@makebooms

Sounds like she just needs the right guild.

Our guild runs as thus: almost anyone can join as long as they're reasonably mature, ie, we're not interesting in 13 year olds that act like idiots. Or 30 year olds that act like idiots. There are standards if you want to come on raids (as there should be). But if you don't noone cares what your gear or build is or what you do with your time.

We have one pally who logs on a few times a week, chats in guild and runs strath over and over for the mount. We sometimes take him on heroics and things to get him some gear but mostly he just does his own thing. Now if he wanted to raid with us, we'd point him in the direction of our pally class leader and have them work out where he needs to get to before that's going to happen. But doing as he is, he's fine.

Honestly I don't know WHY guilds are so obsessed with every member being elite or whatever. We have our raid teams and yeah, those you might not get into until you reach a certain level.. but if you want to hang out in gchat and have fun doing random stuff around the world on your own or with a couple others, why would anyone mind?