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4-23-2010 @ 1:48PM
@Boz and Catacomb kid. I hope the fact that you now realize that it's possible for them to be wrong will make you go back and look more critically at some of the advice they have given in the past. It's amazing how different the world looks when you stop drinking the Kool-aid.The problem with the advice in this case is that it confuses intention with behavior. It only makes sense to focus on the relationship when it's mutual. There is nothing mutual about anything these two people are doing that is beyond random coincidence. Psst, Lisa: a friendship is not a marriage. I'm not even sure there is an actual friendship in this case. BTW, the "chill out" part was seriously rude. Seriously.
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