All the World's A Stage: Getting back into RP with Cataclysm

The new expansion is officially here! Generally speaking, the launch of a new expansion heralds the arrival of a lot of new players -- and the return of players that haven't picked up the game in quite some time. I had a friend of mine confess that he'd like to get back into roleplaying now that the new expansion has launched -- he lost touch with it somewhere during the Wrath raiding frenzy.
But the same question applies to players that are brand new, and players that have returned to the game after an extended absence -- just how do you get into RP again, after you've been away? Better yet, how does a new roleplayer get involved with roleplay? What's the best way to get yourself set up for it, when you've never tried it before? What do you do when the population of the roleplay server of your choice is likely full of people that have already been roleplaying together for years? How does a returning player find a good roleplay server to start with?

First off -- use the realm list to find the servers that are designated as either RP or RP-PvP. Occasionally you can find a lone roleplayer or two on a PvE server, but most roleplayers are on RP servers because that's what those servers are made for. As far as choosing a server goes, most suggestions I've heard both in game and out all have the same thought behind them though the words may vary from person to person -- ultimately, it's up to you. Nobody can tell you which roleplay server is "best," they can just make recommendations based on their experience.
But if you're asking a complete stranger if you're going to enjoy interacting with people on a server you have no familiarity with -- well, who's to say whether their answer is right or wrong? Invariably the answer to "Is this a good roleplay server" is "Yes" -- because the people answering have been there forever. It doesn't mean you're guaranteed RP the second you log on; and it doesn't guarantee that you'll particularly like the roleplay environment.
The best way to find the roleplay server that best suits you is to just try it out. You don't have to level to 80; you don't have to level at all if you don't want to. Roll an alt, install a roleplay addon, take your level one to the populated city of your choice and just hang out, in character. Observe the people around you, take note of any spontaneous RP going on; see what the general vibe of the server is. Look for RP descriptions on the players around you -- are there a lot of them? A few? Try interacting with people that have roleplay flags set to "available" and see what they do. If you like the feeling of the server and the people playing on it, check out the realm forums.

Most realm forums for roleplay servers will have a list of RP guilds, events, or even just roleplayers themselves. Check out the lists and see if there's a guild that looks like it's a good fit for you -- or check out the list of roleplayers and take a look at the quality of the descriptions, and whether any of those characters look like people your character could get along with. Be picky, if necessary -- you can afford to be picky at this point. Choose what looks best to you.
Sometimes roleplay servers will have server forums of their own for roleplayers -- player-hosted forums where roleplayers can feel free to schedule events and post character stories and information. If the server you're looking at has one of those, check that out too. See how active it is, and if the stories are stories you enjoy.
You can post an introduction story on the realm forums if you'd like. If the server you've chosen has a thread where roleplayers can post descriptions of their characters, go ahead and add your character to the list. If you're looking for a particularly kind of roleplay guild and there doesn't appear to be one listed on the realm forums, post a thread and ask. Most roleplay servers are full of incredibly friendly people -- and most roleplayers will gladly point you in the proper direction if you're a little lost. Just ask!

Once you've picked a server to call "home," you can either transfer your character there if you have a character on a different server, or you can just roll a character from scratch. Again, install some roleplay addons -- check the post from a few weeks ago for some addon suggestions. Now it's a matter of leveling your character, and seeking out interaction with people. If there's a roleplay guild that looked interesting to you, find a few characters from that guild and strike up an in character conversation. For more on the basics of roleplaying, take a look at the Roleplay 101 article.
The common trap that roleplayers fall into whether they're experienced or brand-new, is something I call the trap of self-imposed solitude. If you're designing a character to play and that character is a loner, you've just written yourself out of potential roleplay opportunities. Why would anyone walk up to, much like strike up a conversation with, a character whose RP description talks about how they are a loner, or otherwise intimidating in appearance? This isn't to say that you can't make one of those characters -- but keep in mind if you're going to roleplay a loner, it's up to you more than ever to make those initial first contacts.

