Ready Check: Communication for raid leaders

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One of the most difficult tasks any raid leader is going to face will be one of communication. Communication is a complex, ugly issue. It can be one of your strongest assets, but it can equally be your biggest downfall. This is because communication operates on two levels.
First, there's the obvious data-based communication. Things like "The next boss is named Anub'arak" are data-based. It's fact, unassailable, and fairly meaningful. Almost everyone's going to agree with quantifiable information. You're not going to round the corner of the instance, and find something that's not Anub'arak.
Second, however, is "shadow" communication. This is a level of communication that can be a great deal more complicated. In the absence of quantifiable information, the recipient will "read into" your words a whole series of meanings and concepts that you may not have intended. For example, "This next boss is Anub'arak, so you should get ready" can be interpreted as "Get ready because we're going right now" or "get ready by reading up on the boss strategies." Now, that's a fairly hyperbolized example, but it's a true one none-the-less. We've all had experience with "I didn't mean it like that" in our lives.
One of the oldest business cliches is that "Workers don't leave companies, they leave supervisors." While a raid leader isn't a supervisor in the same way as a business manager, some of the viable tips from the corporate world can still apply to raiding life. Let's take a look after the jump at some simple tips to enhance communication.
In the context of this post, I'm not necessarily talking about "on the spot" communication, but the overall level of trust and engagement between your raid leader and your raiders. This kind of meaningful communication will enhance your raid's trust and cohesion, and should hopefully prove for a longer, more successful raid team.
1. Pay attention to what your raiders tell you.
Sure, it seems like a simple thing to understand when a team member says, "I hate waiting around to find out if we have enough people to raid." That's a fairly simple statement at the surface.
But if your raiders are saying that more than a few times in a row, then you could be facing a more serious problem. Not only is their statement true, but the repetition of that kind of complaint implies "I hate waiting around and I'm not going to do it much longer."
Be honest when you listen to your raiders. It's easy to alt+tab and surf the web when they're talking to you, but resist that urge. Be present and real in the conversation, and actually try and engage in what the raider is telling you.
2. Make time for each person in your group.
It can be one hell of a task trying to talk to every active raider in your raid group. Some simple napkin-math says that if you talk to 24 raiders for 10 minutes a week, you're looking at a 4 hour commitment in raw communication. But, if you consider the standpoint that your raiders are also spending their valuable time and effort on the raid (maybe just as much as you), then 10 minutes a week doesn't seem unreasonable.
While you'll probably have to find a middle ground, taking time to communicate one-on-one with each of your raid members is going to be key to their longevity with your raiding effort. It stresses to them that you value their opinion and time, while allowing you the opportunity to satisfy the first tip: paying attention to what they say.
3. Ask engaging, maybe painful questions.
Few raid leaders want to ask "Where are my biggest failures in the raid as a leader, in your opinion?" It's a pretty harsh pill to swallow if a raid member opens up and tells you where they think your weaknesses are. But, still, you're getting two things out of doing so.
Again, just like we said in #2, this communicates to the raider that you value their opinion and knowledge. They're trusting you with their time and energy, so it seems fair to ask them whether they're seeing a return on that investment. It also channels purposeful, meaningful feedback to you without having ugliness crop up in the middle of a raid.
The other thing you'll get is another perspective. It's not only possible, but downright probable, that your raid's going to have perceptions and opinions different from your own. And while the raid decisions are usually up to the raid leader, having another approach to each problem will provide you more tools and better data to find your solutions.
4. When you make decisions, communicate in a predictable way.
Nothing frustrates team members more than finding out about decisions from an unexpected source. If you usually communicate decisions on an internet forum, it's bad form to announce the information on Ventrilo one night and leave it at that. You need to be consistent every time, to reinforce what channels of communication you're going to use.
If you announce raid lineups at the same time every week, your raid members will know that is the day to check the forums. This also provides you the opportunity to include other information at the same time, insuring your raiders will actually encounter it.
5. Be consistent about your message, goals, and values.
If you've been saying for two weeks that you're going to use DKP for a loot system, but spend hours chatting about how a loot reel would be pretty cool, you are guaranteed to confuse some of your raid members.
