Officers' Quarters: Speechless
Every Monday, Scott Andrews contributes Officers' Quarters, a column about the ins and outs of guild leadership. He is the author of The Guild Leader's Handbook, available now from No Starch Press.
A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Dear Officers' Quarters,
I was tasked with creating a healer roster for scheduled 10-man raids. As expected, some members did not make the cut.
I told the backup healers that three things must improve before they could be pulled in for non-farm content.
- Gear (with gems/enchants)
- Raid awareness
- Encounter knowledge
One of the backup/benched healers had an issue last raid. She fixed #1 after much prodding ("but this is only blue gear -- it doesn't need gems/enchants"). She still has issues with #2 (compounded by the lack of microphone). She still hasn't fixed #3 on new kills. The x-factor is her lack of microphone.
I benched her in particular because she would go OOM and so her target(s) would die. She would be stuck in a bad spot and would have to move (again, resulting in raid deaths). Her long (and sometimes hard to understand) whispered questions would be sent to the raid leader and tie us up as the typed communication would ensue. And the pattern was continued (with a history in created in Wrath).
Now these rules weren't written down before our most recent raid -- my fault. However, they were explained in a guild meeting over Vent and both the raid leader, guild leader, and myself have addressed them.
Drama: So at our most recent raid, I have 5 healers online, 3 of which are "starting lineup" as it were and they make it in.
LeftoutRaider: Why did you take X raider over me? You only took him because he's Y raider's buddy!Me: [Explains the above 3 issues + microphone ... and that "buddy issues" were not the issue.]LeftoutRaider: But I can't talk in Vent.Me: Please explain why you can't.LeftoutRaider: I just can't.Me: Is it a medical issue?LeftoutRaider: Yes.
So now I'm left with this awkward situation. Another raider has said he's spoken with her on the phone so either it's a psychological issue (low confidence), uncomfortable with her voice (throat cancer? strong accent?) or who knows what? I want to be sensitive to what is apparently a sensitive issue, but how?
Eating Zebras
Hi, EZ. First of all, I would encourage you to document these rules in a visible place and point to them frequently until they become widely known and accepted by your raiders. Written policies can solve many drama-inducing issues such as this.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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Reader Comments (Page 4 of 8)
Katherine Jan 17th 2011 3:34PM
Not that you can tell over the internet (even with voice chat) whether someone is trans, has an unfortunately high/low voice, or just feels like lying about their gender.
If a mic is essential for your guild, there are plenty of guilds that don't require mics due to the number of members with no mic, who have to raid while kids are asleep, who are unable to use them due to medical reasons etc, and this person could probably find one of these guilds to join fairly easily.
Kaylin Jan 17th 2011 3:41PM
As a MtF player I have issues speaking in vent as well. I'll talk to my boyfriend, or some people who know me in private channels on vent, but the one time I even tried to mention something in raid chat the entire guild flipped out. I now just pretend I don't have a microphone.
I really wish that some day, people wouldn't even care and we could talk freely about killing dragons instead of omg female player X has a really deep voice, refusing to use a mic and the fact that I have a horrible laptop to play on are the two things keeping me out of progression raiding content.
That being said, deal with the gear issues, practice the fights, learn up, and do heroics for not only gear but for practice with mechanics like moving out of fire, and the whole mic thing becomes far less of an issue.
Magma Jan 17th 2011 4:03PM
If you have issues with your guild being intolerant, your problems are bigger than a mic. I'd suggest finding one more understanding.
Furiursa Jan 17th 2011 4:11PM
What Magma said... seriously.
Jeff (Not that one ^ ) Jan 17th 2011 4:19PM
Magma,
A lot of the time, even the most tolerant people say insensitive, even hurtful, things simply because they don't see them as such. That then leads to the internal question of: do I open up my personal life (that has no relation to WoW whatsoever) to these people who I consider to be (e-)friends in order to get them to (unknowingly) stop insulting me, do I just quit the guild (and move all of my toons out) without telling them why, or do I just let it slide and die a little inside each time for not standing up to BS?
