Breakfast Topic: Learn something new every day
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I learned a pretty important life lesson from playing WoW. Now, I am well aware that this statement makes me sound like a loon, like someone claiming his whole life underwent a reversal after reading The Secret and now everything is so much better and wonderful. I'm not saying WoW did that for me. But it has taught me something about time management and design goals, by way of dailies.
Specifically, dailies have shown me that if you devote a certain predetermined amount of time each day to the completion of carefully detailed and prioritized tasks, you will reap benefits and rewards over a finite and moderate time period, with better benefits and rewards over a longer time period. People who are good at time management and at prioritizing, and who do not have a tendency to procrastinate, are probably thinking, "Duh." But some of us poor slobs out there do have problems managing time and imagining the benefits that can come from consistently devoting time to specific activities, especially when those benefits won't materialize for a long time.
Personally, this really hit home for me the past few months as I was planning my wedding. I wanted to do most of the stuff myself, because there was no way I could afford someone to do things for me. I wanted to make my own centerpieces, guest favors, cake topper, wall decorations, thank-you cards, invitations, paper picture frames for souvenirs, bridesmaid's hair pieces and so on. I read enough wedding blogs to scare myself into thinking that making everything was going to result in a time management nightmare. So early on, I set out to prioritize and schedule my daily tasks -- just like planning out Sons of Hodir rep, accumulating Champion's Seals to collect all the pets or running through quest chains on the way to Loremaster. I allocated one to two hours every night in order to complete a set amount of work and determined the best way to space out all the tasks over the following months. I got everything I wanted to get done with two weeks to spare. Days before the wedding, I was stressing out because I had nothing to stress out over.
Some will find it silly that it took WoW dailies to get me to organize myself, but it really is just a very good time management model. What have you learned from playing this game? Leadership skills, perhaps? Diplomacy? How to be a politician, or a socializer, or a mediator? Or (dare I ask), an instigator?
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I learned a pretty important life lesson from playing WoW. Now, I am well aware that this statement makes me sound like a loon, like someone claiming his whole life underwent a reversal after reading The Secret and now everything is so much better and wonderful. I'm not saying WoW did that for me. But it has taught me something about time management and design goals, by way of dailies.
Specifically, dailies have shown me that if you devote a certain predetermined amount of time each day to the completion of carefully detailed and prioritized tasks, you will reap benefits and rewards over a finite and moderate time period, with better benefits and rewards over a longer time period. People who are good at time management and at prioritizing, and who do not have a tendency to procrastinate, are probably thinking, "Duh." But some of us poor slobs out there do have problems managing time and imagining the benefits that can come from consistently devoting time to specific activities, especially when those benefits won't materialize for a long time.
Personally, this really hit home for me the past few months as I was planning my wedding. I wanted to do most of the stuff myself, because there was no way I could afford someone to do things for me. I wanted to make my own centerpieces, guest favors, cake topper, wall decorations, thank-you cards, invitations, paper picture frames for souvenirs, bridesmaid's hair pieces and so on. I read enough wedding blogs to scare myself into thinking that making everything was going to result in a time management nightmare. So early on, I set out to prioritize and schedule my daily tasks -- just like planning out Sons of Hodir rep, accumulating Champion's Seals to collect all the pets or running through quest chains on the way to Loremaster. I allocated one to two hours every night in order to complete a set amount of work and determined the best way to space out all the tasks over the following months. I got everything I wanted to get done with two weeks to spare. Days before the wedding, I was stressing out because I had nothing to stress out over.
Some will find it silly that it took WoW dailies to get me to organize myself, but it really is just a very good time management model. What have you learned from playing this game? Leadership skills, perhaps? Diplomacy? How to be a politician, or a socializer, or a mediator? Or (dare I ask), an instigator?
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 2)
Hivetyrant Jun 11th 2010 8:26AM
I think WoW has shown me how some people are amazingly talented and creative (seemingly doing the impossible time and time again) and yet so many other people can be so damn silly or ignorant...
DON'T STAND IN TEH FIRE!!!!one
Rai Jun 11th 2010 11:06AM
You shall not move when your mother in law casts flame wreath or the relationship blows up.
pancakes Jun 11th 2010 8:29AM
The Dungeon Finder has expanded my patience a few hundred fold.
miz Jun 11th 2010 8:38AM
1. How it is like to be flamed to death for suggesting something trolls don't like.
2. How to write faser than light and without looking at the keyboard.
3. How to stand out of fire.
4. What ftw, rofl, roflmao, imo, imho, stfu, gtfo, tl;dr, rl mean.
5. How to exploit other people's ignorance when it comes to economy and become rich (at AH, but it can't hurt knowing that in real life).
6. That some people honestly think that all capabilities and preparations of a person can be expressed in a number (GS).
7. That I'm [insert two-three dozens of obscene words] because of various reasons.
8. How much can a word be altered for the commodity of usage. (please ==> pl0x)
Guess there are more but only those come to mind.
