Officers' Quarters: Speechless
Every Monday, Scott Andrews contributes Officers' Quarters, a column about the ins and outs of guild leadership. He is the author of The Guild Leader's Handbook, available now from No Starch Press.
A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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A few weeks ago, I ventured the opinion that raiding addons aren't optional. They are an essential tool for raiding well, and even if you think you're pro enough to go without them, it's a matter of courtesy to your fellow raiders to use them. This week, we have a similar scenario, but instead of an addon, the raider in question refuses to use a microphone and claims that it is a medical issue -- despite some evidence to the contrary.
Dear Officers' Quarters,
I was tasked with creating a healer roster for scheduled 10-man raids. As expected, some members did not make the cut.
I told the backup healers that three things must improve before they could be pulled in for non-farm content.
- Gear (with gems/enchants)
- Raid awareness
- Encounter knowledge
One of the backup/benched healers had an issue last raid. She fixed #1 after much prodding ("but this is only blue gear -- it doesn't need gems/enchants"). She still has issues with #2 (compounded by the lack of microphone). She still hasn't fixed #3 on new kills. The x-factor is her lack of microphone.
I benched her in particular because she would go OOM and so her target(s) would die. She would be stuck in a bad spot and would have to move (again, resulting in raid deaths). Her long (and sometimes hard to understand) whispered questions would be sent to the raid leader and tie us up as the typed communication would ensue. And the pattern was continued (with a history in created in Wrath).
Now these rules weren't written down before our most recent raid -- my fault. However, they were explained in a guild meeting over Vent and both the raid leader, guild leader, and myself have addressed them.
Drama: So at our most recent raid, I have 5 healers online, 3 of which are "starting lineup" as it were and they make it in.
LeftoutRaider: Why did you take X raider over me? You only took him because he's Y raider's buddy!Me: [Explains the above 3 issues + microphone ... and that "buddy issues" were not the issue.]LeftoutRaider: But I can't talk in Vent.Me: Please explain why you can't.LeftoutRaider: I just can't.Me: Is it a medical issue?LeftoutRaider: Yes.
So now I'm left with this awkward situation. Another raider has said he's spoken with her on the phone so either it's a psychological issue (low confidence), uncomfortable with her voice (throat cancer? strong accent?) or who knows what? I want to be sensitive to what is apparently a sensitive issue, but how?
Eating Zebras
Hi, EZ. First of all, I would encourage you to document these rules in a visible place and point to them frequently until they become widely known and accepted by your raiders. Written policies can solve many drama-inducing issues such as this.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like the microphone is even the biggest issue with this player. She seems unmotivated to spend gold on improving her gear, has glaring awareness/performance issues, and doesn't familiarize herself with boss strategies ahead of time. Any one of these is enough reason not to bring her when you have such limited slots.
On top of that, she seems to feel persecuted by her benching, which tells me that she either doesn't understand the policy or is unwilling to acknowledge her own shortcomings. Instead, she thinks there's some kind of conspiracy against her. That's a bad sign.
You can work with her to improve, but at the end of the day, you can only do so much hand-holding in a raid environment. At some point, your players have to be accountable for themselves. You seem focused on the mic issue, but that is something to address after she has proven that she deserves a slot based on your three existing criteria.
Let's say she gets with the program and becomes a better, more dependable raider. What then?
Is a mic mandatory?
It depends on circumstances. A healer with an assignment can get by without a mic just fine, assuming no one makes a mistake and the encounter goes smoothly. But that rarely happens on progression content. When things go wrong, a mic helps you to convey the problem quickly in a way that typing never can.
Mics are especially helpful to healers. When they find themselves unable to heal their assignment or about to run out of mana, their ability to convey that information in a timely fashion can prevent a wipe. You could make macros for these and other problems, but that means asking your fellow raiders to keep an eye on their chat log in addition to everything else going on in the fight, which is not ideal.
A mic is also extremely helpful on fights like Atramedes. If you're getting chased during the air phase, you need to tell the player assigned to shields exactly when you need him or her to stun the boss.
Verbal communication is also important when you're learning a strategy. Typing things out takes up a lot of time that could be better spent on attempts. During encounters, most players won't need a mic and will only need to listen to the person calling out coordinated movements and other warnings. However, a mic is a great tool that can help you beat encounters when you otherwise might have wiped.
