WoW, Casually: A spring invitation to students who raid
Robin Torres writes WoW, Casually for the player with limited playtime. This week we invite raiders who are in school to join us and try out being a casual.
Because our esteemed editor-in-chief was on NPR's "On Point" last week, I gave it a listen. As expected, the show took a few calls from people who are completely incapable of balancing their work and playtime -- people whose lives were "ruined by WoW." There was also the person who said that "you can't do anything without 24 other people," which we know is absolutely not the case. And the one that really caught my attention: the psychologist who gets panicked calls every spring from parents whose teens are playing so much WoW that they aren't going to pass.
It fascinates me that this is seasonal and also so last-minute. Additionally, I am curious as to whether there are other activities that get in the way during the spring that psychologists also get frantic calls about. I remember it being so hard to focus in the spring while in school -- even in a climate that doesn't have seasons. Summer is looming on the horizon with vacation, new opportunities and huge life changes. We're just looking for distractions at that time. For graduating students, it's called senioritis and it's been called that long before we had computers in our homes to play games. Regardless, it's an issue. But rather than risk screwing up opportunities for the rest of your life just to keep up with your raiding, it's time to give being casual a try. Here's why and how.
Why not just go cold turkey and quit WoW until summer?
Leisure time is important. All work and no play really isn't good for you. You need the mental downtime and the stress release. So even if you are behind on your studies, you should still be spending some of your waking hours playing at something. I highly recommend doing something active outdoors as well, but spending an hour or two in WoW every once in a while is a cheap, convenient way to unwind.
You need to learn discipline. Whether you are in high school or college, you are still living in a kind of sheltered environment. When you are off on your own, without the safety net of an institution designed to cater to your every need, it will be up to you to balance your life successfully. And if you fail? You risk losing your job, home, etc. Right now, you only risk having to repeat classes and attend extra sessions. Take advantage of the safety net to learn the habits you need now so that it will be easier later.
You can always return to raiding. You have the skills and at this point in the game, you should be pretty well geared. Raiding will be there when you have completed your classes successfully for this term. And if you handled it correctly, your guild will probably let you have your old raid spot back pretty quickly.
How do I go casual and still have fun?
Plan your time. Make a schedule that allows for a healthy amount of sleep and all of your mandatory activities. Allow yourself blocks of time for WoW play sessions during evenings where your next day's workload is light and on weekends. Your schedule should be flexible enough to allow for heavier study loads and project due dates. Make your WoW sessions shorter when necessary. Yes, you need leisure time, but you can do without for a day to get higher priorities taken care of.
You may still be able to raid once a week. Your raid nights are probably week nights. But take an intelligent look at your schedule. Some days are probably lighter workloads than others. Be smart about it and if you think you can raid on Tuesdays because your Wednesday schedule is usually pretty light, then do it. But if the wipes start getting out of control or other activities are encouraged after the main raid, find yourself a replacement and bail. Don't play past your scheduled end time.
Communicate with your guild. Let your guild know that you have to buckle down and get to studying, and therefore you'll be going casual for a bit. They will understand and be able to adjust accordingly. And if they don't? It's not the right guild for you, considering your age and educational status. The good raiding guilds will have a status reserved just for raiders who have to go casual and procedures in place for when this happens. There are plenty of top notch progression guilds that successfully have real lives. These are also the guilds that you want to belong to when you get a full time job.
Don't just do dailies and weeklies. Sure, they're great for players with limited playtime, but you want a variety to keep it fun. This game is what you make of it. Captain Obvious says if all you do is tedium, the game is tedious.
Roll an alt. Yeah, with all this Cataclysm news, rolling an alt seems irrelevant. But I promise it's still fun if you do it right. Come join us in <It came from the Blog>, where you will find other raiders hanging out when they aren't worrying about progression. The popularity of Choose My Adventure means that there is often someone there leveling and wanting to chat. Or go level through the content that is going to change in other ways. Which reminds me...
Make a bucket list. Surely you have some non-raiding things you want to accomplish before the next expansion. Make a list and check it twice before it's too late.
There is a lot more casual fun to be had. I already listed it a lot of it here.
But don't just listen to me. Our seasoned readers who manage to have fun during their limited playtime year round can also give you some tips for having fun in shorter sessions. Check out the comments for more advice while you are "slumming it" with us.
Finishing school with the best grades possible is so much more important than helping your guild progress through content. Duh. And though it seems interminable now, it really is such a short part of your life. You will most likely regret not taking advantage of what school provides later on. But the same cannot be said about getting some shiny pixels. So come join us for a season, while you get your academic act together. We don't have cooties and we won't hold those nasty comments you made about our playstyle against you ... much.
Filed under: Analysis / Opinion, WoW, Casually






Reader Comments (Page 1 of 2)
Bat Masterson Apr 8th 2010 10:20PM
Post an MST3K short every day, plz
Chilblain Apr 8th 2010 11:09PM
EDIT: Post a *Joel* MST3K every day, plz.
Harbl Apr 9th 2010 2:59PM
plz we all know Mike is the superior host
Cyanea Apr 8th 2010 10:20PM
I think that the myth about raiders having no life outside of the game is just that: a myth. Sure, if you can't dedicate five nights a week to the game, you might not be pulling World First Hardmodes, but I'm in a guild that raids two nights a week, we're 8/12 in ICC and making good progress and I do it all with a 18-credit courseload this year.
