Officers' Quarters: Speechless
Every Monday, Scott Andrews contributes Officers' Quarters, a column about the ins and outs of guild leadership. He is the author of The Guild Leader's Handbook, available now from No Starch Press.
A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Dear Officers' Quarters,
I was tasked with creating a healer roster for scheduled 10-man raids. As expected, some members did not make the cut.
I told the backup healers that three things must improve before they could be pulled in for non-farm content.
- Gear (with gems/enchants)
- Raid awareness
- Encounter knowledge
One of the backup/benched healers had an issue last raid. She fixed #1 after much prodding ("but this is only blue gear -- it doesn't need gems/enchants"). She still has issues with #2 (compounded by the lack of microphone). She still hasn't fixed #3 on new kills. The x-factor is her lack of microphone.
I benched her in particular because she would go OOM and so her target(s) would die. She would be stuck in a bad spot and would have to move (again, resulting in raid deaths). Her long (and sometimes hard to understand) whispered questions would be sent to the raid leader and tie us up as the typed communication would ensue. And the pattern was continued (with a history in created in Wrath).
Now these rules weren't written down before our most recent raid -- my fault. However, they were explained in a guild meeting over Vent and both the raid leader, guild leader, and myself have addressed them.
Drama: So at our most recent raid, I have 5 healers online, 3 of which are "starting lineup" as it were and they make it in.
LeftoutRaider: Why did you take X raider over me? You only took him because he's Y raider's buddy!Me: [Explains the above 3 issues + microphone ... and that "buddy issues" were not the issue.]LeftoutRaider: But I can't talk in Vent.Me: Please explain why you can't.LeftoutRaider: I just can't.Me: Is it a medical issue?LeftoutRaider: Yes.
So now I'm left with this awkward situation. Another raider has said he's spoken with her on the phone so either it's a psychological issue (low confidence), uncomfortable with her voice (throat cancer? strong accent?) or who knows what? I want to be sensitive to what is apparently a sensitive issue, but how?
Eating Zebras
Hi, EZ. First of all, I would encourage you to document these rules in a visible place and point to them frequently until they become widely known and accepted by your raiders. Written policies can solve many drama-inducing issues such as this.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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Reader Comments (Page 5 of 8)
Saitenyo Jan 17th 2011 10:56PM
@woecip Owning a kitten is one way. I went through two mics and one set of speakers during his teething month.
Alan Jan 17th 2011 3:50PM
We have a healer on our 10man raid team that does not use a mic. For him, it's a combination of his boyfriend thinks it's creepy, and he has a very strong accent that he is self conscious about. He is more than competent at his role, and for quick communications like OOM, etc, he has macro'd. He still has a headset, so he can hear us talking and listen to strategies and directions.
Foneybullony Jan 17th 2011 3:49PM
Raiding is a Team E-Sport
It Takes Coordination, Preperation and Dedication.
Id Cut the fat and replace them with any number of Players who would love the chance to be apart of the team.
If You cant Listen to the Coach, Your gonna get benched
its simple!
JT Jan 17th 2011 3:55PM
it Bothers Me Greatly when People type Like This for Seemingly No reason.
If you'd take some time to just make your post conform to standard English (punctuation, capitalization, use of apostrophes, etc.), there's a greater chance your otherwise correct message would be more well received.
(cutaia) Jan 17th 2011 4:06PM
It doesn't particularly "bother" me when someone does that. But I always do a double take when I see it.
Utakata Jan 17th 2011 5:16PM
Foney forgot to add, "You bet'cha!" and that he/she hunts moose in Alaska.
icepyro Jan 17th 2011 3:56PM
Just want to say that if you ask the guildies to supply, most will supply or at least supplement. I know I happily make glyphs for my guild and enchant gear because the guild bank will resupply any mats/gold I use or the person will give me flasks and stuff they create for it. If they have no professions to give back something, well that's something else that should be brought up.
As others have said, macros will get around most of the more common situations. I had a guy with a bad mic who made /yell macros for the week until he could replace it. That worked on one encounter, but on the next it didn't so we gave him assist and he would /rw (raidwarning) so it appeared in big letters across everyone's screen.