I wouldn't say a mic is 100% mandatory, but it is so helpful that most guilds consider it mandatory. In fact, many guilds ask right on their application whether a player has access to the guild's preferred chat software and a microphone. They won't even consider a recruit who doesn't.
EZ, I would advise you to write into your policies that a mic is mandatory if you feel it is important enough. Of course, you may have to make an exception for this particular healer.
The exception
Back in August, OQ tackled the case of a deaf raider who became the target of blame for wipes and subsequently left the guild. It was an ugly scenario and not one that I wish to see repeated here. However, there is a difference between a raider who can raid well despite a disability or condition, and a raider who doesn't raid well before you even take the disability or condition into account. I believe your healer falls into the latter category -- if she is, in fact, telling you the truth about herself.
It is suspicious to me that she did not elaborate at all on her medical issue, despite evidence that she is able to use a phone. She doesn't have to tell you about her condition, of course, and it's not appropriate to pry. Even so, it would be helpful to find out whether her condition is temporary or permanent. I don't think you'd be crossing the line to ask her that. You could also ask her whether she might be able to have a mic handy and use it only for emergencies, or if that's out of the question. If you find out at some point that she's lying to you about the problem, then I recommend asking her to leave the guild. No one wants liars on their roster, particularly ones who are as unmotivated as she seems to be.
If you do make a mic mandatory in your policies, you should include the exception that players who are prevented from using one by circumstances outside their control can go without. Since your healer violates your criteria in other ways already, however, the policy won't really make a difference in her case until she improves her preparation and awareness.
My final advice on this topic is to do your best to impress on your healer that is not a matter of favoritism, but rather strict adherence to the guild's own rules that is determining who gets a raid slot. Until your healer understands that, she's only going to cause more drama over it.
/salute
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Reader Comments (Page 8 of 8)
Suki Jan 18th 2011 10:49AM
I am actually a guild leader and I do not use vent. I have been running my guild, successfully for a year. I organize well and get stuff done, I always try to be kind of helpful to my members and I am around every night. That is why people are still here.
My guild has vent and I consider it a vital tool, but I do not talk on it. This is because I have a social anxiety disorder and a phobia of talking on vent. It is hard enough for me to talk to anyone over the phone except close relatives, and even then I am sometimes scared to talk over the phone. I have tried to talk to my guild over vent but I can't do it. I start shaking badly and get sick. I feel guilty that I do not talk to them through vent, and that I do not say anything after our serious progression kills, but they still accept me for who I am.
Two of our healers do not talk on vent. They are considered our best healers. They were the reason we one shot 10 man Chimaeron on our very first attempt, a healer intensive fight. We accept them for who they are.
I'm not saying that a mic doesn't help, it definitely does, but there are valid reasons why some people don't use it. These range from waking their kids to issues such as mine.
I think that guilds are well within their right to require that people talk on vent and use a mic, but it is also possible to have a good, progressive guild without this being necessary.
Suki Jan 18th 2011 10:50AM
In regards to the above comment I meant to say that I do not talk on vent. I definitely do go into vent and listen at all times. Sorry that I couldn't edit my comment.
John Jan 18th 2011 11:16AM
Honestly, though it may seem awkward, if you have a close bond with your members, you should be able to ask them about these things if necessary, assuming (s)he isn't lying about his/her gender. Gender matter aside, if it's an issue that she is uncomfortable talking about, always offer that second question "Are you uncomfortable with talking about it to me?" Make it clear that you won't tell anyone unless she wants them to know, and that if you were able to know, it could help her along in the mic issue, and possibly make an exception. But if she doesn't want to talk about it, then just back off and apologize.
In the position of an officer, raid leader, or GM, this knowledge can be important when it comes to the game, so it is understandable, but it certainly isn't important enough that if a person is uncomfortable speaking about it for any reason, they have the right to remain silent on the matter (not the Bill of Rights one, just a matter of courtesy).
I've had members reveal to me several different mental or physical disabilities, and it hasn't changed my opinion on them in the least. It's just been helpful so that I can give them special attention if need be, though for the most part they don't let it hinder them in an obvious manner. And of course I'm not going to give player names or disease names here, as that's out of my boundaries, however vocal they may be about it at times.