"That's so gay..."
Antigone Jan 17th 2011 4:33PM
@Jeff
I don't think it's that big a deal. When someone uses the word "gay" inappropriately, for example, I just tell them I'd prefer it if they don't use the word that way. And yes, I say it in guild chat, because I think calling people out publicly lets everyone know that our guild doesn't roll that way. You don't need to say anything about your personal life, you don't need to leave the guild (unless the leadership decides they'd rather have people tossing around inappropriate, insulting language than deal with it, in which case...), and you don't need to suck it up. Just be polite and maybe make a joke to lessen the tension.
furrama Jan 17th 2011 3:35PM
Someone else said they had spoken with her on the phone, so unless they are keeping something quiet I think she is not a he.
There is always the possibility that she is very young and isn't allowed to talk online, or doesn't have the money for a mic. Then there is my case, where I'm living at a school that blocks Vent and other things of that nature.
I've been allowed to raid without a mic before though. All the leader had to do was spam raid warnings, explain things a little before hand if I hadn't done it before, and I had DBM. I wouldn't recommend this if you are tanking though.
PeeWee Jan 17th 2011 5:17PM
"I can't afford it" isn't really an argument.
Recycling 100 beer cans will pay for a mic. Skip one raiding night and start collecting.
furrama Jan 17th 2011 6:22PM
'I can't afford it' is totally an argument. Watch me argue.
My family has a very small entertainment budget. It includes WoW and nothing else, and we got cataclysm free and we are coasting on gift cards that we couldn't use for anything else. Currently our internet is free, and we don't have cable. If something breaks that's the end of it, (like our car). Until things get better, all the free money goes to bills. If I collected the money from cans or get a little extra birthday money from a grandparent or get a bonus, that extra money is gone. There's always somewhere it needs to go more, and it's usually food or baby clothes. And I know we aren't the only ones in that poor boat. It's going to get better this summer hopefully.
But let me ask you- does not being able to afford a luxury, (and a mic and WoW itself are one), make you a bad player, (if you pull up the slack in all other ways)? Should our gaming experience suffer because of it, all else aside?
encifer Jan 17th 2011 3:37PM
Even without a mic, you can still have her get into the Vent and just listen in.
Jeff (Not that one ^ ) Jan 17th 2011 4:23PM
The problem is when she OOMs and needs an Innervate, but can't ask for one on voice. This means that at least 1 Druid has to watch the chat log for her requests or see the raid warning (if she has assist) in the middle of the DBM warnings.
Ana Stubbs Jan 17th 2011 3:38PM
I have psychological issues that make it very difficult to use vent with a group whom I don't feel comfortable with, or during periods of "low mood". I currently vent happily with my guild as I'm in a good patch, but my previous guild never heard a peep out of me due to their intimidating vent culture.
I have to say that I've never encountered a situation where lack of mic on my part has been a gamebreaker. It's always been workable aroundble by creating macros to say set phrases in raid chat, or (as with my previous raid guild), setting "play key bind" on, and arranging that pinging my bind key means I'm in some sort of trouble and need heals/dispel/battle rez. I've also skilled up my touch typing, so I can type at a speaking speed.
A good guild can work with its raiders to find ways of working that accomplish their goals and don't cause a disadvantage. Bad guilds say "you must do this and if you don't then you suck"
Magma Jan 17th 2011 4:08PM
While you might be able to get along, speaking will always be faster. Just like there are TONS of keyboard turners who manage to raid just fine, someone who is the best at keybinds and doesn't keyboard turn will always outplay the best at someone who does keyboard turn.
ambermist Jan 17th 2011 4:18PM
@Magma: Does that mean that players who really CAN'T speak on vent shouldn't be allowed to raid because they can't speak despite finding good workarounds that work for their raid?
