Breakfast Topic: Erasing the line between fantasy and reality

What is it that has given Warcraft its staying power? To me, it's the people. I've been in a number of different guilds, forging relationships with people in each that actually go beyond the borders of Azeroth. I met the GM of my first guild over the holidays last year and shared a dinner with his family. A former guildmate made a trip up to Boston from Philadelphia to crash my birthday party. I've sat down for lunch with fellow priest blogger Derevka from Tales of a Priest. And now, I've met the guys behind AddOn Spotlight and Big Crits.
This weekend was a pretty big one for your WoW.com East Coast crew -- fellow Massachusettian Mike Sacco and I travelled down to New York City to break bread with addon columnist Mat McCurley and Totem Talk columnist Rich Maloy. It was a great night -- we drank at no fewer than seven different locations over the course of nine hours. Between the spectacular Italian food, the beer, the games of Connect Four (Sacco was soundly defeated by Rich, as shown in the picture above), the 4 a.m. trip to McDonalds ("These fries are better than fries have a right to be!"), and Mike Sacco's stirring rendition of Criminal, it was the most fun I've had in recent memory.
And that spectacular night would have never happened had it not been for the connections I made over this silly little game called Warcraft. Have you ever rolled the dice and met some of us scary "internet people" in real life? What kind of IRL connections have you forged with people you've met and played with in game?
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 4)
Neyssa May 11th 2010 8:07AM
I was once in a raiding guild, who were all from my country, and after a few months they organized a guild meeting. I went 'disguised' - nothing that could relate to WoW, and being a girl is usually a helpful disguise, and did not dare to approach them for about half an hour :) I mean, it was not hard to recognize which group was a guild meeting. Then I gathered all the bravery I had to go there, and had a pretty good time. However for the whole night, we did not really raise any other topic than the game.
Right now its the other way around: I am in a guild with my RL friends. It is awesome to talk about WoW during our usual Friday afternoon drinking.
Saphiraka May 11th 2010 8:08AM
I actually met my fiancee on WOW.. At the time he lived in Florida and I in Arkansas.. After many months of friendship and then talking on the phone out of game we began to visit back and forth.. We have been together for over 3 yrs now and plan to marry this summer.
VampireDKC May 11th 2010 8:58AM
Getting married this Friday (14-05-2010) with the girl I met on WoW 4,5 years ago.
I have met one of the members of the current guild I am in Now asswell.
thegatherer May 11th 2010 9:08AM
Congratulations both of you, may your marriages be long and full of peace and joy!
bb2809 May 11th 2010 10:11AM
And ganking, of course.
ithiliel May 11th 2010 10:52AM
I was talked into playing WoW by my then-boyfriend, and kept playing after that relationship dissolved. I was Horde, in a raiding guild, and struggling through my last years of college.
I started hanging out in our server's IRC channel in order to have something to do during the day, and ended up meeting a man who played Alliance. A two-hour private IM conversation turned into an eight-hour phone conversation (it ended when he had to leave for work), which turned into a one-and-a-half-year dating relationship that ended on our wedding day. Now he's my husband, and I couldn't be happier. Our first wedding anniversary is this month.
I rerolled Alliance to play with him. He bought me the new account and paid it for me so I wouldn't have to delete my Horde characters. If that's not love, I don't know what is.
Valensword May 12th 2010 2:07AM
Met a priest when I was having trouble killing harvesters as a young mage in Westfal. Everything was so new so it seemed only appropriate to talk to anyone in game as though they were right next to me in real life.
We fell in love, she left her fiance, a level 43 rogue to move from Ohio all the way to Australia to be together.
During the most awkward, strained and confusing few weeks either of us have ever experienced, she steadily lost her mind, moved to Sydney for a week to try her luck with a hunter from our guild, fell to pieces and clambered aboard a flight back to the US.
I transfered servers when I got the courage to enter the game again and have never heard from her since.
I swear that is a true story.. and the moral. Stay away from the internets kids, it's srs bsns.
Deathzone May 11th 2010 8:09AM
I have met a few people from my old guild in RL. It is something to remember when you are sitting there getting frustrated over struggles in a raid, pvp or whatever. These are real people we are playing with, just like you and me. (Well, most of them) So I try to treat them as such, and not let myself get carried away with the keyboard.
Prissa May 11th 2010 8:10AM
I've met up with 2 guildies so far mostly because we just so happened to live in the same town/suburb. The opportunity was too good to pass up to meet a new person in the town we had just moved to. He showed us a few of the local sights and we had a drink and a chat :)
Though my closest friend in wow and possibly irl atm is in another country. If we found a reason to spend the cash to jump across the pond, we would do it in a heartbeat. He's been there for me when times have been really hard, and is still helping me though some very personal issues I'm facing atm. Shout out to you, Shik, if you ever happen to read this :D
Galaden May 11th 2010 8:13AM
Love the tags
Ishammel May 11th 2010 8:27AM
Hear hear!
Perlin May 11th 2010 8:17AM
I am part of a long standing guild that has quite the tradition of guild meets. Being in a EU server this means people travel from different countries to get to the meets. The total number of guild meets already organized are slowly rising, with our latest being March of this year. Renting a house somewhere out of nowhere and just spending a great afternoon with the ever growing group of Meet people.
I also spent my last vacation in Ireland with a number of people I met through Warcraft.
For me, the experiences of meeting game people in the real world has been pretty good and I would suggest more people would get out of their basements :P and meet the people they spend so much time chatting with.
Kaeri May 11th 2010 8:21AM
I joined Warcraft to play with friends I met elsewhere, but while playing the game I met even more people. I eventually joined a roleplaying guild, Alliance-side, even though most of my pre-existing friends were Horde.
While in that guild, I met an extremely creative and intelligent woman, and we became fast friends. We spent hours on Vent and in-game coming up with roleplaying concepts, and the conversations eventually turned to how we were doing in the outside world.
Eventually, I was in a position where I was moving, and I needed a roommate. My new friend expressed interest in moving as well, and had heard good things about my city, so she came to visit a couple times to hang out. We had a great time in person as well, even going on a cross-country road trip together, and discovered that we really click well in person.
She's been my roommate for a full year now.
Gendou May 11th 2010 8:59AM
You can never truly leave the Horde behind, you know...
Kaeri May 11th 2010 9:44AM
Of course. I'm a gamer that goes both ways.
Tabasa May 11th 2010 5:36PM
It may not be as impressive as "I met my husband/wife", but I think it worked out pretty nicely. ;D
Oh, and for the Alliorde!
Er. Horiance? Hordliance?
...Elves are awesome.
Peebers May 11th 2010 8:30AM
Yup! I'm my first raiding guild I bonded with a guildie one night when I was drunk cuz he logged an alt named evanwilliams. We live in the same state so we've bro'd down a few times, plenty of bike rides and beer chugging. He even went to a little thing called Best Friends Day with me and my "irl" friends. where some donger tried to fight me and guildie was the only one that had my back, not my "irl" friends. Wow rules like that. Just got pocket dialed at 730am from another old guildie from nova scotia HA!
Tikana May 11th 2010 8:48AM
Yay Nova Scotia! From there as well.
I've never met anyone from a guild from this game, but I was planning on moving up to New York with some online friends in another game, it didn't end up happening and it was probably for the best.
I would LOVE to meet WoW players from my city though
jealouspirate May 11th 2010 9:04AM
Nova Scotia, Canada?
That's where I live! In Halifax.
Tikana May 11th 2010 9:15AM
Halifax for me too n_n Nice