One of the common complaints heard on roleplay servers all over the world is that "RP is dead." More often than not, it's not really dead -- but those complaining that it is aren't really looking for it or being as proactive as they could be in regards to creating roleplay. The first rule of creating roleplay is that you cannot wait for the roleplay to come to you. You have to be willing to create it -- otherwise, it will be dead for you, and the only person you can point the finger of blame at is yourself.
Think of it in terms of real life. If you are at a party where everyone is talking and having a wonderful time, and you're standing in a corner staring at people and not making any effort to speak to anyone, well that's no fun, is it? How likely is someone to approach a random stranger for no reason whatsoever, especially if they're standing to the side and not speaking to anyone? Not very likely at all. You can't be afraid to just strike up a conversation and say hello!
You have to create those first moments of roleplay yourself. It doesn't have to be anything grand or spectacular, it can be as simple as finding someone who is in character and asking them for directions to someplace random. Make a comment on the weather. Ask if they happen to know any good pubs or restaurants in the area. If you're out questing, have your character casually talk about the situation at hand, and ask their character's opinion.

On the other end of the spectrum -- don't be too forward when you're making first contact with people! Yes, everyone's RP descriptions are usually available to read; but make sure you can identify what your character sees, and what they wouldn't know. Most roleplay addons offer a section where a player can type in a summary of their character's history. Be aware that this section is information that your character wouldn't really know in detail, and don't assume your character knows everything about everyone right off the bat.
There are limits and lines with this, however. If someone's history has plenty of detail of heroic feats they've accomplished in the past, you might have heard of them from somewhere. Not in terms of pure detail, but by reputation -- that they're an accomplished warrior, or veteran of Northrend. Speaking of Northrend, that can also be a good way to strike up a conversation. Ask if they were in Northrend, or Outland, or any of the past events of the game. Don't grill other characters for information, keep it casual.

Another great way to create interaction is to take the role of the wandering storyteller or bard. Plunk yourself down in a public square -- keep it away from the bank and auction house, where non-roleplayers are invariably doing business and may stop to harass you -- and tell a story. It doesn't have to be long story, but a good tale told in a fairly populated area can get some good reactions from people.
There's other alternatives as well -- why not try a traveling salesman? Wander the streets of populated cities and hawk your wares in character. The drunken rambler is another option; head to a bar in a populated area, have a few drinks and start commiserating with the barkeep. Don't pick a fight, because roleplayers can be iffy on the subject of in-character fighting, and you don't want to create a poor impression right off the bat.
You don't have to have to go into your character's life story, nor should you! Talk about politics. Rant about Garrosh's lack of interior design skills. Get huffy about Deathwing's destruction of the Park. The key here is to draw people to you by being amusing, not irritating, and when people have warmed up to you and you've made a few friends, then you can start creating conflict if you wish to.
Getting back into roleplay is as hard as you make it. If you're open and friendly to the people around you, you'll soon find yourself right back in the thick of things. Remember to keep an open mind and be respectful of those around you, but don't hide in the corner and expect roleplay to find you. Seek it out, instigate it, and have fun!
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 2)
xretsim2142 Dec 12th 2010 8:05PM
Don't come to Moonguard... rp comes in a different flavor. Its the opposite of opening a box and seeing a bunch of puppies and kitten playing inside of it....
Make a human alt and find out xD
cloudhopper013 Dec 12th 2010 8:10PM
I digress, good sir! While I play Horde on MG, the RP Alliance side and Horde side is both great! People just keep seem to use Goldshire as an example for EVERYTHING... Just steer clear of Elwynn Forest and the RP there is friendly, and dare I say a little BETTER than horde. (it pains me, but it is somewhat true)
But seriously... MG needs more serious, good RPers, as most of them have left or stopped coming due to Elwynn/GS stereotypes.
