The Stonewall Family is October's Guild of the Month
Our November Guild of the Month contest is still ongoing, but today is the day we unveil October's winner. But before I do that, I want to tell all of the entrants that you shouldn't get discouraged. We get a lot of great entries every month, and if you didn't win in October, enter for November! If you don't win in November, stay vigilant and enter in December. This contest isn't going away.
October's winner, The Stonewall Family, is walking away with a $100 gift certificate from Swagdog, where you can pick up all sorts of custom guild apparel. Rather than trying to tell you about them myself, I'll leave it up to the guild to do it. Who knows them better?
Our History
Our meta-guild, The Stonewall Family, originally started as a single guild – La Familia de Stonewall. It was founded in late 2007 by a handful of friends who had tried other gay/lesbian/bi/transgender and LGBT-friendly raiding guilds... but always felt they were somewhat lost in the shuffle, and never really felt a sense of "family". They wanted to start a guild where the social aspects of play and friendships were the most important factor, and where they would be able to avoid any anti-lgbt harassment. From that small group of friends, we have grown to a "meta-guild" of over 700 members across 5 sub-guilds today. [La Familia De Stonewall, The Family of Stonewall, Stonewall Rioters, Die Familie von Stonewall, La Banque de Stonewall]
Who we are and what we do
One of the guild's biggest strengths is that its membership is extremely diverse and live pretty much everywhere. The guild has large numbers of members in every US time zone, as well as Canada, the UK, Australia, and many other locations around the globe.
We also have a high number of members who are not LGBT – but enjoy being part of the family and gaming with our members. Getting to know members from all over the world and from different backgrounds is one of the most enjoyable parts of being in The Stonewall Family.
The guild has an open application process, and does not require prospective members to have specific gear, or fit a class need. They just need to understand the mission of the guild, and be comfortable with being a part of our community.
Within our membership, there are people who like to focus on many different aspects of WoW; PvP, the most current raid content, pre-BC instances, casual questing, achievement chasing. It all has a home within The Stonewall Family.
Friendships are easy to find within the guild, and there's pretty much always someone online to help with quests, heroics, dailies, or just to hang out and have fun within a harassment-free environment. The guild's leadership stresses the family aspect of our guild above all; they want our members to be able to feel part of the family when they game with us, have others to talk to, lean on, and help. It's easy sometimes in Azeroth to feel you are "on your own" and we try as a guild to be there for each other, both in game and with real-life issues.
The Stonewall Family currently has 4 guild leaders who share management responsibility, and a team of 8 active officers and senior members to help with day to day operations. There is also a dedicated in game channel for recruits and members to be able to reach out to an officer easily, even if they don't know who's available.
Our guild participates in publicity and outreach for causes that are important to the LGBT community on a regular basis (National Coming Out Day, World Aids Day) --- and we proudly co-sponsor the annual realm-wide Proudmoore Pride Parade with our horde-side sister guild Taint. We've recently started up two streaming internet radio stations for our members to listen to while gaming, and expanded from our website to additional social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter in order to create as many ways as possible to communicate and network with our members and let prospective members know about us.
What the Future Holds
The Stonewall Family is continuing to grow and expand our membership and is looking forward to all of the changes the next expansion will bring. We will be sticking to our mission of being a fun and harassment free environment for LGBT or LGBT-friendly players who want to join us. We're also working to put together a guild newsletter via email, and an online merchandise store. The guild actively works on putting together regional and national meet-ups for members to get to meet in person and hang out together. A social mixer at Blizzcon will definitely be a priority for 2010.
Thanks to those who've gotten us here
We're very thankful to those who've been part of the guild's success and pushed us farther. Our current guild leaders – Ginjack, Grinbley, Parris & PerfectEnemy – are a huge part of why we've been able to grow and keep on track. We're also thankful to the guild's original founders -- including our original founding member, Joe aka Trinaselff/Arboretum. One of the main reasons people join us and stay is that it really does feel like family.
Editor's Note: Comments are open, but they are being monitored. Differing opinions are acceptable. Hate speech is not, either for or against. Be careful that you do not cross that line.
October's winner, The Stonewall Family, is walking away with a $100 gift certificate from Swagdog, where you can pick up all sorts of custom guild apparel. Rather than trying to tell you about them myself, I'll leave it up to the guild to do it. Who knows them better?
