Officers' Quarters: Speechless
Every Monday, Scott Andrews contributes Officers' Quarters, a column about the ins and outs of guild leadership. He is the author of The Guild Leader's Handbook, available now from No Starch Press.
A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Dear Officers' Quarters,
I was tasked with creating a healer roster for scheduled 10-man raids. As expected, some members did not make the cut.
I told the backup healers that three things must improve before they could be pulled in for non-farm content.
- Gear (with gems/enchants)
- Raid awareness
- Encounter knowledge
One of the backup/benched healers had an issue last raid. She fixed #1 after much prodding ("but this is only blue gear -- it doesn't need gems/enchants"). She still has issues with #2 (compounded by the lack of microphone). She still hasn't fixed #3 on new kills. The x-factor is her lack of microphone.
I benched her in particular because she would go OOM and so her target(s) would die. She would be stuck in a bad spot and would have to move (again, resulting in raid deaths). Her long (and sometimes hard to understand) whispered questions would be sent to the raid leader and tie us up as the typed communication would ensue. And the pattern was continued (with a history in created in Wrath).
Now these rules weren't written down before our most recent raid -- my fault. However, they were explained in a guild meeting over Vent and both the raid leader, guild leader, and myself have addressed them.
Drama: So at our most recent raid, I have 5 healers online, 3 of which are "starting lineup" as it were and they make it in.
LeftoutRaider: Why did you take X raider over me? You only took him because he's Y raider's buddy!Me: [Explains the above 3 issues + microphone ... and that "buddy issues" were not the issue.]LeftoutRaider: But I can't talk in Vent.Me: Please explain why you can't.LeftoutRaider: I just can't.Me: Is it a medical issue?LeftoutRaider: Yes.
So now I'm left with this awkward situation. Another raider has said he's spoken with her on the phone so either it's a psychological issue (low confidence), uncomfortable with her voice (throat cancer? strong accent?) or who knows what? I want to be sensitive to what is apparently a sensitive issue, but how?
Eating Zebras
Hi, EZ. First of all, I would encourage you to document these rules in a visible place and point to them frequently until they become widely known and accepted by your raiders. Written policies can solve many drama-inducing issues such as this.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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Reader Comments (Page 2 of 8)
Revnah Jan 18th 2011 6:55AM
theraptor, that's about the most sexist thing I've ever heard. I hate, hate, HATE people assuming I must be a guy because I play WoW. This is the 21st century, women do play WoW and other MMOs - build a frickin' bridge and get over it. I'm female and so are my characters, and people better not ask for "proof" over Vent (I talk on Vent in raids, but that's it). Grrrr.
*rant over* (sorry, but this is one of my pet peeves in WoW)
Cheeselandman Jan 17th 2011 3:12PM
The information is all out there. I consistently raid without addons, and I get away with it because I do it successfully. Personally, vent, raid addons, are all optional- up until the point we wipe. I don't force anyone to get on vent until we wipe once. After that, its serious business.
Queso Jan 17th 2011 3:14PM
Maybe I'm just disbelieving, but in my experience, if it's a girl that can't talk on voips, she's a G.I.R.L. (Guy In Real Life) and thinks that it will affect people's opinion of themselves. Some people are embarrassed to play an opposite gendered character, others may think there is a social advantage to playing the other side of that line. I've had a similar situation in one of my guilds, and that was the case.
Just throwing it out as a possibility of what's up. Nothing wrong with it if it's how someone wants to play, but don't let someone's play style impede another 9-24 of your guildies' own.
Schadow Jan 17th 2011 3:35PM
Not directly on-topic, but I do finf it amusing how people have hang-ups playing opposite-gender toons. The vast majority of my time my camera view is of my toon's backside, so playing an opposite-gender toon gives me a more pleasant view.
Having said that, I have toons of both gender. I associate werewolves with male, so my worgenis male. My draenei is female because, well, they're hot.
On-topic.: If someone doesn't bother to gem/enchant and refuses to talk on vent but still expects a raid spot, you have a person with entitlement issues. There will be future entitlement dramas with this person. Drama begets drama. It may be best to cut ties now.
musicchan Jan 17th 2011 4:55PM
Ironically enough, I like to avoid talking on vent because I am a girl and I'm afraid it will change how people in-game will interact with me. In a guild that knows I'm female, it's not a big deal. But with PUGs, I'll usually try to avoid talking so as not to be judged by my gender.
As I tell people though, I don't care if they think I'm a guy. It matters not one bit to me what random people on the internet think of my gender. It doesn't change the fact that I am a woman and I won't stop being one because people say "lol gurlz don't play wow." I am always a little suspect of people who claim they are girls and get really offended when no one believes them. Real life gender shouldn't change the way you play the game.