We need to clean up this places reputation... It's not a bad place at all.
cloudhopper013 Dec 12th 2010 8:12PM
Also, I'm going to ask this here since there is nowhere else to ask (The Queue floods with comments much to quickly for me to get an answer). My "username" seems to be stuck as "cloudhopper013" which is in fact the first part of my email address, which I am also deeply ashamed of due to me creating it at the age of 10 or so. When I access my profile, I cannot press any buttons or change ANYTHING. They highlight if I mouse over them, but clicking them does... nothing.
Sorry for hijacking, but I am extremely frustrated and need help! >_
unexpectedeof Dec 12th 2010 9:21PM
Moonguard horde has a lot of really cool people if you avoid the Blood Elf noble crowd, actually.
Aquaroko Dec 12th 2010 10:35PM
Pfft. Anyone who uses the "Goldshire yadda' yadda'" excuse to avoid Moon Guard hasn't actually experienced the server. I've been on MG for most of my WoW life, and I can say that for every idiot, there's at least 1-2 good rpers you would have fun with.
If only it was Rp-PvP...
Nagi Dec 12th 2010 11:26PM
I call rubbish, my good sir! Just because Moon Guard has one glaring bad spot in it does not make it a bad place for RP. Yes, yes, Goldshire is bad, and half-naked women idling in the Silvermoon City inns can be risky business, but beyond that Moon Guard is far and away the liveliest RP server I've ever been on. Granted, these are only my personal experiences from being on Moon Guard, Earthen Ring, and Wyrmrest Accord, but RP on Wyrmrest was much more sparse than on Moon Guard for the month or so I was there, and utterly nonexistent in the whole YEAR I spent on Earthen Ring. But I've played on Moon Guard for a solid three years now, and I never fail to find RP, even outside of the major cities. Heck, I've found RP way out in Stonard and smack in the middle of the Dragonblight and Storm Peaks before!
The thing to remember about Moon Guard is that it's (at least last I heard) the most populous RP server out there by a significant margin, at least in terms of players that actually roleplay. So yes, it's naturally going to have a lot of ERP and a lot of catgirl-vampire Mary Sues, simply because the sheer population of roleplayers is so much larger. But percentages of those people to normal, lore-adherent roleplayers tends to balance out I'd wager, and the RP you're going to find in Moon Guard, the vast majority of the time, is at least passable, if not downright good.
Think of it like this: there's Goldshire, and then one short run up the road is Stormwind, which is a MASSIVE hub of typically fun and enjoyable RP...probably thanks to the fact that Goldshire's there to draw away the ERPers and griefers and keep them at a safe distance.
Xantenise Dec 13th 2010 2:51AM
Moon Guard is a great server. I've been there three years, and while we have prats like every other server and a trashed rep because of the Goldshire fiasco, I love it and I call it home.
Josin Dec 13th 2010 12:47PM
I'd avoid Moon Guard not for the ERP connotation (though there is that) but for the frequent queues to login there.
Also, Steamwheedle Cartel has a small RP community still around, though the griefers and Blizzard's lack of enforcement on RP policies has largely driven them to channel RP, rather than much face-to-face interaction. Good RP though, when you find it.
cloudhopper013 Dec 12th 2010 8:08PM
Glad to see you addressing all the people complaining that "RP is dead." I wish more people would do walk-ups. I play a character that is hard to do walkups with without sounding like a total ass who hardly knows how to RP properly, but if people walk up to ME on the other hand, it's perfectly fine. :P
Most people are just too afraid to do them, that's all. A good way to encourage them is to start "walking" instead of running when you're around other players. It's a red flag that you're ready to RP when they are. :D
wutsconflag Dec 12th 2010 8:27PM
WRT your comment about your profile, go to www.joystiq.com and you can edit some of those things there. FYI
Doublehex Dec 13th 2010 11:33AM
I need to highly disagree with the idea that Moon Guard is a great server.
Back in October, I was coming back to WoW after two years. It started off with me just playing the Cataclysm beta. Then I decided it was time to jump back into an MMO, and WoW was as fine of a choice as any.
So, I went back to Moon Guard. I remembered it as being an absolutely *fantastic* server. Roleplay occurring straight out of starting zones, a great community...