Our History
Our meta-guild, The Stonewall Family, originally started as a single guild – La Familia de Stonewall. It was founded in late 2007 by a handful of friends who had tried other gay/lesbian/bi/transgender and LGBT-friendly raiding guilds... but always felt they were somewhat lost in the shuffle, and never really felt a sense of "family". They wanted to start a guild where the social aspects of play and friendships were the most important factor, and where they would be able to avoid any anti-lgbt harassment. From that small group of friends, we have grown to a "meta-guild" of over 700 members across 5 sub-guilds today. [La Familia De Stonewall, The Family of Stonewall, Stonewall Rioters, Die Familie von Stonewall, La Banque de Stonewall]
Who we are and what we do
One of the guild's biggest strengths is that its membership is extremely diverse and live pretty much everywhere. The guild has large numbers of members in every US time zone, as well as Canada, the UK, Australia, and many other locations around the globe.
We also have a high number of members who are not LGBT – but enjoy being part of the family and gaming with our members. Getting to know members from all over the world and from different backgrounds is one of the most enjoyable parts of being in The Stonewall Family.
The guild has an open application process, and does not require prospective members to have specific gear, or fit a class need. They just need to understand the mission of the guild, and be comfortable with being a part of our community.
Within our membership, there are people who like to focus on many different aspects of WoW; PvP, the most current raid content, pre-BC instances, casual questing, achievement chasing. It all has a home within The Stonewall Family.
Friendships are easy to find within the guild, and there's pretty much always someone online to help with quests, heroics, dailies, or just to hang out and have fun within a harassment-free environment. The guild's leadership stresses the family aspect of our guild above all; they want our members to be able to feel part of the family when they game with us, have others to talk to, lean on, and help. It's easy sometimes in Azeroth to feel you are "on your own" and we try as a guild to be there for each other, both in game and with real-life issues.
The Stonewall Family currently has 4 guild leaders who share management responsibility, and a team of 8 active officers and senior members to help with day to day operations. There is also a dedicated in game channel for recruits and members to be able to reach out to an officer easily, even if they don't know who's available.
Our guild participates in publicity and outreach for causes that are important to the LGBT community on a regular basis (National Coming Out Day, World Aids Day) --- and we proudly co-sponsor the annual realm-wide Proudmoore Pride Parade with our horde-side sister guild Taint. We've recently started up two streaming internet radio stations for our members to listen to while gaming, and expanded from our website to additional social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter in order to create as many ways as possible to communicate and network with our members and let prospective members know about us.
What the Future Holds
The Stonewall Family is continuing to grow and expand our membership and is looking forward to all of the changes the next expansion will bring. We will be sticking to our mission of being a fun and harassment free environment for LGBT or LGBT-friendly players who want to join us. We're also working to put together a guild newsletter via email, and an online merchandise store. The guild actively works on putting together regional and national meet-ups for members to get to meet in person and hang out together. A social mixer at Blizzcon will definitely be a priority for 2010.
Thanks to those who've gotten us here
We're very thankful to those who've been part of the guild's success and pushed us farther. Our current guild leaders – Ginjack, Grinbley, Parris & PerfectEnemy – are a huge part of why we've been able to grow and keep on track. We're also thankful to the guild's original founders -- including our original founding member, Joe aka Trinaselff/Arboretum. One of the main reasons people join us and stay is that it really does feel like family.
Editor's Note: Comments are open, but they are being monitored. Differing opinions are acceptable. Hate speech is not, either for or against. Be careful that you do not cross that line.
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 9)
Tyler Nov 20th 2009 2:12PM
Congratulations on GotM!
epic Nov 21st 2009 9:38AM
woot much luv to Stonewall...can we have WG back now...we have things to do..and to all the other "friendly" guilds on Proudmoore, your rosters may not be as big but you are all just as important for someone to call home...i luv you guys...call me
Erin Nov 20th 2009 2:12PM
Yay for them! I usually just don't bring it up in game that I'm a lesbian, but there have been several times where guild members or people in trade will start saying some pretty terrible things about lesbians. I'm faced with the choice of either confronting them and possibly outing myself, which runs the risk of ruining my playing with the guild, or just sitting back and ignoring it. It's nice to see that a guild like this could get so large. Go Team!
