Officers' Quarters: Speechless
Every Monday, Scott Andrews contributes Officers' Quarters, a column about the ins and outs of guild leadership. He is the author of The Guild Leader's Handbook, available now from No Starch Press.
A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Dear Officers' Quarters,
I was tasked with creating a healer roster for scheduled 10-man raids. As expected, some members did not make the cut.
I told the backup healers that three things must improve before they could be pulled in for non-farm content.
- Gear (with gems/enchants)
- Raid awareness
- Encounter knowledge
One of the backup/benched healers had an issue last raid. She fixed #1 after much prodding ("but this is only blue gear -- it doesn't need gems/enchants"). She still has issues with #2 (compounded by the lack of microphone). She still hasn't fixed #3 on new kills. The x-factor is her lack of microphone.
I benched her in particular because she would go OOM and so her target(s) would die. She would be stuck in a bad spot and would have to move (again, resulting in raid deaths). Her long (and sometimes hard to understand) whispered questions would be sent to the raid leader and tie us up as the typed communication would ensue. And the pattern was continued (with a history in created in Wrath).
Now these rules weren't written down before our most recent raid -- my fault. However, they were explained in a guild meeting over Vent and both the raid leader, guild leader, and myself have addressed them.
Drama: So at our most recent raid, I have 5 healers online, 3 of which are "starting lineup" as it were and they make it in.
LeftoutRaider: Why did you take X raider over me? You only took him because he's Y raider's buddy!Me: [Explains the above 3 issues + microphone ... and that "buddy issues" were not the issue.]LeftoutRaider: But I can't talk in Vent.Me: Please explain why you can't.LeftoutRaider: I just can't.Me: Is it a medical issue?LeftoutRaider: Yes.
So now I'm left with this awkward situation. Another raider has said he's spoken with her on the phone so either it's a psychological issue (low confidence), uncomfortable with her voice (throat cancer? strong accent?) or who knows what? I want to be sensitive to what is apparently a sensitive issue, but how?
Eating Zebras
Hi, EZ. First of all, I would encourage you to document these rules in a visible place and point to them frequently until they become widely known and accepted by your raiders. Written policies can solve many drama-inducing issues such as this.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 8)
whitfield Jan 17th 2011 3:11PM
Maybe she's just being super quiet to see if she can hear a pun drop.
Oh wait.
Noyou Jan 17th 2011 7:22PM
Here is your problem: You let this person not talk on vent for a long time before. So what ever actions you take now if it excludes them because of it is kind of wrong. From your line of questioning it leads me to believe that was the major reason why you canned them. You should have led off with- too many people were dying and you were running out of mana. or "you're performance is not good enough." I'm sure there are quite a few good raiders who don't talk in vent. In actuality only 1-2 people should be talking. Everyone else should be following instructions. So good luck.
tom Jan 17th 2011 9:31PM
Best "first!" ever... :-)
Nextweek Jan 18th 2011 7:01AM
Its disappointing to see that voice communication is considered so important. Gelvons The PuG are downing raid bosses and have a policy against voice communications:
http://eu.battle.net/wow/en/guild/agamaggan/the%20pug/
Voice is not required if you take the time to know the fight or your class. Which if just you placing the burden on the raid leader and leading to burn out issues.
Manadar Jan 18th 2011 8:26AM
@Noyou:
Most of the people in my guild talk on vent, except maybe 2 people. It's a lot easier to tell the raid you can't interrupt the next cast instead of writing it. The people in the raid don't need to watch the chat either.
The "only tanks and healers talk" rule is stupid imo. People just don't need to comment everything and it will be alright.
Michael Hughes Jan 18th 2011 10:09AM
My problem is having a mic, a small house and a sleeping child. So if I talk too much or too loudly, I then have to go AFK to resettle my child and placate my partner who is also woken by said child. Resulting in grumbling from fellow raiders, but not too much as we're quite a mature guild many of whom are parents who understand.
lilrabbit129 Jan 18th 2011 1:28PM
@NextWeek
ThePuG doesn't use Vent/voice because Gevlon feels that its mostly use to make up for the fact that people don't learn fights. This proves that you CAN be successful without vent, but it doesn't prove that its optimal. Just like any tool, Vent is wonderful if used properly.
If a guild is struggling through content then I think they should use every aid they can. In this particular case lack of a mic doesn't even really seem like the biggest problem this healer has. She doesn't want to take the time/gold to enchant her gear, or learn the fight. Just watching a strat video should answer 50% of the questions about the fight.
I think it all boils down to, if you have some sort of restriction ( no voice chat, etc.. ) then you have to work harder at other aspects of your play/gear to make up for it, it doesn't give you an excuse to be bad.
woecip Jan 17th 2011 3:18PM
The "She" is probably a "He" and is lying about the medical issue. You offered up a legitimate out of "medical" which they pounced on only to make it so you feel bad.