I found to my horror that simply was not the case. First there was Pornshire. I should have taken that as mu cue...but I stubbornly resisted. I held firm. I tried to believe. Afterwards, I joined the OOC channel. What a horrid idea. It was full of sickening insults, people mocking each other, a jerk who would randomly /ban people for lulz, etc. General chat was even worse, with ads for "Family RP". Walk up RP was non existent: whenever I would attempt to initiate RP in the Park or otherwise, I would just be ignored. Horribly depressing.
I transfered my character, Valgrad, to Wyrmrest Accord. Oh God, what a wonderful change of pace! The first time I joined the OOC channel and said I was a transfer, I got waves of "Welcome to Wyrmrest Accord", and even a few /tell suggesting some guilds. I ultimately decided to start my own guild The Crimson Verdict. Things could not be going better. Two months strong, and we have a healthy community. We are in our third story arc. Our OOC is like a family, making jokes at each other and giving advice when needed. IC is always active.
So, in conclusion: Moon Guard is, in my opinion, an absolutely *terrible* server, no matter how you look at it. If you want a really good RP server, I whole heartedly suggest Wyrmrest Accord.
cloudhopper013 Dec 13th 2010 7:39PM
I'm sorry you had such a bad experience, but in my time, my playing on MG was exactly how you described WrA. Perhaps it was maybe the fact that wherever you go, high population servers will have trolls... especially in trade. General chat has been great and friendly for me my entire time! (except for one instance the other day in Uldum... *shudder)
I play Horde, so perhaps it's different over on alliance side, but from my ally friends, it's apparently better. So I'm not sure what went wrong with your experience. Walk-ups have always been responded to by me. Perhaps you just suck at identifying who's welcome to RP and not? :\
And if by "OoC Channel" you mean that of a guild... then your guild must have been terrible.
I'm really sorry for your apparently horrid experience on our proud server... but please... we DO need more friendly people like you over here (as any server does) to ward off some of the pessimism that all RP servers seem to be afflicted with, and it's people that say such brash and jump-to-conclusions-ey things like yours that prevent that from happening.
Take it from me, somebody who has toons on BOTH servers and has certainly played MG longer - MG isn't NEARLY that bad. WrA and MG are about the same. MG just has the west inn in SMC and the Goldshire inn. Those are the only bad parts. :\
Doublehex Dec 15th 2010 1:20PM
"And if by "OoC Channel" you mean that of a guild... then your guild must have been terrible."
By OOC, I am referring to the global "unoffical" OOC chat channel. It is listed on the server's forum.
Ciarnat Dec 12th 2010 8:20PM
RP most definitely isn't dead, and there isn't one "best" server for it. Instead, pick the server based on other things you want - queue times, progression (or lack of), scheduled public RP events (remembering that such things come and go in cycles) and, most important, guilds.
Before transferring, research guilds to find one or more that seem to be a good fit. Finding a long-term home is your best bet for consistent, high-quality RP. My guild's been around for ten years, and we've been in MMOs that didn't even have RP servers, but still had fantastic RP.
lilywillylover Dec 12th 2010 9:46PM
When I rolled my Worgen Druid on Wymrest Accord we had an entire raid of people roleplaying the whole time. It was especially fun during the city's evacuation (levels 1-5).
Darkdust Dec 12th 2010 11:09PM
You'll probably hear this a lot, but thanks for this post. It's exactly the sort of thing that people (including me) ask in the threads for many of this column's posts. Some of the advice is obvious, of course, but the trick is that which bits are "obvious" and which are "good advice" will vary from person to person. We all come to a given game (and playstyle) from different angles and backgrounds, after all.
/me wanders away, taking notes...
Baba Dec 13th 2010 5:47AM
/follows, peering over your shoulder
Saeadame Dec 13th 2010 12:44AM
Ah, how I wish I had the confidence to RP! I've heard it's a little bit like being an actor and an author rolled into one, and it sounds like so much fun... but I'm pretty shy when it comes to things like that. I guess I could try making a character that is very similar to my Real Life personality to start with, and concentrate on keeping everything "in-game"... although coming up with reasons you haven't been around much while staying in character, when I really just want to complain that University is kicking my butt sounds difficult.
