The Lawbringer: Internet harassment and you

The video game industry is affected by the legal world far more often and much more deeply than you can imagine. (Unless you are a lawyer, in which case you know the trials and tribulations of conforming to all sorts of regulations and laws around the world, just to release a video game.) Just look at how much Blizzard had to change Wrath of the Lich King for a Chinese release! The Lawbringer aims to give you a look into the pop topics that relate to the games we love and play every day, with some practical advice to help you avoid some of the more nefarious and potentially surprising issues that crop up alongside virtual worlds.
This week, The Lawbringer gives you some basic tips on dealing with internet harassment, in game and out. The sad fact is that there are people out there looking to ruin your day, and not just by corpse camping or spamming trade chat. Hopefully, with a little knowledge on your side collected from people who have already had to walk this rough path, you can successfully fight back.
Ah, internet. You bring us so much life-enriching and fascinating entertainment, as well as unmitigated, brutal disasters. As much as we try to hide from and fight against the atrocities of the internet while still living our virtual lives, people remain resourceful. Internet harassment has been growing as a problem, from high school kids who are now using Facebook and the vast array of social networking tools to sabotage their peers, to parents who are harassing youths with horrible consequences. Every tool created has a dangerous side. The key to avoiding and dealing with internet harassment is knowing your options and the right people to talk to.
World of Warcraft is, for the most part, a safe place. Every day you log on and, usually, the only unfortunate harassment players deal with are trade chat taunts, that jerk paladin stealing your titanium node, or a corpse camper. For many people, however, Azeroth is just another place that harassment occurs in a much deeper, darker scale. The last thing players want when entering a virtual world is to have their real life harassment follow them.
Help your friends: Documentation
Here's the quick business on how to support someone you know is being harassed. Be a good friend and document public harassment. Documenting repeated harassment is key when dealing with harassers. If you see a friend or guildmate enduring undue harassment in game, screenshot it, log it and keep detailed documentation, including time stamps of the harassment. I promise you that will go a long way.

When you are the victim
The absolute first thing to do if you are being harassed in game is to document and record the harassment, including time stamps, as completely and thoroughly as possible. Keep a special folder of screenshots for this very subject. A little planning during the early stages of this type of abuse can go a long way when you have to make your very real and very serious case to the GMs or law enforcement, as we will get to soon.
Do yourself a favor and look over the Blizzard In-game Harassment Policy and pinpoint your issues. Your particular brand of harassment is probably listed, and knowing how Blizzard refers to these actions has can help you write a better email or ticket.
Politely ask the harasser to stop talking to you in game. Make your stance known -- you want nothing to do with this person. Document your intent and document the reply. Then ignore the player. If that player then tries to circumvent your ignore by creating new characters, messaging you on other characters or having other people message you, you must report this to a GM. Circumventing an ignore is a GM-reportable event that will earn you quicker help. Document the ignore circumvent! Again, a little documentation goes a long way toward showing the severity of the repeated and continuing harassment.
Make note of where the harassment is taking place; public or private channels incur different levels of attention. The public channels feel much more important than the private means of contact, considering it is impossible to remove someone from the public channels, as opposed to ignoring them or leaving the public channel.
It is my theory that you should not be forced to leave a public channel used for commerce, trade and group/raid creation because of personal harassment. Blizzard seems to agree, as recently they have decided to proactively control harassment in the public channels on the Moon Guard server, infamous for its Goldshire Inn, off-server erotic roleplayers who harass Moon Guard denizens in public. Building your case with the GMs
Remember to take special notes when the GMs assist you with your claims. If this is a repeated harassment issue, make note of the fact that your case is open and ongoing, and let the ticket and other GMs know who has attempted to help you in the past. "Harassment" and "Ongoing harassment" are two different categories in Blizzard support. Including the words "ongoing harassment" when your claim is such can produce better and faster results.
Building this case record is again one of the best ways to show the severity of your harassment and the constant harm that is occurring to you in game. You are paying to have fun in World of Warcraft, not to be subject to this little troll outside of socially acceptable player interactions such as PvP, griefing and so forth. We are talking about verbal harassment, threats and other forms of harassment -- don't go complaining to the GMs about that titanium node again.