Bringing the gender matter back in, when it comes to something fishy like this, it's likely that they are a guy playing a girl character, and are 'in the closet' about the matter. I wouldn't take any action concerning it though. Just treat it as an inability to use a mic, and go along with the game until they want to admit their real gender. Otherwise, if the posters here are wrong about their assessment, you could create an awkward situation, more awkward than the medical issue that was originally there to begin with. Heck, she could admit the medical issue out of frustration, and that's not only embarrassing for her, but it can make anyone curious on the matter feel guilty for pushing her about it.
So overall, it's an awkward situation, but you should have the trust in your members to press the matter just a little, as long as it's understood that you're risking walking on glass from here on.
Ras Jan 18th 2011 11:23AM
Vent is required if the raid leader says it is end of story. If the raid leader says being able to speak on vent is a requirement then you better get a microphone or find another guild. If the guild chooses to make an exception because you are masquerading as a female and dont want to be found out or because you have some disability or personal situation that doesnt allow you to speak on vent (ie baby in the next room) then you had better not cause a wipe because of your inability to speak on vent. While it is good to try and accommadate others it is not always practical. Just as we dont allow blind people to drive if you are unable to effectively communicate in a serious raiding guild and this causes wipes then dont expect to be invited to the next raid.
bmecher2000 Jan 19th 2011 7:08AM
Solve the other issues. Point out where to get the info to be prepared. let her know the under gearing may be part of the frequent OOM issues, and that the game has changed and it is learning time again.
I am sure if the other issues can be solved the vent issue would not be an issue............
Scooter Jan 18th 2011 5:31PM
I think people are looking at this the wrong way. Neither side is really wrong. The guild is fully within it's rights to require microphones and by no reason should they change this. At the same time the troubled healer is entitled to his/her/whatever rights. So what happens when the two conflict?...compromise.
If said healer has a medical reason that prevents the use of or alters their voice to the point of embarrassment then let them be judged by their merits as a healer. If the fight cannot be done without speaking then swap the person for that fight.
If the reason is not medical then the person needs to play elsewhere. A person playing an avatar of the opposite sex who doesn't want to be outed has no excuse. Raid time involves a group effort and following the rules. Any indulgence in perversion needs to stop.
Transsexuals are a touchy subject if not handled properly. The fact is these people have done something drastic often times to make their lives seem livable to them. Among the most difficult problems they face is acceptance, so it is understandable if they don't want their voice to give them away on vent. The truth; however, is while it is important to not judge the decisions they've made with their life you do not have to get yourself mixed up in it either.
Regardless of the situation it is your decision to make. Personally, I would give said healer a trial period of 1-2 weeks of the person's choice. If she cannot abide by this then let her remove herself. If you feel any obligation to the person then assist them in finding a friendlier guild or perhaps reading through this site. "Drama Mama's" and "Officers Quarters" are bound to have a post to help them.
gamerunknown Jan 18th 2011 6:31PM
I don't like leaving my mic on at all times either, especially if I'm drinking or eating while playing WoW. Trying to have a 25 man raid all with open mic channels would be a mess too. But in order to hit my push to chat key I have to not be frantically pushing buttons. For situations like: "I'm bone spiked, someone needs to take care of the main tank", that's fine, for situations where someone is in the fire and I want them to get out of it, I find a /y %t macro works better. Perhaps a study could be done on visual and auditory information processing which would be useful in determining which take precedence when trying to interpret commands which would settle the argument though.
Also the raid leader can take a bit of extra time going over tactics in text and the raiders will have later reference to them. I think the real issue is a lack of camaraderie between raiders if they're not all on Vent. I know joking about was just as prevalent as discussion of tactics in our Vent.
Muukou Jan 19th 2011 3:40PM
For the better portion of four years I had a job for phone technical support. As a consequence, after talking a good eight hours that day, I did not really do not want to talk on vent. I would be online and listening to the chat, but I wouldn't really respond unless there was a particular need to do so. To further complicate that, I was the only Canadian in a guild of mostly American's I was teased about my accent. And before anyone says anything, I have never used the terms "aboot" or "eh" in conversation. Ever. Which makes me slightly hesitant to use an online chat service with relative strangers.