Never ever offer reasons to choose from when asking people for reasons. If you come up with one that seems reasonable they will say yes even if its not really the issue especially when its such a touchy (medical? handicapped?) issue.
If this person is mute , they should have said so from the beginning if they knew verbal communication was going to be used. They have to do it all the time in real life, its not like this would be the first time they told someone.
CaryEverett Jan 17th 2011 6:24PM
I don't think it is right to say the person is a "he"
From my experience over the years, I've noticed the majority of women claim they don't have a microphone are still women. Or more specifically, transsexual woman, who's voices may be lackluster, and are deeply afraid of being harassed and bullied. In fact, the very fact that you suggested that the person is a "he" is probably the reason that, if I am correct, why she will not talk in Vent.
My spouse is a transsexual. Her voice is lackluster. She refuses to talk on Vent for that reason and I speak on Vent for her. She is horrified of being bullied, and we are in Taint, the largest LGBT guild in the world. It would be absolutely devastating for a transsexual woman, who is playing an MMO, in part, to help escape the discrimination and harassment they may receive on a daily basis, to suddenly receive the same sorta bigotry ingame, one of the few places they have the freedom to be accepted for who they are.
It is absolutely heartbreaking, depressing, and crushing for a transsexual woman to be addressed as male over Vent because of their voice.
SINisterWyvern Jan 17th 2011 6:39PM
It's stated that another guild member talked to her on the phone. It would already be out if she was not a she at all.
CaryEverett Jan 17th 2011 6:47PM
In fact, I feel like this is a big enough concern, that if I value the person as a raider, I will take them aside, and try to politely inquire if they do not want to speak in vent because they are trans, and pointing out that my spouse is trans, and that if they are trans, I will not tolerate anybody treating them as anything less than 100% female, and if someone has a problem with it, that I will put them on raid suspension or entirely remove them from the raiding team.
I do not tolerate bigotry, discrimination, or harassment of any member of my raid team. No exceptions.
That being said, this raider does not sound like she is worth standing up for as a raider, due to her unwillingness to perform in many ways other than simply refusing to speak in Vent.
Liam Jan 18th 2011 1:37AM
How close minded and judgmental of you. I have a good friend who suffered trauma as a child and has been left unable to speak since. Attitudes like yours drove her away from WoW because she was sick of always being questioned at best and outright called a liar at worst. That's not even considering issues like tansgender and whatnot. Go think about your prejudices.
Ace Jan 18th 2011 9:58AM
@ Liam
They said she talked on the phone already. Read the article. She can talk, just doesn't want to for some reason
Trisnic Jan 18th 2011 10:39AM
Actually a lot of female gamers refuse to talk in vent because they do not want to be bothered when they are proven to be females. There was a woman here at my work who was a guild leader. She talked on vent once after 6 months. That was followed by everyone in the guild asking her constantly if she wanted help with anything and also flirting with her. It drove her away from the server.
I can guarantee that there are just as many females pretending to be males as there are males pretending to be females and that these females do it to avoid harassment. A lot of us females just want to have fun playing the game and not treated like we are any different.
I am definitely female and have a social anxiety disorder. I get by fine by typing but I do not talk on vent. When I've tried I have started shaking and feel sick. The few times I have talked on vent I have analyzed how aweful I sounded for the next week, even having nightmares over it. It's a phobia, which actually is a medical condition, and it's valid.
I play a ranged dps and have good situational awareness. I research fights and spent 30k to power level my skills to 525, just for raiding. Not every person who doesn't talk on vent is like the one being described.
Cataca Jan 17th 2011 3:12PM
I had a member like this on my team. A girl that refused to use any type of voice communication even after we sent her a headset. Come to find out that she was really a he.
Nipah Jan 17th 2011 3:51PM
I'm glad everyone in my guild know me as "Trigo's brother"... otherwise, it would be awkward to play on my female Draenei Shaman when I tell them "I don't like talking in vent".
... mainly because I don't like talking in vent.
Kurtis Jan 17th 2011 4:40PM
In my guild, something like 70% of the toons are female. But only about 40% of the members are female. Do the math... People don't even blink at a "girl" who's really a guy. Unless you're doing ERP or something, who cares?
theRaptor Jan 17th 2011 5:45PM
There is a difference between playing a female character (I do) and telling people you are female.
My standard policy across all MMO's is that unless I have heard them in vent I treat everyone as male. Many Men Online Role Playing Girls.
SINisterWyvern Jan 17th 2011 6:44PM
My main is female and people I'm in vent with for the first time don't even care. It's not the big deal everyone always makes it.
Cataca Jan 17th 2011 9:33PM
The only problem we had was that "she" flirted with most of us often. Was very awkward.