In my previous guild we raided progressively and consistently with several people who, for one reason or another, couldn't talk on vent (everything from "wife will yell at me" to "I have such-and-such condition that either makes it difficult for me to speak or--as Ana said--makes me uncomfortable speaking."
They all had ways of working around it: raid warnings, macros, etc that worked wonderfully. Lack of vent in these circumstances never caused a wipe that I can recall. I don't want to take your words at face value, but I don't really have a choice, so: how about an open mind, huh?
Schadow Jan 18th 2011 2:39PM
It's the beginning of an expansion, which means not everyoen has all their alts up and geared for raiding and many guilds can only put together one 10-man run.
The guild I am in is in such a place. I do the raid leading. We have 2 tanks, 6 DPS and 5 healers who want to come to the raids, which is not enough for a 25-man or two 10-mans.
So we have to make choices over who sits and who raids. Anyone who sits is going to be unhappy about it. It's difficult to make the choice.
All else being equal, if I have a reason to sit someone in favour of someone else, such as one person is gemmed/enchanted and another isn't, or one has rep gear and one doesn't, or one can communicate and one can't, I'll sit the person who gives me a reason to sit them.
Anteia Jan 17th 2011 3:39PM
I'm shy about using a mic and I really AM a she that is a she. I was born with a speech impediment, and despite having speech therapy for most of my childhood, my family would stop me in the middle of sentences just to repeatedly make me say a word 'correctly' despite the fact that they completely understood what I was trying to say. This left me with such low self-esteem when speaking that doing so to a bunch of people who haven't heard me speak before? WAY scary to me. I hate even using the phone to call about service issues regarding things. I have to in that case. I actually have had several mics break on me even when I've had them. Right now, my mic is not working yet again.
Are mics really useful? Yes. When I could get used to talking to my raid, which took quite a while, I called out a lot of the tactics if people needed warning something was coming (my raid leader, actually, in that case refused to use DBM). It sounds like the REST of the issues are enough reason to not want someone in a raid, but don't underestimate how crippling anxiety issues can be when it comes to some people and talking. I would say not willing to BE in vent is an incredibly "No, you're gone." issue. But choosing not to talk in vent shouldn't be. Alertness can be shown in other ways than talking... I've often found the ones that actually talk the most that aren't explaining strats and the like are the ones who get us killed. :/
woecip Jan 17th 2011 3:49PM
How the heck do you break that many mics? Ive had the same ones for at least 6 years.
Anteia Jan 17th 2011 4:06PM
I wish I knew! I've even bought pretty expensive mics to try to avoid the issue. It's incredibly vexing even to me. It's not like I give it to my german shepherd to play with when I'm not raiding. They just eventually all start to go static crazy which no one wants to listen to in a vent or the sound flat out disappears one day and nothing I can do fixes them.
ambermist Jan 17th 2011 4:21PM
My mics get broken all the time (I've been through 5 or 6 in the past 4 years), but I DO know what causes mine: 1) limited budget, so we buy cheaper headsets, 2) I have 2 children under 6.
Item 2 pretty consistently wrecks my hardware. I've gone through three keyboards in 2 years because my toddler enjoys pouring soda on them.
icepyro Jan 17th 2011 4:34PM
I get the impression we are talking about an analog mic. One that plugs into your sound card with a jack that looks similar to a speaker jack. Chances are it's the driver software or the jack prematurely wearing out the mic by constantly adjusting levels when you aren't even using it. The computer/sound card gets to thinking you need it turned on despite not having any software open to channel it and it just burns out.
If that's the case, you could try unplugging the mic when you are not using it. That's easier on some computers/desks than others, but definitely worth a shot for your current mic.
Or invest in a USB mic or headset. I have a headset I use at work that I simply bought a second for home. I plug it in and the computer switches to it for sound and I can unplug it for it to switch back. In fact, Windows 7 can tell the difference between communications and normal speakers for many apps. The directional aspect of the mic means I've even had WoW playing through my speakers and only chat in my headset and it caused no problems at all. USB ports are also usually more accessible so unplugging it when not in use is easy.