It comes down to time management. Homework gets done before raid time, and I spend weekends working on assignments. Weeknights are WoW time.
matthewggrammer Apr 9th 2010 4:45AM
And when do you get around to enjoying college?
Kira Apr 9th 2010 6:20AM
As they said, time management. Its possible to go to college, have a part time job, spend time with family, do homework, play wow, and still get 90s. It just takes mad time management skills. Someone in my class is doing it and it blows my mind lol.
Hélio Apr 8th 2010 10:21PM
I'm myself a raider for over 5 year and have suffered from this problem occasionally, as a psychologist student there are 2 things that for me help control the play time.
- Having a goal in game before you log, basically ask yourself what you are going to do in this session of wow with the time you have for gaming. From my experience and also by watching other players i suspect when people don't got any goal in game during their play sessions they tend to play more, eventually using the time from other activities.
- Set your in game expectations according to the time you got available to play the game.
Dave Apr 8th 2010 10:42PM
MST 3000. Best. Show. Ever.
Really wish they'd bring it back :(
Jim Apr 8th 2010 11:09PM
Check out RiffTrax -- it's the same guys from MST3k, and they make fun of newly released movies.
Kylenne Apr 8th 2010 11:22PM
The Rifftrax for Twilight/New Moon are the ONLY way to sit through that crap. I died laughing nonstop.
popkin Apr 8th 2010 11:59PM
There's also Cinematic Titanic which has Joel and The Mads riffing on old movies.
Saeadame Apr 8th 2010 10:46PM
Balancing life vs. WoW can be occasionally challenging. My problem, actually, is I go through periods where I find it hard to stop playing and then periods where I find it hard to start playing again. For instance, last term I stopped playing entirely around exam time. Not to say I didn't have leisure, but I played Majora's Mask on the Wii instead of WoW. Then, I found I couldn't start playing again, even once exams were over and I was on a break. I was out of the habit, and dailies, weeklies, etc. seemed mind-numbingly boring. Since this was Christmas time and ICC had only just come out, there was obviously a lot I could have been doing in terms of gear upgrades if I had just done my dailies/weeklies/raid pugging.
And, naturally, I got back into WoW... just in time for classes to start up again. Now that classes are ending and exams will be coming up again, I'm wondering if I should just go with the same strategy I did before. Going "cold turkey" certainly bumped my exam grades, I'm sure, and this time of year I can do things like, oh, go outside for leisure instead of sitting in my room all the time.
All and all, good advice, but I think I'll have to stick to the tried-and-true method of not playing during exams. It's just too easy to while the day away without hardly realising.
Entaro Apr 8th 2010 11:07PM
I'd rather ruin my life than go Casual.
Catacomb Kid Apr 9th 2010 1:07AM
This is a shameful attitude, and not appropriate or helpful to the subject at hand. Respect other people's lives, even if you don't respect your own. People may be reading this looking for real help as to how to bring their WoW habits under control, and your cavalier remark for cheap laughs, or whatever your motivation was, is not appropriate for this comment section.
airman_dopey Apr 9th 2010 1:36AM
Yay. Another idiot that will be collecting my tax money as welfare checks
Entaro Apr 9th 2010 2:01AM
My apologies, I'm not really sure what I was thinking when I posted that.
BritishBulldog Apr 9th 2010 2:40AM
You were probably thinking:
'I'd rather ruin my life than go Casual'
Just sayin
Blaubard Apr 9th 2010 8:15AM
Kudos for apologizing, Entaro. We all say stupid things at times but I wish we had the guts like you to openly acknowledge our mistakes.
Amrytale Apr 8th 2010 11:10PM
I started playing WoW during my second year of law school, at a law school famous for having a very, very difficult third-year curriculum. While I did not start raiding until after I graduated, I manage to balance being a busy appellate attorney and state prosecutor with being a raid leader. I can only read 3-4 nights a week, and I raid fairly late (9-1, my time, which is 2 hours ahead of my server). I'm also married to a wonderful woman and enjoy a normal social life.
WoW is like any other activity, but gets scapegoated because it's a "game." If the kids were out drinking Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights, well, that's "normal college life" and OK so long as it doesn't influence studies and grades. If they were playing intramural sports or on the debate team or any other sort of activity, that wouldn't be frowned upon like video gaming is because it's still seen as a socially unacceptable hobby.
If you ask me, that's a silly notion to have. A hobby is a hobby is a hobby, and whether it's playing pickup baseball, WoW, or collecting stamps, it can be a bad thing if it stops being a hobby and becomes more important than our responsibilities.
Hal Apr 9th 2010 7:36AM
Everything you said is spot on. I've seen plenty of fellow students fail classes due to other video games, excessive drinking/socializing, or because playing their respective sport took too much time away from studying. I say "took," but the fact is that a lot of these people would've found another way to fill that time.
If you're actively avoiding real-life commitments to play WoW, or engage in any other escape, it's worth it to take some time for self-reflection to figure out why. Is it a problem with pulling yourself away from the game? Is the game meeting needs that aren't being met in the real world? Is there dissatisfaction with your life as it currently stands?
In any case, the original purpose of this article is sound as far as I'm concerned. There's no reason to shoot yourself in the foot during finals, even if your guild is 9/12 for ICC hard modes and you'll get dropped if you don't make every session every week. Real life always comes first, and there's always an audience that needs to hear it.