Insider, in my humble opinion. In the last year it's seriously been so fun and rewarding to read all of your ideas. As you can see, I try to come back and write responses to as many comments as I can.
I do indeed play on Moon Guard now, though I haven't had as much time to play lately due to real life being super crazy full of stuff to do. My main character is Alliance, but I have a Horde death knight I'd like to raise to 80 as well (eventually...). It would be great to meet up sometime!
I hope you like my character! Everyone's got different tastes you know :) I it seems nobody can keep everyone around them entertained and impressed all the time, but when you click with a group it's really really great.
Rosa Jan 5th 2009 6:54AM
*raises hand*
I have an RP question I'm genuinely curious about.
I'm a very experienced writer and a very experienced RPer, but I don't RP in wow because I have no idea what I'm doing and where to start, or if any of my character ideas work. So forgive my noobishness here.
The thing is, I just don't like playing the commonfolk. I enjoy playing snobs, playing the cultured, playing vanity. A person following the set plotlines and backgrounds within wow pretty much has to be a simple commoner, farm-raised, normal life, dreamed of big adventure, but that is so unappealing to me.
I love writing arrogant, unpleasant, out-of-touch-with-reality nobles, forced to rub elbows with the commons. Haughty daughters of rich, dysfunctional families with pedigree and bloodline and a lot of issues. Wealthy scholars who have the expectations and pressure of their parents poured into them.
I guess the question is, is there ROOM for this sort of character in WoW RP without either stepping all over the toes of canon or coming across as "MY CHARACTER IS SO AWESOME AND SO MUCH BETTER THAN YOURS." It's ironic because the very reason I ENJOY writing this sort of person is because they're such unpleasant but complex people, which appeals to me much more than the apple-cheeked do-gooder. I'm not trying to create a Mary Sue, but I'm aware that extravagant clothes and noble beauty and a haughty air can come across as those things.
I'd love to see some sort of coverage or article about social class and how a character fits into it and whether or not it's possible within lore and rp standards to play ALL different sorts of social classes, rather than just the same middle class average guy.
Responses welcome and appreciated!
Eversor Jan 5th 2009 7:40AM
To me, sounds like a good candidate for a blood elf. You will easily fit the arrogant person in a shell of an elf, since supremacist thinking is quite common to them, while they may have actually lost all of their wealth, social standing and power during the dark times of Quel'thalas. I don't really see any Mary Sue traits there.
Amelyra Jan 5th 2009 7:41AM
I can safely tell you that yes, there is room for this in WoW.
Naturally there will be people who will shun you right off the bat, either because they think you're being impolite and haughty in an out of character way, and there are plenty of people who even if they catch on that you're RPing, probably won't deal with you too much because of the attitude.
If you're willing to persist, however, you can definitely make it worth your while. There are all sorts of characters out there from my experience, and even avoiding the dreaded cliches will probably net you a few people that will interact with you. I imagine you'd even find a number of people who might dislike you in character, but will likely whisper you once they leave and say "That was really good, I'd be happy to run into you and RP with you again!" A lot of RPers, more than anything, are happy to find some kind of conflict. If you can provide a character that might not just agree with them completely, they'll probably find you interesting and come back.
From a lore perspective, this is entirely feasible as a character, too. The easiest examples I can think of would be either Humans or Blood Elves. For humans, it's implied that there's a noble caste in Stormwind from the whole Defias chain, and you could probably draw from that to make your dysfunctional noble family. There are plenty of other human lands that you could hail from which might even be better for that: If you were, say, a deposed noble from Alterac (which betrayed the Alliance during the Second War), you could easily pass yourself off as being arrogant and haughty, annoyed at the fact that you've lost your lands and many of your rights despite your attitude, and even get annoyed that you're forced to work with low-life Elwynn residents. Plenty of possibilities there. Blood Elves are a little less established, but given that they were once the Highborne of the Night Elf race, it's hard to imagine them as being anything less than noble. Given that the Scourge sacked most of their lands only a few years ago in the timeline, you could easily have had your family shattered or shaken there. And even the other races probably have some openings. Warcraft has a lot of land and a lot of lore to play around with, and it wouldn't be too hard to adapt a piece of it to your character without breaking any rules.
If you're looking for a place to give it a shot, I personally recommend Moon Guard as an RP server, but that statement is tainted by favortism since that's where I play. But of all the servers I've tried, I've had the best response and found the best RP community to be there, particularly on the Alliance side. There are plenty of other RP servers, though, and you might want to try poking around a few and seeing if any interest you.