Sure, it seems somewhat restrictive to think that you have to monitor what you're saying even during "off times." But you don't stop being the raid leader just because you're not actively raiding. Your raid members will continue to look to you for information and guidance. Be aware that your communication will always be received, if your raiders are capable of seeing it.
6. Avoid surprises
This is somewhat on the tertiary side of communications, since expectations and surprises can be considered a leadership issue as much as a communication issue. Still, the idea that you should avoid "surprising" your raid members is a huge part of the "shadow" communication I was talking about before.
Not only are surprises bad for morale (and thus an instant failure to meet any existing expectation), they create a situation by which raiders have to figure out why the surprise happened.
Have you spontaneously changed loot rules? In the absence of contrary information, your raiders will wonder if maybe someone complained loudly enough that you capitulated. Or, they might wonder if there's a statistical reason you changed your loot system, maybe to benefit yourself.
Have you suddenly changed which instance you're going to do? Your raiders will speculate that maybe someone wasn't pulling their own weight. They'll wonder if you lack the faith to go further in content. Or, even worse, they might think you're "bored" with them, and might panic that you'll leave for greener pastures.
Avoiding surprises means you never have to mitigate the stories people make up for themselves.
Summary
Communication is pretty significant to any group. As you build your raid group and try to extend its longevity, keeping these communication tips should help you get a better, strong place. Good hunting out there.
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
Mike Oct 30th 2009 1:15PM
Mr. "50 DKP MINUS!!!" should really read this article ;)
Agerath Oct 30th 2009 1:35PM
That would be Mr. Dives of Wipe Club
(cutaia) Oct 30th 2009 2:21PM
That guy's accent is so awesome, I'd be in his raid just to hear him yell at me.
Arbitor Oct 30th 2009 2:39PM
He fought in a war at some point I believe, I remember reading it at some point in an interview with him.
Apparently he speaks to raiders the same way he speaks to his platoon, to enforce the same discipline in them as they're army does.
I would, in all honesty, love to raid under his leadership.
Kyle Oct 30th 2009 1:36PM
this is actually a very well written article on raid leadership, kudos.
ZMES_Matt Oct 30th 2009 1:44PM
Great article. Very constructive.
Semadar Oct 30th 2009 2:23PM
Great article.
I've been raid leading for about a year for my guild and have used most if not all of these tips.
One thing I have found helps me is to lay out my method of leading via forum post prior to anything. It's stickied and all raiders and new members are required to read this.
In my post, I overview how I handle screwups, wipes, and all other things. This way there aren't any surprises when I call someone out. Then I lay out how I explain fights. I tend to break things down by role. Tank/Heals/Melee/Range. So if I have to explain a fight to one person, I don't need to go over every little detail. From there I layout how afk breaks are handled, when we speed pull, how loot is handled, so forth so on. With all my little quirks and methods laid out in a post, even new raiders know what to expect with me as their leader. I think this cuts down a lot on the "shadow" communication by being clear in the very beginning. And if a new raider hasn't read the post, he/she doesn't get to raid that week. :)
On communication, I think it also helps to throw out quick compliments every now and then. I constantly /whisper things like "Hey, great dps on that last fight. Keep it up!" or /whisper "I noticed you changed 3 points in your spec, your heals/dps/threat/etc has become much more efficient. I appreciate the time you are putting into your class." Things like this let your raiders know you are paying attention to the good and not just the bad. I think a lot of RL's fail in that manner.
Tim Oct 30th 2009 3:01PM
There are so many RL parallels to a raid leader. In a nutshell you are the 'leader' or I like to look at it as a project manager (as that's what I do in RL), for a virtual team. This is very hard to do well. (Well being the key word). What is also true is that the same values and skills in real life are 100% pertinent to raid leading and communication.
Clear and consistent communication is key and each person needs more or less attention, just like in RL. There will be the blockers, the enablers, the negative glass half full people, the naysayers, the trouble makers etc.
There is no single model either. I've seen it where the leader takes care of almost everything him/herself and others that have a leadership council. I've seen both work and both fail.
