The Lawbringer: Internet harassment and you

The video game industry is affected by the legal world far more often and much more deeply than you can imagine. (Unless you are a lawyer, in which case you know the trials and tribulations of conforming to all sorts of regulations and laws around the world, just to release a video game.) Just look at how much Blizzard had to change Wrath of the Lich King for a Chinese release! The Lawbringer aims to give you a look into the pop topics that relate to the games we love and play every day, with some practical advice to help you avoid some of the more nefarious and potentially surprising issues that crop up alongside virtual worlds.
This week, The Lawbringer gives you some basic tips on dealing with internet harassment, in game and out. The sad fact is that there are people out there looking to ruin your day, and not just by corpse camping or spamming trade chat. Hopefully, with a little knowledge on your side collected from people who have already had to walk this rough path, you can successfully fight back.
Ah, internet. You bring us so much life-enriching and fascinating entertainment, as well as unmitigated, brutal disasters. As much as we try to hide from and fight against the atrocities of the internet while still living our virtual lives, people remain resourceful. Internet harassment has been growing as a problem, from high school kids who are now using Facebook and the vast array of social networking tools to sabotage their peers, to parents who are harassing youths with horrible consequences. Every tool created has a dangerous side. The key to avoiding and dealing with internet harassment is knowing your options and the right people to talk to.
World of Warcraft is, for the most part, a safe place. Every day you log on and, usually, the only unfortunate harassment players deal with are trade chat taunts, that jerk paladin stealing your titanium node, or a corpse camper. For many people, however, Azeroth is just another place that harassment occurs in a much deeper, darker scale. The last thing players want when entering a virtual world is to have their real life harassment follow them.
Help your friends: Documentation
Here's the quick business on how to support someone you know is being harassed. Be a good friend and document public harassment. Documenting repeated harassment is key when dealing with harassers. If you see a friend or guildmate enduring undue harassment in game, screenshot it, log it and keep detailed documentation, including time stamps of the harassment. I promise you that will go a long way.

When you are the victim
The absolute first thing to do if you are being harassed in game is to document and record the harassment, including time stamps, as completely and thoroughly as possible. Keep a special folder of screenshots for this very subject. A little planning during the early stages of this type of abuse can go a long way when you have to make your very real and very serious case to the GMs or law enforcement, as we will get to soon.
Do yourself a favor and look over the Blizzard In-game Harassment Policy and pinpoint your issues. Your particular brand of harassment is probably listed, and knowing how Blizzard refers to these actions has can help you write a better email or ticket.
Politely ask the harasser to stop talking to you in game. Make your stance known -- you want nothing to do with this person. Document your intent and document the reply. Then ignore the player. If that player then tries to circumvent your ignore by creating new characters, messaging you on other characters or having other people message you, you must report this to a GM. Circumventing an ignore is a GM-reportable event that will earn you quicker help. Document the ignore circumvent! Again, a little documentation goes a long way toward showing the severity of the repeated and continuing harassment.
Make note of where the harassment is taking place; public or private channels incur different levels of attention. The public channels feel much more important than the private means of contact, considering it is impossible to remove someone from the public channels, as opposed to ignoring them or leaving the public channel.
It is my theory that you should not be forced to leave a public channel used for commerce, trade and group/raid creation because of personal harassment. Blizzard seems to agree, as recently they have decided to proactively control harassment in the public channels on the Moon Guard server, infamous for its Goldshire Inn, off-server erotic roleplayers who harass Moon Guard denizens in public. Building your case with the GMs
Remember to take special notes when the GMs assist you with your claims. If this is a repeated harassment issue, make note of the fact that your case is open and ongoing, and let the ticket and other GMs know who has attempted to help you in the past. "Harassment" and "Ongoing harassment" are two different categories in Blizzard support. Including the words "ongoing harassment" when your claim is such can produce better and faster results.
Building this case record is again one of the best ways to show the severity of your harassment and the constant harm that is occurring to you in game. You are paying to have fun in World of Warcraft, not to be subject to this little troll outside of socially acceptable player interactions such as PvP, griefing and so forth. We are talking about verbal harassment, threats and other forms of harassment -- don't go complaining to the GMs about that titanium node again.
A friend of mine who has been the victim of such harassment in the past has told me that contacting GMs through the GM harassment email has been a quicker avenue of relief and action than tickets, which can get bogged down in the system among the multitudes of "guy ninja'd my solace in ToC!!!", "all these addons I downloaded from google sponsored sites gave me trojans" and "how i make fish happan?" Direct email should only be used for the worst cases of harassment, and I guarantee that if you do not abuse this system, it can be kept clear for those cases that require much more immediate attention.
Continue to take the high road, as it were. Do not engage your harasser. In fact, go out of your way to continue playing to the best of your ability. The old adage of "do not feed the trolls" is apropos -- harassers might just be attention whores, egging you on for any response. Take the high road.