As for the last, well, that just takes patience. It doesn't have to be forced to watch videos. I know I do much better with an explanation and DBM tellling me stuff than with watching videos. I just can't tell the cues well in some videos.
icepyro Jan 17th 2011 4:01PM
I forgot to add, my need to learn by doing is actually why a couple of those macros were made. He kept a couple of macros because they were very good visual reminders. He was melee so it was rather visible on my ranged caster's screen.
samamel Jan 17th 2011 3:59PM
i refuse to use a mic in raid myself as well, all the inane chatter on vent with strange voices which have no connection to character names in game for me are driving me crazy. only one with ability to speak should in my opinion be raidleader and rest should only listen.
if you wanna talk about crap on vent go vent (hurr hurr) your sociopath needs on fecesbook i dont play wow to listen to people talking about random stuff.
just my 2 cents - voice communication is way too overrated. i know the encounters i know how to react in different situation and why would i need to speak to people i expect to have the same knowledge/ability to partake in the encounter is beyond me.
tl;dr voice comm only if its in direction from raidleader to raid team, not the other way around
Pyromelter Jan 17th 2011 4:32PM
"i know the encounters i know how to react in different situation and why would i need to speak to people i expect to have the same knowledge/ability to partake in the encounter is beyond me."
What if you didn't know the encounters. What if the encounters had some sort of RNG that made it different each time. What if you were attempting a boss for the first time, and there was no video or strategy guide on it.
If you are doing older content that is laughably farmable, yeah, you don't need vent. If you are in a guild that really pushes progression hard, vent is quite necessary. Try some hard modes with a group of people that have never done the boss, with yourself never having done the boss, and with the boss fight being significantly different than the normal mode.
nieboh Jan 17th 2011 7:30PM
I take it you're never raid leader.
What if you were the only one that really knew the fight? What if you were the only one who noticed something happening that was critical for the rest of the raid to know? One last what if...what if you got disconnected from the game in the middle of a fight but were still connected on vent (i've seen this happen quite often)?
Your attitude of "I refuse to use a mic" comes across as quite selfish to me. I am much more tolerant of "I can't use a mic" than "I'm capable and I refuse".
Tuscansalami Jan 17th 2011 4:08PM
This. Very much this.
There's plenty of reasons why a person mightn't be able to speak on vent - no mic, broken mic, poor quality mic, too much sound in the background, can't speak due to people sleeping in the next room.
Whatever the reason or excuse, even if it's not wanting to be caught out as actually being a guy/girl, or simply chronic shyness - there's zero reason why you can't listen in whilst not having to say a word. At the very least, it saves time with the raid leader having to retype out everything just for one person.
As for communicating back - goodness knows there's enough verbose mods out there that'll automatically let the raid know that you've been cursed/spiked/chased or whatever before you even realise that it's happened - and half the time it's someone else's mod anyhow. Failing that, it's not that hard to whip up a quick macro for a specific circumstance just in case.
Sure, they may not be perfect solutions, but at least you're making the effort to work around the problem for the benefit of the raid rather than looking like you're just there to get carried by the rest of the guild...
Pyromelter Jan 17th 2011 4:38PM
Healers have 2 important things that must be communicated, if they happen
1. Out-of-mana, to ask for a mana tide, innervate, hymn of hope.
2. Being incapacitated. This could mean you are mind controlled, stunned, or even being chased by something where you have to run a lot.
If the raid doesn't know when these things happen, they can and will cause wipes. For progression content where every global cooldown counts, voice is the fastest way to communicate this information; that being said, chat and macros can do the job well enough for many situations.
A big thing with the healer in this article is whether he/she is communicating well with the other healers in /party chat in group 5. In guilds I've been in, oftentimes a separate channel is created, like /join guildnameheal. The officer in this letter hints that maybe this person isn't good with communication to begin with, and that's the bigger issue.
Hemnes Jan 17th 2011 4:15PM
As stated, the reasons for not speaking in vent are not relevant...if she's an encounter lead, she needs to speak up...but otherwise, that shouldn't be an issue that can't easily be overcome with a /OOM macro, for instance. It's the attitude that needs to be the ultimate deciding factor there.