Really wanted to comment on the feedback from others , as i did this formally as part of an evaluation. Feedback from people above, same level and below you. The responses you get back will amaze you. (Ever watch a show and the person that says "I'm the best public speaker in the world" , ends up being horrible?). There's a lot of that in evaluations. But take it in moderation as some will be true and others not so true. What is also helpful is to take a Briggs and Myers test. Not only for your own personality, but it will help you understand and identify other personalities and help in the best ways to communicate with them.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers-Briggs_Type_Indicator
I can tell you since I PM in RL, When I'm raiding it's like deja-vu, I have no urge to go back to raid leader. :).
Cheers.
curtisrutland Oct 30th 2009 2:15PM
Conversely.
Dear raiders,
I understand you each have individual concerns. I want to hear each of your suggestions, and discuss how effective it might be. Honestly, I do. But not in the middle of the raid, in the middle of a boss fight.
Anyway, that being said, I want you all to understand the pressures and challenges we leaders face. Understand that just because you suggest something, doesn't mean that we will do it. And it's not because I don't like you or don't like to hear your suggestions. It may not be the best idea that fits with our play style or group though.
I want you to all understand that there are politics at play, no matter how drama free a guild is. Actually, understand that the more drama free it is, the harder we are working to try to keep everyone happy, and the more stressed we probably are when any hint of drama shows. We honestly want to create a great raiding environment, but we can't please everyone. Sometimes, personalities or ideas will clash, and we have to make a decision. We don't like to, but we have to, and we'd ask you to respect that.
Canceling raids or leaving people out of raids is easily the hardest thing we have to do. We want you to know that it's not because we don't respect you as a raider or person, it's that we only have 10 spots, and 15 people that signed up, or 25 slots with 35 raiders. Or maybe we only have 18 people online for that 25 man. We honestly hate it, and we understand your anger that you get left out. Please don't take it out on us, just because we made a hard decision. It eats at us at least as much as it does at you.
What I'm asking from you raiders is patience. Know that we have a difficult job. Understand how hard it is to actually organize 25 people with different classes and jobs. Understand that we don't control everyone's latency and internet connections and bladders, and don't rage on us when we're sitting around while someone is AFK/DC'd. Understand that we take a little extra time to make sure that we are getting things right. Know that we may not have played end-game content on every class, so we don't necessarily have a full understanding of some roles, and we need a little extra time to figure it out. All we ask is your patience, and your help in creating a great raid environment. Do your best, and remember, that's what we're trying to do too. But we have to do what you're doing, and monitor the rest of the raid at the same time.
Love,
Your raid leader.
Dave Oct 30th 2009 2:49PM
This. Very much this.
Andostre Oct 30th 2009 6:15PM
I used to be a raid leader, and I loved that role, and I loved my guild, but trying to make everyone happy, and dealing with unhappy people who never understood the sentiments curtisrutland laid out burned me out of WoW entirely for about 9 or 10 months.
If I ever want to raid again, and if I apply to a raiding guild, I'll put in a line like, "Other qualifications: I used to be a raid leader and guild officer/GM. I don't say this to imply that that's what I want to do, again, but to tell you that I do have that sort of experience. I understand the frustrations that the roles can have, and as a raider/guild member, I would understand the importance of communication (especially from the leaders to the raiders) and the necessity of patience. I already know how much extra time and effort those roles put into making a successful raid/guild, and I would respect that time and effort as a member.
Darque Oct 30th 2009 6:54PM
I would have to second Androste...I used to lead raids for a mostly casual guild. I don't anymore. I love raiding, I love my current RL, and I understand the difficulties she goes through weekly...
But raiders should be encouraged to read Curtisrutland's statement...raiding is as much the raiders as the leaders, and you need understanding and communication from both sides for successful raids.
Sleutel Oct 30th 2009 11:08PM
7. If you need to give criticism to a particular raid member, give it to them specifically (in private)--don't address it to the raid as a whole.
Bad: /raid People need to stop standing in the fire.
Good: /w Failguildie You need to stop standing in the fire.
When you address the group with criticism that should go to a single player, (a) it's not fair to the people who are doing it right, and (b) the person who needs to improve is almost never going to think the comment was aimed at them.