WoW Rookie: 10 ways to meet other new players

Come out, come out, wherever you are ... We know you're out there leveling! The dungeon finder feature isn't the only way to meet new and leveling players – in fact, it's one of the worst, since you'll only occasionally be paired off with another player from your home realm. Today's WoW makes it possible to scuttle from the auction house to the dungeon finder without forming any lasting relationships to speak of at all. Here at WoW Rookie, we're all about enjoying the journey, rather than racing for the finish line. Let's go over the best ways, then, to join up with folks you can adventure with along the way. In ascending order:
10. Hit the dungeon finder. We know, we just said the dungeon finder is not a great way to make friends. It's not. That said, we've heard more than one tale of players who transferred realms to play with friends they met through the dungeon finder. You're more likely to find a compatible group for the length of a single evening than a permanent partnership that persists over the levels -- but hey, it could happen.
9. Try the random battleground finder. It's the PvP version of the dungeon finder system. You're not likely to meet as many players from your own neck of the woods, but it's a start.
8. Recruit a friend. There's nothing like a built-in leveling partner. In case you hadn't heard, you get a pretty sweet two-seater rocket from the Recruit-A-Friend program these days. We'll show you how RAF works. Have friend, have rocket ... will travel.
7. Try a classic raid. Classic raiding (groups that stop leveling at level 60 or level 70 to pursue vanilla- or Burning Crusade-era raiding content) won't last long for you if you're just passing through on your way up. Still, if there's a classic group that takes puggers on your realm, you'll get a chance to meet some of the locals and snag an invaluable introduction to raiding, too.
6. Group up with the level 80s for some retro raiding. It's more likely that you'll be able to hook up with a group of retro raiders -- essentially, classic raiders without the strict level restrictions. While some groups may insist that raiders be level 80 or fully raid-experienced, plenty of other groups seem quite happy to take on any player who meets the general level and gear requirements for the instance in question. Anecdotally, you're likely to find the latter type of group to be filled with savvy but relaxed players out to squeeze as much fun out the game as possible -- well nigh a perfect choice for a new player seeking to meet people. (Looking for a group? Ping The Classifieds.)5. Join WoW.com readers and staff for in-game adventures. Follow along with a growing number of WoW.com staffers playing in our Choose My Adventure series on US Zangarmarsh-H. The WoW.com-based guild there, <It came from the Blog>, is filled with players of all levels.
4. Talk it up. Say hello to other players who are doing the same kill quests in your area and invite them to group up to speed things along. Chat with others in the local zone channel. Don't be afraid to ask more experienced players for help.
3. Hang out in old world towns. Sure, Dalaran is a convenient place to set your hearth, but spend time conducting your actual business in an old world center. The pace is a little slower and a little more personal, and of course you'll be rubbing elbows with players of all levels there.
2. Craft stuff, and buy crafted stuff. You have no farther to look than this week's Random Acts of Uberness for an example of how trading with others can build personal connections. Don't keep your nose stuck in the auction house.1. Join a leveling guild. At some point, even social butterflies who meet other players at the drop of an emote should consider teaming up with other players in a more structured way by joining a leveling guild -- by far the best way to forge friendships as you level up.
What ways of meeting other players have worked for you over the levels?
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 2)
Cyrannos Apr 29th 2010 9:27AM
Leveling is one of the greatest way to meet people and get to know them better. Even though im a raider myself, i tend to join "social leveling" guilds while i level. I highly suggest this to new players.
I think the rest of the tips aren't really the best way, dungeons used to be a good way to get to know each other. But these days its in and out.
Also a good suggestion would be server choice that is wearing the "New Players" nameplate.
Good luck to all new players and have fun!
messiahxi Apr 29th 2010 9:28AM
Maybe its just me, but I've found "Leveling Guilds" to be rather useless. I can't recall ever finding a questing partner through them or really getting much help at all. All I get is solo leveling with a bunch of strangers in gchat. Maybe I'm unlucky, or just anti-social...
Kemikalkadet Apr 29th 2010 10:55AM
Depends how you use them and the pot luck of picking one with some nice people in it. If you hope to find a levelling guild where you'll always be able to quest alongside guildies and get help whenever you need it you'll probably be dissapointed. The best use of a leveling guild is just to chat and make friends with peple on your server. When you all hit endgame you'll have a good pool of friends to run dungeons and raids with.
I came back to wow at the start of wrath after a long-ish break and started completely afresh. I found a nice levelling guild that i stayed with from around level 30 until i hit 80 and mainly just used it to chat to people. Probably 90% of my levelling was done solo, with the occaisional dungeon run with some guildies but i made some good mates there. When a few of us hit 80 we ended up forming our own raiding guild together which has been going strong ever since. Maybe i'm an exception and i got really lucky, but using a levelling guild more as a social networking tool than a 'lets help each other play all the time' thing really helped me get settled on the server and get into the community.
Michael Martine Apr 29th 2010 11:03AM
Just because a guild says it's a leveling guild doesn't mean it's any good. I went through several guilds before lucking into a great one where the folks are friendly, helpful, and eager to join up and have fun. The similar level folks help each other on quests and the high level players help the low level players level up in dungeons.