A friend of mine who has been the victim of such harassment in the past has told me that contacting GMs through the GM harassment email has been a quicker avenue of relief and action than tickets, which can get bogged down in the system among the multitudes of "guy ninja'd my solace in ToC!!!", "all these addons I downloaded from google sponsored sites gave me trojans" and "how i make fish happan?" Direct email should only be used for the worst cases of harassment, and I guarantee that if you do not abuse this system, it can be kept clear for those cases that require much more immediate attention.
Continue to take the high road, as it were. Do not engage your harasser. In fact, go out of your way to continue playing to the best of your ability. The old adage of "do not feed the trolls" is apropos -- harassers might just be attention whores, egging you on for any response. Take the high road.
More serious misbehavior
Things get trickier and uglier when your harasser moves out from the fantasy world and into the real world. Tools like the WoW Armory and Real ID have become concerns in the privacy community because of their occasional, tenuous connection to the real world, upsetting people who would prefer to remain anonymous in a virtual setting. If you ever wondered why people were so up in arms over the Real ID fiasco earlier this year, just ask someone who has been the target of internet harassment. Any new piece of information that can identify you, either directly or indirectly, can be detrimental to your online life and a treat for your harasser.
Try to identify your harasser. If this person is harassing you in a direct manner outside of the game, he is probably leaving clues. Most people don't understand the concept of proxies or server routing, so keep detailed documentation of everything and anything that is said in public and private. Most harassers are people that you potentially know or have access to your online life. If you can narrow it down, the better off you will be when you have to identify this person to get them off your back.

Defend yourself
Now it's time to ramp up the defense on your end. If the harassment is getting so bad that you can't turn an internet corner without this person popping up to hurt or harass you, your options open up. Your first option is to lawyer up -- lawyers know more about this stuff than anyone, since they do it for a living. Find someone specializing in internet crime or internet harassment. Do your research, and always remember that lawyers come with a cost. Usually, at the end of all things is a lawyer, so in most instances of some kind of crime, lawyering up isn't a question of "why" but "when."
Your other option, assuming that you are in the United States, is to follow the advice of the U.S. Department of Justice and head to the Justice Department's reporting cybercrime webpage. It is imperative at this point to have your documentation available of the type and severity of the harassment. Call your local police precinct and see if they have some type of harassment or cybercrimes unit. If not, it's worth a call to your local FBI office. The FBI deals with interstate harassment issues and can hopefully help you with your issue.
The most important thing to remember is to stay calm, confide in your friends for support and build your case. The key is documentation -- save and screenshot times, places, words, repeated phrases, threats and everything in between. A little preparation goes a long way. It sucks having to deal with this particular brand of harassment, especially in a game you play for fun, but it is beatable and defeatable.
Filed under: Analysis / Opinion, The Lawbringer






Reader Comments (Page 1 of 5)
Ravasha Sep 10th 2010 1:11PM
Hey girl...
Get on my mount...
I got candy...
Krem Sep 10th 2010 1:27PM
Should've used the words "boy" and "come" instead. I could've made such a fantastic joke. :(
..but, then again, it'd probably be offensive to someone, and I might get in trouble. So I'd better not.
On-topic: Good article, though most harassments I've seen are harder to document, and are "less serious" as it were- When it's large scale, and sometimes even systematic. Small things build up, etc.
ilovecookies Sep 10th 2010 1:21PM
"Screenshot or it didn't happen!"... best advice!
shotiechan Sep 10th 2010 4:39PM
Screenshots at best should only be used for self-reference. GMs don't need them and won't even bother to look at them, and law enforcement likely wouldn't either, because the images could be far too easily doctored. So don't rely on screenshots as evidence, because they really just aren't. However, as a reference or for time-stamps, they're invaluable.
Solitha Sep 11th 2010 3:19AM
@shotiechan... Don't underestimate the value of a screenshot to law enforcement! Yes, that could be a doctored screenie... but so could your notes be completely made up. Plus, if it gets really serious, you could hand over your hard drive... complete with full file information on those SS files.