More serious misbehavior
Things get trickier and uglier when your harasser moves out from the fantasy world and into the real world. Tools like the WoW Armory and Real ID have become concerns in the privacy community because of their occasional, tenuous connection to the real world, upsetting people who would prefer to remain anonymous in a virtual setting. If you ever wondered why people were so up in arms over the Real ID fiasco earlier this year, just ask someone who has been the target of internet harassment. Any new piece of information that can identify you, either directly or indirectly, can be detrimental to your online life and a treat for your harasser.
Try to identify your harasser. If this person is harassing you in a direct manner outside of the game, he is probably leaving clues. Most people don't understand the concept of proxies or server routing, so keep detailed documentation of everything and anything that is said in public and private. Most harassers are people that you potentially know or have access to your online life. If you can narrow it down, the better off you will be when you have to identify this person to get them off your back.

Defend yourself
Now it's time to ramp up the defense on your end. If the harassment is getting so bad that you can't turn an internet corner without this person popping up to hurt or harass you, your options open up. Your first option is to lawyer up -- lawyers know more about this stuff than anyone, since they do it for a living. Find someone specializing in internet crime or internet harassment. Do your research, and always remember that lawyers come with a cost. Usually, at the end of all things is a lawyer, so in most instances of some kind of crime, lawyering up isn't a question of "why" but "when."
Your other option, assuming that you are in the United States, is to follow the advice of the U.S. Department of Justice and head to the Justice Department's reporting cybercrime webpage. It is imperative at this point to have your documentation available of the type and severity of the harassment. Call your local police precinct and see if they have some type of harassment or cybercrimes unit. If not, it's worth a call to your local FBI office. The FBI deals with interstate harassment issues and can hopefully help you with your issue.
The most important thing to remember is to stay calm, confide in your friends for support and build your case. The key is documentation -- save and screenshot times, places, words, repeated phrases, threats and everything in between. A little preparation goes a long way. It sucks having to deal with this particular brand of harassment, especially in a game you play for fun, but it is beatable and defeatable.
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Reader Comments (Page 4 of 5)
TimR Sep 10th 2010 3:43PM
Ginny, if you get law enforcement involved (as you said about going to the FBI) there is precedent for them to subpoena Blizzard for the harasser's personal information. This article is regarding an arrest made that way: http://pc.ign.com/articles/105/1058321p1.html It's not exactly the same thing, but worth showing your lawyer.
PrincessRosario Sep 10th 2010 4:42PM
Ginny, it's really important that you be strong here. I know that dealing with it is going to be incredibly emotionally draining, but if you want to be free of this asshole, you need to not let him get away with it. As TimR said, if you are able to get law enforcement involved (and they are taking cyber harassment very seriously these days), they can subpoena Blizzard to find out this person's information.
If you are receiving death threats, I am sure the authorities will take this very seriously.
Good luck. Stay smart, be strong, and know that we're backing you up here!
/hugs
lillytoo Sep 10th 2010 5:29PM
my dear i feel for you, please get help asap. btw Canada has very strict laws about this sort of things and the canadian authorities will help cooperate with the FBI or whomever needs their help in this sort of situation. you are very smart to go to them and they will track this person down. laws in the US and Canada have changed and the old "well we can't do anything until X Y Z happens" is no longer is the case. I know some people in law enforcement as I also live in Canada and when anyone, an individual, a corporation or anyone allows this sort of thing to go on without reporting it they can be held liable. Good luck my prayers are with you.
Sunhead Sep 10th 2010 11:16PM
IANAL,
but
IMHO,
The instant someone makes a credible threat against your person you need to get the Law involved. In game harassment is one thing... but credible threats to kill you are serious business that causes things like warrants for IP addresses and server logs to be made.
"There is this guy who I think knows where I live and is threatening to kill me. Can you help?"
Dinger Sep 10th 2010 3:08PM
My girlfriend was on the receiving end of harassment for a while on Shadow Council, all for leaving a guild. The guild's leader would encourage members to harass anyone who left the guild, calling them traitors, bad mouthing them to their new guild members and officers, etc. She even went as far to ignore the brother of that guild leader who then circumvented the ignore.
When my girlfriend left the guild she put 1000 gold in the guild bank as a thanks for having me gesture, then she left from my house for the 20 hour bus ride back to Montana. When she got home the gold had been in game mailed back to her with a message that all the gold in the world would never make up for her betrayal.
I told her multiple times to report them, but she wouldn't, and I figured that since she was the one being harassed, I couldn't report the issue for her.
The harassment finally stopped when she faction swapped and changed the name of that character, and now is laying low on the Horde side.
I still receive taunts from that guild because I didn't change my name when I faction swapped. The taunts include calling me a traitor to the Alliance, etc.
Dinger Sep 11th 2010 2:30AM
Phaea, a name change does when you also faction swap. That kept your name from updating on their list because you are no longer on the same faction, and can meld into the crowd
Jenks Sep 10th 2010 3:07PM
Changing your characters name is cheaper than getting a lawyer.
mds Sep 10th 2010 3:10PM
Circumventable. If your character is a raider, some sites, such as GuildOx, are capable of tracking the occasional faction change.