Deke Apr 29th 2010 9:32AM
Roll a tank and offer to take DPS along with you for no charge when queueing in the dungeon finder.
I have met more DPS on my server who were very grateful to insta queue.
Say hello while you are in the instance and maybe even tarry a little to chat.
BigBadGooz Apr 29th 2010 9:44AM
Waif does that mean that you have charged people to tank que.... Ur one of those guys
Deke Apr 29th 2010 9:58AM
I have never taken a single copper for tanking through randoms.
I have had offers and had toons try to tip me, but I figure I am going anyway, might as well have some company from my own server.
I have gotten kudos for taking anyone and everyone and for not charging.
My message... "Tank about to queue for a random [heroic]. PST if you would like to tag along.
Usually get 2-3 responses in 15-20 seconds.
I do not use gearscore and only use recount so I know who to put vig on.
nieboh Apr 29th 2010 9:44AM
" Join WoW.com readers and staff for in-game adventures."
It may just be a matter of perception, but it feels like the wow.com staff events are _always_ horde. Maybe there are some alliance ones I haven't noticed but the ones I have noticed have all been horde. And as the saying goes...I don't bend that way.
CaryEverett Apr 29th 2010 9:52AM
It was a coin flip.
A long time ago when WoW.com decided they were going to make a little WowInsider guild, and hold ingame events from time to time, they flipped a coin.
Horde won.
Lemons Apr 29th 2010 12:27PM
Okay guys, we're gunna make this as fair as possible...heads is Horde, tails is Horde...
Aaron Apr 29th 2010 9:45AM
I'm leveling a new toon that's currently at level 58. Just an alt, something different and I needed a toon with Jewel Crafting. ha! I started him 3 weeks ago and joined a leveling guild around the mid 20s.
I was doing battlegrounds in Warsong and 3 other players from my realm decided to stick with me on defense. After destroying every wave that entered the flag room they popped a guild invite. They explained it's a alt/leveling guild and there was no pressure to stick around so I went ahead and joined.
I have to admit that I'm starting to enjoy my leveling guild much more than my raiding guild and that's probably a big reason why I'm playing/leveling so much. It's not serious business... ever. We log on, goof off, cut up, help others, make fun of stuff, joke about bad players (DKs rolling on INT gear lol), etc etc. It's an absolute blast running all this old content as well. I don't think I've ever clicked with a group of people so quickly. It's a good to know that there are still a few cool players left. ;-)
nieboh Apr 29th 2010 9:48AM
Hm, I read his statement as "for no charge", as in he's one of the ones that doesn't.
I remember seeing lots of people in trade saying they would run people through deadmines for x gold. After a while someone who didn't approve of this mercenary style would chime in offering runs for free. He sounds more like the latter.
nieboh Apr 29th 2010 9:50AM
Oops, that was meant as a reply to BigBadGooz's reply to Deke. Forgot to hit the reply button twice.
Chan Apr 29th 2010 9:56AM
The dungeon finder has kind of killed off my main way of making friends. Since my main is a healer, I used to get invited to PUGs constantly--pretty much just by showing my face in a city, and every time I was questing in Westfall, I would get invited to run Deadmines at least once. Even though I met a lot of jackasses that way, I also made a lot of great in-game friends. I'm going to have to agree with Cyranos.
Also, one of my best in-game friends came from answering a guild recruitment ad on my realm forums. I actually ended up not joining her guild, but the exchange of whispers leading up to the decision to join a different guild led to a quick and easy in-game friendship.
loop_not_defined Apr 29th 2010 1:21PM
Heh...I remember getting invites completely at random, no matter where I was or what I was doing. Constantly.
My current guild is pretty dead...never thought to just ask people if they wanted to join me on queues (I tank on a Warrior and heal on a Priest). I'll start giving that a shot.
Chan Apr 29th 2010 11:09PM
This is kind of funny, but right after I posted that, I ran into some really great people in a random. We ran like 4 randoms together before deciding to start alts on another server.
Tim Apr 29th 2010 10:12AM
What I want to know is why aren't RAF mounts account bound instead of toon bound. Freakin sucks! So my tard DK has the mount and my awesome main druid languishes with his stupid mist sabre. C'mon Blizzard! Fix this already!
Kittens Apr 29th 2010 10:35AM
When you redeem the mount it clearly states that you can pick ONE of your toons to have the mount. Shouldn't have chosen the 'tard DK' then if you wanted it so much on your druid.
I have the rocket and am glad it only goes to one toon actually. Makes it a little more unique, I wouldn't want rockets littering Krasus Landing like a pile of starponies (which I have as well.. so nothing against those really.. woop ^_*).
(cutaia) Apr 29th 2010 11:40AM
Haha...it's like a vegetarian complaining after ordering a pepperoni pizza.
Magus Apr 29th 2010 3:23PM
The rocket is flying-only, so your druid with an awesome mane would still be rockin' that stupid mistsaber.