One of my raiders is deaf. There have been a few times when it created sub-optimal situations (on the fly changes in plans/instructions, communicating that she needs to interrupt because everyone else is on cooldown, etc), but usually this comes from a death, and the dead guy now has his hands free to type instructions.
However, overall, this raider goes out of her way to have good situational awareness and a solid understanding of the encounter's mechanics so that she can anticipate needs, and doesn't need to be told these things on the fly.
I feel like as much as it's on us to reasonably work around her disability (having someone type out instructions/assignments, rather than simply speak them in vent), it's also on her to do anything and everything in her power to not let it hold her (or us) back (like knowing those fights, coming prepared, and paying attention to what's happening around her).
Rob Jan 17th 2011 4:16PM
Hi, my name is Rob and I'm addicted to WoW.
I'm also married. My wife is wonderful and understands that I love to the play the game and that it's my hobby. However, she also wants to spend time with me, and so we often spend several hours together on the couch, watching television / movies that interest her, while I play WoW.
In order for this to "count", I cannot be a distraction to her enjoyment of what she's doing, so I play without any sound. This has worked great for many years, and my playing without sound hasn't been an issue to my ability to be a quality player.
However, I recently wanted to get involved in end-game Raiding. As you know, most guilds have a Vent requirement when Raiding. I can fulfill that requirement by listening, but I cannot use a Mic. Using a Mic violates the "no sound" policy, because I have to talk out loud. That's distracting to my wife, because she's trying to watch her show.
If this person cannot use a Mic, and they type reasonably well, what's the big deal? Have her put on a headset and listen, and type her responses. She can automate "OOM" messages to Pary/Raid chat. And she can listen to things like, "Hey GTFO of the bad!" and react as fast as everyone else.
Just my $0.02 worth. Mics are nice, they aren't required.
Magma Jan 17th 2011 4:21PM
Like I said above, while it is perfectly possible to raid with no mic, the best non mic user will never beat the best mic user. It simply ups everyone's performance.
Teni Jan 17th 2011 4:38PM
@Rob -- Your best solution is to wear a headset with a built-in mic. And use push-to-talk when you need to speak. If you are worried about not being able to hear your wife when she speaks, buy a headset with only one headphone, or just take the phone off of one ear. Be aware, however, that during a raid, you will need to put your gameface on and focus on the encounters... so unlike questing, you can't just stop at any point to have a conversation with your wife.
As for people who wish not to speak into a mic, there are various reasons (speech impediment, home environment too noisy with screaming babies, heavy accent, dead/mute, etc.). For the purposes of raiding, I'd word the requirement the way I'd write up a job description. That is, instead of saying "Candidate must be big and brawny," you say, "Candidate must be able to deadlift 100 pounds and carry the weight 20 feet across a room in less than 10 seconds." If the healer cannot use a mic to explain when she's OOM and needs another healer to help, maybe she can set up a macro that either yells or sends a message to the healer channel that says "I'm OOM, help with my target" or somesuch?
Bottom line, though; it sounds like she is not ready for serious raiding.
Pyromelter Jan 17th 2011 4:43PM
Rob, if you are a dps'er, you generally don't need a mic. Tanks and healers definitely need mic's for progression content. You can be like what someone else described, the warlock who has said maybe 30 words in 4 years - you just do your dps job, talk in /p and /ra, and you most likely won't ever need to say anything.
It would be inconsiderate to attempt to join a progression raid guild as a tank or dps without consistent access to a microphone. I've been in a guild where some dps'ers could hear, but wouldn't speak without an issue, but when the healers were not able to speak up, it caused big problems.
jfofla Jan 17th 2011 4:19PM
I am in a Hardcore 25 man guild. I am a healer, and I don't talk in vent.
I have a mic, but will never use it because the wife is asleep in the room right next to me and ANY voice communication will aggro her and wipe me from the raid.
I have never, never, in all my years of raiding (Since release) found it a handicap.
I can hear everyone in vent, I know what I am doing, why on earth would I need to chat about it?
Pyromelter Jan 17th 2011 4:45PM
The day you get incapacitated by an unavoidable boss mechanic and don't communicate that, and your healing assignment dies, is the day that you need to chat about it.
This can happen quite often for certain heroic modes, so I find it hard to believe you are in a hardcore raid guild and not talking on vent.