BigDumbFace Jun 11th 2010 7:44PM
"2. How to write faser than light and without looking at the keyboard."
I smirked.
Hal Jun 11th 2010 8:46AM
This seems relevant:
http://xkcd.com/189/
EaterOfBirds Jun 11th 2010 9:18AM
props on getting the weeding stuff sorted
EaterOfBirds Jun 11th 2010 9:19AM
spelling FAIL. though depending on your garden, maybe not so...
Ozzard Jun 11th 2010 9:35AM
WoW has taught me that Prisoners-Dilemma-style game theory is alive and well, and living in cross-server PUGs.
icepyro Jun 11th 2010 3:19PM
Too bad that despite the number of iterations of pugs, we don't get into iterated prisoner's dilemma and have very little in the way of being able to push towards that goal.
alabngpuso Jun 11th 2010 9:47AM
Dear Cynthia:
Like your story. I made the connection between dailies and daily life a couple of years ago. It helped me survive law school and the bar exams, and now I have a job.
The strange thing is that real life didn't teach me how to do dailies properly; dailies gave me a nice push to be organized and regular in real life.
Nice to hear another person with the same story.
@Hal: love the comic. the maker's a genius.
Idaelus Jun 11th 2010 9:58AM
Cynthia:
Grats on your upcoming wedding. I hope that yours is as simple and fulfilling as mine has been. May God (or whatever deity the person reading this subscribes to) watch over you and yours. I hope it is the best day of your life!
Idaelus Jun 11th 2010 10:02AM
Ah reading comprehension fail. >:(
I hope the wedding day WAS the best day of your life.
And grats on GETTING married, not you upcoming marriage.
(I guess I am a grammer n00b)
Moeru Jun 11th 2010 10:10AM
As a guild leader, main tank and master looter (all at once, most of the time), I'v learned a lot from WoW:
- Leadership qualities
- Time management
- Dealing with schedules, and issue that arise
- Setting priorities on certain things/people...the good of the group > the good of one
- Dealing with inter-personal problems
- Group dynamics. I can compare a lot of real world team dynamics to the structure of a WoW group. IE, someone who is constantly unaware he's wiping the group in a dungeon could equal someone who isn't qualified for their position within a team
- Assigning group roles to people in a team
- Planning ahead
- Knowing the limits of the potential of a group, but pushing it to achieve better
- Putting personal goals aside to conform to the goals of the group
- Compromises
- Positive reinforcement over negative reinforcement
- Patience (when dealing with trolls...though I do have a short temper with them sometimes lol)
And that's all I can think for general life skills. But, there's also a few minor skills...not really related to a working environment, but more oriented to better living or personal accomplishment:
- Someone mentioned it...typing really fast. I've been commented on how well I can type and tank at the same time
- Ability to talk clearly, though sometimes I'll regress back to being quiet
- Knowing when to take breaks, and when to take regular exercise to keep me fit
- Eating healthy
- Trying to spend as much time with people as I can in-game, and using Voice Chat when I can. I feel this is important when you play at a computer alone. It makes your time less mechanical
All in all, I believe WoW has helped me develop group skills that I wouldn't have been able to have before I got to College, where most of what I did had peer involvement. I'm glad I was able to pick these skills up, and continue to develop them today
kunukia Jun 11th 2010 10:41AM
As an introvert, some would say anti-social, I have learned that I can participate in group events (raids) successfully without as much of the exhaustion and discomfort that real life events cause me.
Since I am older (almost 60), I have learned many new words, acronyms and phrases, some of which I really did not want to learn.
And, yes, I have learned to NOT stand in the fire.
Natsumi Jun 11th 2010 12:43PM
I guess you CAN teach an "old dog" new trix :D
RoseClown Jun 11th 2010 10:48AM
1. Trust your instincts about people. (Aka, you get the creep vibe, cut and run.)
2. How to be firm when you have to be. (I was such a wishy washy tank at first.)
3. Everything is not under your control 100% of the time. Also, you cannot control other people and their idiocy.
Little life lessons.
uncaringbear Jun 11th 2010 11:02AM
I've learned that there are some people in WoW that I will avoid like the plague if I ever meet them in RL.
chetoos Jun 11th 2010 11:40AM
World of Warcraft has helped me be a better team leader in high school. I started playing December of 08, and I reached 80 during the next summer. I ran many raids, many dungeons, became a team player, even led a few myself. When I got back to school the next august, I was working better in groups, socializing better, and even reading facial queues much better, which is a big step forward for someone with asperger's syndrome.
Marita Jun 11th 2010 12:56PM
I learned that idiot and STUBBORN people are not worth a fight over nothing.
So I let them be, laugh in my mind, and enjoy the time.
Before, I would have argued over everything, and at the end had an awful time, which is never the idea.