Also, props to posting this on Transgender Day of Remembrance.
raskin.james Nov 20th 2009 2:18PM
We are a very positive family. You should check us out. They made me feel so comfortable with being who I am.
SaintStryfe Nov 20th 2009 2:20PM
Amen. I had a good friend who was TG. She ended up killing her self. It is a rough existance. And I also dig being "that guy" who tells people not to make gay slanders. My friends kind of have to keep tabs that I'm not getting self righteous about it.
Amerion Nov 20th 2009 2:52PM
We have a rapidly growing female community in our guild as well
AudreyR Nov 20th 2009 3:06PM
Grats guys. Actually, this write up has convinced me to join up on my low-leveled characters. Except, once I fill out the info and hit submit, it times out.
And grats again. It's fantastic that you got GotM!
grammarofskin Nov 20th 2009 3:50PM
if my guild wasn't already so amazing and lgbt-friendly, then i would definitely be over at proudmoore with you guys, after hearing so many amazing things. Congrats to you all and a shoutout to Daughters of the Alliance on Bronzebeard. Represent.
Kylenne Nov 20th 2009 3:59PM
I'm bi, and let me tell you, re-rolling on Proudmoore was the best thing I ever did on WoW. I don't have to self-censor anymore when talking about my relationship status or history, for fear of either bringing out the drooling "hurrrr girlongirl is hawt" douchebags or the outright 'phobes. It wasn't until I came to this server and found a friendly guild that I finally felt like I could relax and enjoy myself. It seriously breathed new life into a game I was ready to quit, and now my GF totally wants to play after hearing tales of how awesome the guilds are here.
I'm Horde but I've got alts in La Familia and I highly recommend it to any lgbt folks looking for a home. Taint also, Horde-side. It's so worth re-rolling or the cost of a transfer.
Jason Nov 20th 2009 4:07PM
This has prompted my first wow.com comment. I am so happy for the Stonewall Family and so proud of wow.com for choosing them as Guild of the Month. As a player who has, like many, to face the homophobia that pervades much of gaming culture and the language that gamers use, I am so happy to see an LGBTQ -Friendly guild doing well. I am also encouraged by their recognition by one of the leading sources of information in the WoW community. Kudos to you, Stonewall and wow.com!
fasty Nov 20th 2009 2:15PM
Hooray for Stonewall!
Love, Taint
ash Nov 20th 2009 3:41PM
Yay for them using the name Stonewall. That name has a proud tradition of fight back.
JLocke Nov 20th 2009 2:15PM
congrats on GoTM! Its good to see some diversity in the game :)
was wondering, and I mean no offense, I know Proudmoore is known for its GLBT culture, is this recently new? or has it been around since the server started?
anyways, congrats again!
Spiritfox Nov 20th 2009 2:33PM
Proudmoore is about as gay as it gets. For real.
zornista Nov 20th 2009 2:41PM
proudmoore is the one server where i am hit on UNTIL i say i am female. it's magical, i love it.
anyway, i am a former stonewall family member but i will say that my time in the guild was incredibly pleasant and that they were extremely good people. i am glad that they won.
Tyler Nov 20th 2009 3:19PM
Well John, and might I add I always had the feeling you'd be a tolerant man, this server has been the 'unnofficial' GLBT server for quite some time. Pre BC indeed. Side note that you might be interested in, it is also the 'unnoffical' Australian player server. I know how much you love the Aussies.
raskin.james Nov 20th 2009 2:18PM
This is truly a fantastic family. I'm proud to be a member.
Quorniya Nov 20th 2009 2:23PM
Yaaaaaay Stonewall Family! Your Horde LGBT brothers and sisters in the Spreading Taint congratulate you! Go go Proudmoore!
linkers746 Nov 20th 2009 2:40PM
Well, that makes me want to make a joke about your guild name, but i feel it would be in bad taste.
Grats on GotM, Stonewall Family
Ginjack Nov 20th 2009 2:24PM
Thanks to Alex, Wowinsider, and our members -- we truly appreciate the recognition guys! And thanks to all of the members who make our guild a great place to play in.