Don't give up hope. This kind of character can work, and I've even seen it work. It's not even that difficult to do, and can end up creating a really fun character to RP and RP with... even if, ICly, you hate each others guts.
Sadrine Jan 5th 2009 9:15AM
Oh! There is plenty of room for snobs in wow. I happen to have one. o.o
I see a lot of Blood Elves like this, and man are they ever fun to RP with. One particular Paladin I RP with a lot has a great concept that I think makes him an interesting sort of Blood Elf snob; though the character grew up poor, his family were servants to the upper class of Society, so he's very preoccupied with the proper way of doing things, but still gets looked down at because of his class.
Personally I love haughty, snobby kinds of characters. My advice is to write a personality and history for the character you create and just jump right in!
If you're on MG, I'd be happy to introduce you to a few Blood Elven women would be delighted to take you shopping and to the spa, and complain about having to invite certain lower crusters to the Winter Veil ball. XD
David Bowers Jan 5th 2009 11:46AM
Yep, you can play a snobby character if you like. I think the key to it is trying to be snobby in such a way that it's clear you're only acting. You can kind of repel people and attract them at the same time by specifically choosing your moments of naughtiness to inflict the least amount of actual discomfort and unpleasentness as possible.
You know how it is -- you can get a sense if the people around you are willing to tolerate a bit of uncouth behavior and play along with it. If you catch people out of the blue with snootiness, they may not know what to make of you and just write you off onto their ignore list. As Amelyra said, you just have to be clear in one way or another, that the rudeness is in-character only.
Calybos Jan 5th 2009 6:00PM
Arrogant Blood Elves are definitely doable from an RP perspective.
We've got one in my guild on Silver Hand, and he's a lot of fun to interact with! My tauren warrior regularly refers to him as a "cute lil' guy" and musses his hair whenever the guild meets.
Aerie Jan 5th 2009 8:39AM
I'll always recommend Argent Dawn, at least EU side, for RP. As with any server, it has its jerks, and since it's the 5th most populated EU server (and the most populated RP server) they'll be more noticeable. The benefit is, though, you have some really long-standing RPers and guilds, as well as a huge variety of characters to see or RP with. I've briefly (briefly) flicked around on other servers, but nothing particularly caught me, though I used to find Moonglade interesting. Unfortunately, it was hard to get into RP as a low level anything, so I guess it takes some persistance.
Your noble idea *will* work, we have some over our end. They're typically humans, typically warlocks, but they can play off the arrogant noble with ease, without coming across as God. One particular, who I won't name, is famous for stepping on the lower classes, but when it comes to a fight she tends to get beaten down.
Sadrine Jan 5th 2009 9:15AM
I'll echo what others have said and say thank you for a great column. I find myself referencing your posts again and again when I feel I've hit a rut or feel like my characters aren't working the way they ought to.
And, I'd also like to say welcome to Moon Guard! Horde-side, if you'd like, I can help you get in touch with a community to find RP for your characters. Feel free to bug me in Dalaran if you want some RP. Granted the IC circles I run in are full of crooks and shady people, but...we're fun too. ^_^
David Bowers Jan 5th 2009 10:52AM
Thanks so much! My main is Alliance, but I have a Horde death knight I'd like to play. I don't get much time to play these days, but in the little I have, I'd like to meet more people in my new WoW home!
Madisona Jan 5th 2009 9:11AM
I'm still heavily anticipating the shaman article - especially the Draenei part. I've become totally addicted to this column. :D
David Bowers Jan 5th 2009 10:47AM
Yep! That'll be my next one, I think. I was going to write about shamans this week, but it was the New Year, so I thought a bit of reminiscing would be in order. :) Oh, how I love this column and you nice reader peoples. Sigh. :)
BanshihSWC Jan 5th 2009 10:57AM
WTB more David posts
David Bowers Jan 5th 2009 11:18AM
WTT more articles for more questions and ideas about RP! Have mats, just want more points of interest for readers!
BanshihSWC Jan 5th 2009 11:45AM
Honestly, mind me emailing you? I had an idea...
David Bowers Jan 5th 2009 12:03PM
Feel free! You can write to (dot)(at)weblogsinc(dot)com.
Or just write it here in a comment if you like. Maybe other readers would like to discuss it too.
BanshihSWC Jan 5th 2009 12:15PM
Erm....
The mail you posted doesnt seem to be working. Care to repost that?
I think you left out part of the email addy.