Now I just need an RP server that actually RPs (the first server I rolled on - because a friend was there - was technically designated an "RP" server, but I never saw any random, public RP... though I guess there could have been RP going on in parties or guilds exclusively... anyway, I moved to a non-RP server eventually).
I wanna RP =(...
Aldheim Dec 13th 2010 3:31AM
So RP! It's not hard. You're not going to embarrass yourself or anything -- people are generally either just going to ignore you (which sucks, but oh well) or play along.
As for your character -- well, why not try playing someone quite different from yourself? (You almost have to -- every touchstone of your life is different in Azeroth.) I know it can be difficult to do, but if you're usually shy and introverted, roll someone hammy enough to be played by Brian Blessed. Don't be afraid to have a character who's more funny than serious -- some of the more memorable moments in roleplaying come from bombastic, "light" characters. This is especially true if what you want is public RP -- heavy drama works better with people you've got a lot of trust in.
Good luck!
Qing Guang Dec 14th 2010 2:33PM
It's not that hard, really. It's just a more advanced form of the "playing pretend" you almost certainly did as a kid.
Recipe for a fun, simple character: 1 part you, 2 parts imagination, 1 cup friendliness, 1 heaping spoonful good nature, and a dash of humility.
Seriously, though, just take an idea and run with it. So long as your character isn't a jerk or a loner, you'll find people to play with. And if you aren't trying to be Arthas's third cousin or a supar sekrit dragon or the world's greatest swordsman or anything Othar Tryggvassen might claim to be, you'll probably be pretty well respected, too (otherwise, you might get some attention from WarcraftSues or The Roleplayer's Lament...).
Re: servers - the suggestions in the post are good. I generally check the forums first, then roll up my baby and check out the OOC channel to ask the people there about the local flavor and where the hotspots are (hint: usually SWC and SMC, though the latter's often called Cybermoon for a reason...).
Here's my server-specific advice:
Moon Guard has got queues a lot, especially now that Cata's hit.
Emerald Dream seems to be having queues now too, and tbh I didn't see a lot of random RP there on my belf.
I've found RP on Venture Co Hordeside to be very, very sparse. Most people treat it like an ordinary PvP server (given my experiences on Emerald Dream, I wonder if this is just a general problem with RP-PvP servers)
Wyrmrest Accord's Horde OOC community was quite rude to me when I started asking them questions, and from spending a few hours in that channel it seemed to me they spent more time cracking lewd jokes and mocking each other (and newbies) than doing anythiing RP-related. I did however find quite a bit of random RP (and a large number of Mary Sues, but that is once again tied to the high population).
Sentinels Hordeside had a decent bit of Random RP, when I went looking for it (aka visited SMC).
Farstriders has a small but friendly Ally RP community. The Horde community is a bit larger IIRC but, as I left it a few months ago (this spring, I think?), it was very, very cliquey and fraternization between guilds was, at least in my guild (a prominent one, and notable for its good RP as well as being the good!RP police) actively discouraged. It might have gotten better since then, however.
A good idea would be to check out WarcraftSues. It'll give you an idea of what isn't a good idea. Moreover, while certain servers end up looking pretty bad because of the number of offenders originating there, you have to realize that the reason people from those servers keep showing up is because the posters live there, too (and they wouldn't stay if there was no good RP to be had). And I'm sure the posters'd be happy to have more good (not a huge thing - just don't go overboard with your epic deeds or deep tragedy and you'll be fine) RPers coming to their servers. I know I would, once I find a new home.
Oh, and for absences? Just OOC tell your new RP buddies what is going on. IC, it's a good idea to have something that can call them away (for example, maybe their mother has a chronic but non-life-threatening illness and needs frequent care, or maybe thye're in some organized military and get called out on duty - this latter one's good for leveling breaks, too). People will understand (I'm in the same boat too).