Furthermore, why should you uproot your character when it's the other guy being an asshole? There are occasional times where it's worth it to watch a well-paid shark go for the tender meat. Harassment and abuse are some of them.
shotiechan Sep 10th 2010 4:34PM
You know what's an even better option? People not harassing others to the point they feel they must get a lawyer OR a name change to avoid it.
PrincessRosario Sep 10th 2010 4:46PM
Doesn't always work -- most hardcore stalkers will easily find away around a name change. You need to pull up the problem by the roots, not just snip a few leaves off.
Phaea Sep 10th 2010 5:36PM
Changing the name does not work.
The Friends List will automatically update when someone changes their name.
bui Sep 10th 2010 3:58PM
See now as horrible as this might be I am a computer nerd, as are most of my friends, and when someone harasses us well we get even and we get nasty. But again this was before the law took internet harassment seriously. This was during the beginning of the online gaming community, and yes trolls existed even then, so when one of them took the harassment way to far, and by too far I mean attacking my friends wife to far, we got even doing some of the worst things you can to someone via the internet (which trust me does not really make you feel better in the end, I mean the poor guy probably still can't get a loan for anything and who knows what else what we did is still affecting him). Any way the point of this story would be to tell you that now that's not the way to go Matt is 100% correct about documenting and making sure that you are prepared to go to the next level properly if it gets to that point. So from one of those people who has in fact extracted revenge it is a hollow and shallow victory that even though the troll went to far we didn't do any better and in fact did worse in retaliation.
Dinger Sep 10th 2010 4:49PM
The problem with that is if you return the attacks, then the initial antagonists can pursue you with legal actions. You will be on the receiving end of what the trolls initially should have been.
angelakamya Sep 10th 2010 6:51PM
Most of my center of logic is telling me that this article was just posted to get people like me to pay for their accounts again. I really don't believe that Blizzard staff is doing anything about harassment, no matter how well it is documented.
I myself left the game after being stalked and severely sexually harassed in-game, because the GMs did nothing but send me automated messages after getting me to log off after tacking on more and more wait time to my ticket. I emailed screencaps, my friends backed me up, the ignore feature failed, he hacked my account and robbed me blind, and what did Blizzard do? They sent automated messages and emails saying they couldn't tell me if the dirtbag was punished or not. I used my bank character to keep all of the characters he used to stalk me on a friends list, and he was online every single day for almost the whole day. Another harasser made a special macro just for me. "Wideload sucks on [my character]'s c*nt." I got a screencap and blizzard did nothing.
All in all, they just had to ban or at least punish one or two LAW-breaking players. They failed to so much as suspend them, so I quit along with at least six other friends of mine who can't stand giving money to a company that encourages sexual harassment. Words can't describe how much butt-kissing Blizz would have to do to get me and my friends' money long-term again.
angelakamya Sep 10th 2010 7:16PM
Also, I called 12 different harassment attorney's offices and emailed even more. Nobody took it seriously because the stalking and harassment was happening on an online game. No one will help me.
I want to go back to playing WoW so very badly, but I won't stay where I'll only get hurt and I won't keep a paid account for a company that won't protect their clients. I want to play again so badly, I just can't find the words. I cannot leave home very often besides to see my doctor or to go to the hospital, and there's not a lot for me to do here while I'm waiting for my illness to kill me. I just want to play a fun game with nice people while I'm waiting to die. I don't want anyone's pity for my condition, I just want to be treated decently! Why does Blizzard think that is so much to ask!?
Solitha Sep 11th 2010 3:51AM
"Most of my center of logic is telling me that this article was just posted to get people like me to pay for their accounts again. I really don't believe that Blizzard staff is doing anything about harassment, no matter how well it is documented."
Sorry but... logic tells you this?
wow.com has no interest in whether you pay for your account or not. Based on that weird conclusion of yours there, I'm having a bit of trouble swallowing any of your story. I have to think there's a lot more to it than you've presented.
Millenia Sep 10th 2010 7:49PM
Matt. Matt. Matt. Matt! Matt! MATT! MATT! MATT!
... Hi. :D
Possum Sep 10th 2010 10:32PM
What do you do if someone says "I'm coming over to your house to rape you" And you think they might have some idea where you actually live? Do you still just record it and submit a ticket? I know the chances that the person knows exactly where you live or would even follow through with the threat are slim so is this still the correct action?
Solitha Sep 11th 2010 3:27AM
Talk to your local law enforcement. Find out a couple of things:
1. What threshold does such a threat have to meet for action to be taken? (For my own area, there has to be -reasonable- cause to believe that the person may act on the threat.)
2. Do they have any special patrol programs you could be set up for, for a while? Smaller, more community-oriented jurisdictions are more likely to have this than larger ones.
Bluspacecow Sep 11th 2010 4:38AM
Nice article Matthew but ....
Where's Amy ?
Did I miss a /afk for this week from her last week ?