Anzor Jan 17th 2011 5:09PM
As a good hunter, I feign death a lot. I choose toons based on their death animation.
I hate male nelfs.
Namy Jan 17th 2011 6:40PM
@Musicchan
I also found it a bit daunting the first time I got on Vent. I put it off as much as I could because I felt a bit self conscious being the only girl in our 10 man. I know how high pitched my voice is and I thought the guys who respect me in game might feel differently if they heard my girly voice coming out over Vent :P I told them my mic didn't work at first but eventually built up the courage to say hello. It was quite amusing the first time and I spoke as little as necessary but I've gotten over it now. It wasn't them it was me!
flawless Jan 17th 2011 8:22PM
I never really got the "I play a female toon because I spend most of my time staring at her backside" thing.
I mean, seriously? Who the hell actually sits there staring at the pixels of their own characters backside while playing the game, aside from people who die to fire because the light and shadow playing across their characters taut, muscular buttocks caused them to lose focus.
Originally a male night elf, I changed my main (a hunter) to female night elf because male nelfs A: look retarded, B: as a hunter, are all over the place. After that, it was race changed to draenei for the 1% hit, staying as a female character because male draenei look retarded. I mean, really.
Picking a character based on overall looks, sure. But stop saying it's because you look at their ass all the time that you want it to be female. ESPECIALLY if you play a Blood Elf.
ophelia Jan 17th 2011 10:29PM
Why would I stop saying that it's because I'm staring at their asses....if it's the truth? XD
Bronwyn Jan 18th 2011 12:12AM
I gotta agree with Flawless here, I hardly ever look at my toon when I'm playing except in a sort of casual way, since I'm too busy paying attention to everything else on my screen. I know she's going to be there, in the middle, where she always is.
That said, I do pick my toons based on looks. Can I help it if I love pretty blood elves? I think not! I also love gnomes and dwarves despite their bad reputations, so there you go :p
Daisyfizzi Jan 18th 2011 7:12AM
I don't talk on vent, but I'm hoping to be able to in the near future. We moved from Vent to Teamspeak a year ago and since we switched every time we engage a boss with my mic plugged in it cuts all my sound in WoW and Teamspeak. I've persuaded the officer in charge of sorting out Teamspeak to give MMO Mumble a go instead (other guildies were having huge sound lag with vent) and I'm hopeful this will fix it since other programs that use my mic (skype etc) work without issue.
It wasn't hard to persuade him, since he's sick of relaying everything I say (that's raid related) to our other guildies and it hasn't really been a problem raid wise since we raid sat next to each other. When it is sorted I doubt I'll speak much over vent anyway, my accent is hard to understand (yay for being Welsh :/ ) and I generally have to repeat myself to be understood.
zweitblom Jan 18th 2011 9:55AM
What part of "Another raider has said he's spoken with her on the phone" don't you understand?
Imnick Jan 17th 2011 3:17PM
While a mic is not mandatory, you need to prove that you are good enough not to need one before you can be afforded that privelege.
We have several raiders who are unable to talk on mumble (mainly due to lack of microphones and unwillingness to buy them rather than disability) but they have the skill to make up for it, although it still becomes annoying for fights requiring quick reactions to debuffs placed on players or rotation of interrupts.
The healer in this article doesn't sound like they have proved that they can make it without a mic. If unwillingness was their only failing then it wouldn't really be fair to keep them out of the raid, but it obviously isn't.
Imnick Jan 17th 2011 3:17PM
Should be *unwillingness to talk* in that last paragraph, pressed send a little too soon ;)
vinniedcleaner Jan 17th 2011 8:36PM
@Eirik
I have to completely agree with you. Since this has (apparently) been an issue since Wrath and noone has addressed the issue until now, it is 100% a raid leader issue. To persecute her now is unfair. EZ needs to make it up to her by taking her aside and showing her how to be raid worthy.
Nina Katarina Jan 18th 2011 7:54AM
Now, I often can't talk in vent if the raid goes late because my husband and kid are asleep in the next room and I don't want to pull excessive spousal aggro. I'll whisper, but it makes it difficult to understand me.
Bouncing Gnome Jan 21st 2011 10:07PM
My guild asks people who raid with us to listen in on Mumble, but they don't need to talk. We're quite used to having half a conversation spoken and the other half typed into raid.
Kay Jan 17th 2011 3:23PM
"but this is only blue gear -- it doesn't need gems/enchants"
This is a good enough reason to keep someone off the progression raiding list.
JT Jan 17th 2011 3:51PM
If anything, that's a bigger issue than no mic.
Cheeselandman Jan 17th 2011 4:11PM
I think it's just a symptom of having spent the last three years in end-game content. Blues were replaced by epics in a matter of days to a fresh 80, not weeks as cata has been shown to do.