Most of what law enforcement does is collect "he-says-she-says" statements, any evidence presented, then present the complaint to a district attorney to see if they think it's worth pursuing. A case is almost never simple and based 100% on verifiable fact. That's why we have the jury system :)
brenainn.simpson Sep 11th 2010 10:13AM
you're correct about the he says / she says part however the crucial element to success here and it has been mentioned a few times is time stamps.
with time stamps blizzard employees can find the conversation and then it goes beyond he says / she says and into the realm of credible evidence.
dmatulewic Sep 10th 2010 1:30PM
Rather than documenting... why not just click on the IGNORE feature? or move to another server? Or better yet.... stop playing for awhile?
There is no need to document the harrassment, as it 'encourages' the victim to remain a victim for the simple fact of getting documentation and recorded events.
Truth be told, if you're being harrassed online, then stop getting online!
Saeadame Sep 10th 2010 1:25PM
But someone who enjoys going online shouldn't be 'forced' to stop by internet harassment. That is giving up something you find enjoyable because of the harasser, and that's wrong. It's much better, imo to document it, and shut them down completely so you can enjoy your internet time again.
Saeadame Sep 10th 2010 1:30PM
Addition: And also, that can't be your policy everywhere. Like, if you're getting harassed at work/school is your solution to stop going to work/school? If you're getting harassed by a neighbour whenever you go outside, is your solution to stop leaving the house? If you're getting harassed at home, is your solution to live on the street?
I wouldn't think so... internet harassment should be considered the same.
Mathew Sep 10th 2010 1:30PM
@dmatulewic You are completely, utterly wrong.
jeffo Sep 10th 2010 1:30PM
So you're supposed to let the idiots win? If you're at school and getting a hard time from a bully (and that's exactly what this is), are you supposed to stay home?
The advice in the article doesn't encourage the victim to remain a victim; it's empowering them to take control of the situation and put a stop to it.
Robin Torres Sep 10th 2010 1:34PM
And if there's a guy following you to the supermarket and work and everywhere else, stop going outside! No need to document and inform the authorities to stop the stalker, that just makes you a victim!
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Anale Sep 10th 2010 1:36PM
As someone who has been on the receiving end of in game harassment, I find your comment appalling. If I chose to ignore someone who is bothering me, or better yet, crossing the line and downright harassing/threatening me, it is not very difficult for that person to create a new character and get around my choice to ignore them. I should not be forced to switch servers or quit doing something that I enjoy due to someone else having the desire to be a jerk or perv.
"if you're being harassed online, then stop getting online!"-why not those who harass people or threaten people? Why should the person being targeted be punished?
Jackwraith Sep 10th 2010 1:38PM
Hey, if you keep getting harassed going to the grocery store, then stop going there! Even better, if you're getting harassed wherever you go, then just don't leave the house! That'll be great! Instead of acting to protect yourself and enable yourself to enjoy what you're doing and where you're going, simply cut off all contact with the outside world and you'll never be harassed again by anyone! Brilliant!
Remember: if you're acting to stop someone from being a troll and ruining your game, you're remaining a victim! Don't do it!
dmatulewic Sep 10th 2010 1:40PM
Well I stand corrected. Good points indeed. Documenting everything is important and Blizzard is very good at enforcing their policies.
Real Life harrassment however is a legal issue and against the law and needs to be presented to the proper authorities and any and ALL documentation and recordings should be made.
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Fox Van Allen Sep 10th 2010 1:41PM
The world is just full of level 1 toons who care not that you have an ignore button.
(cutaia) Sep 10th 2010 1:42PM
There was someone who stopped going outside for fear of harassment once. Her name was Anne Frank.
OH THAT'S RIGHT! I WENT ALL GODWIN'S LAW ON THIS ONE!
Aaron Sep 10th 2010 2:16PM
Perhaps dmatulewic doesn't understand the kind of harassment that can go on in a virtual world. The server I'm on had a guy that was threatening to kill several members of our guild over some silly loot issues. He then stalked the girlfriend of one of the guys that upset him and threatened to do all sorts of nasty things to her. It wasn't just some jerk spamming a few people to join his new guild, it was terrible, very damaging and the abuse went on way longer than it should have. You can keep your mindset that jerks can just be shrugged off, but it should be pointed out that things can get very "real" very fast even online.
dodgeballer2005 Sep 10th 2010 2:17PM
It appears that your level 80 characters are too leet for this sinful world of level 1 alts...
Claire Sep 10th 2010 3:04PM
So I should stop engaging in activities I enjoy because some asshat is harassing me? Yeah, not so much.