Breakfast Topic: The curious phenomenon of "reverse burnout"

We all hear the stories about people who played World of Warcraft too much and as a result had to stop playing to make the game fun again. I've fallen victim to that myself back in the days of Trial of the Crusader. But lately, I've encountered something that at first makes little sense. The best thing I can call it is "reverse burnout," and it's not from playing too much -- it's from not playing at all.
I admit to being a raider at heart. I love making my gear a shiny shade of purple so that I can join nine or 24 other people as we down the big, bad monsters of WoW together. It was my reason for getting to level 70, and it kept me hooked all throughout Wrath of the Lich King. But since the launch of Cataclysm, my raiding days have just ... stopped. Each guild I've joined on the promise of being able to raid either hasn't raided at all, or they've gone raiding without me. And without raiding, it feels like my motivation to play is gone.
I've gotten all the gear I could get from heroic dungeons and reputation vendors (except bracers, which will never, ever drop), daily quests feel like a chore, and the friends that I have online are off in their own raiding guild that I'm on a waiting list to try out for (they're full on hunters). Pickup raids have proven to be too unreliable in terms of both time and talent as well. It's like one part of such a huge game was the glue that held everything else together for me.
So what do you do when one of your favorite parts of the game becomes off-limits? How do you deal with being bored with WoW -- when you're not even really playing at all?
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Reader Comments (Page 7 of 7)
Bynde May 10th 2011 4:07PM
"I remember they were all like "leveling from 80-85 will be as time consuming as leveling from 1-80" or something..."
I remember that, too. And now we all know it was complete bullshyt.
Blightmare May 10th 2011 2:24PM
WOW same deal for i mean you take the time and do the research to get ready for raid but no matter how much effort you put in by your self you need the help of other people to get to end game that gose for pvp and pve its all the same. Solo content is not a bad idea just something beside daily quests and junk to keep me busy something like a very long chain quest im talking something that will take a real week worth of time. and have it be epic lots of story line sort of something like retaking the lost troll islands and then let us get 1 piece of tear gear nothing on heroic standards i mean come on something to get a raiders or pvpers started or mabe a nice epic weapon. either that or have raid be smaller so me and the 4 other people that i actually play with can do stuff besides grind heroics and fail at arena.
Sally Bowls May 10th 2011 3:19PM
The WOW Design Philosophy is 1-84 don't matter; Raid or Die.
Cataclysm with the new guild system put more pressure on guilds (both rep rewards and the harder heroics and to a lesser extent raids).
Fewer raiders means more deaths.
Mike2vicious May 10th 2011 3:53PM
Gears 3 beta :D:D
Gevlon May 10th 2011 4:19PM
Trolling forums is popular I hear.
PocketFox May 10th 2011 5:34PM
When I read this Breakfast Topic, I could have sworn I was the one who wrote it, right down to nobody needing hunters.
My response to this "reverse burnout" was, to put it bluntly, to quit. I still have my account (mostly because of a friend who still plays), but I never log on anymore; I've moved on to Rift. 4.2 might bring me back, with the new Hyjal stuff, but we'll have to see. After six years, WoW's gotten a little stale.
Palieus May 10th 2011 5:44PM
It wouldn't be so bad if i wasn't forced into raiding to gain the head and shoulder piece i need. At lest i could feel a since of accomplishment if i could do it on my own....
i just never got into raiding or the drama that comes with it. i enjoy soloing and the small 5 mans groups. that's what i enjoy doing. Seems unfair to have to find a raiding guild or suffer through pugs to finish my set.
CrazyGL May 10th 2011 7:30PM
Weston,
I would suggest that you start shopping for a guild that would be a long term home. Interview the people running the guild. That's more important than the guild perks. You need leaders who can execute and hold people accountable for raiding commitments. That's how raids can continue to run.
It will be a difficult search but there may be something out there to match you. I met with a Blizzard Gamemaster recently and he was quite shocked at how long my guild has been around. We're almost hitting the 5 yrs mark as a casual raiding guild. Yes, we have been raiding consistently nonstop every week for almost 5 yrs (except for a 3 months break to enjoy the leveling in Cataclysm).
Our raiders have lives, jobs, family and military tours that we work around.
Raiding is an option in our guild but when you choose to raid, we have standards that we required such as keeping commitment, knowing your class, etc...
Everyone in the guild is an adult with family responsibilities and we put real life first. To enable our raiders to do that, we have to plan out months in advance for problems and issues on raiding. For example, right now, I'm planning out for raiding subs for the summer so that we can continue to raid without a beat when people take off for vacation.
Our average turnover is 3 years for our members. The key for us is that we try to meet our members' expectations and we clearly let them know what we cannot provide.
We're not a large guild yet we're fielding a 25 man team and 3 10 man teams for raiding. It didn't come overnight. We had unhappy guildies who waited patiently while we planned out schedules and recruited tanks/healers. We shared what we were doing to make it happen. For one team, it took 4 months and 11 tanks before we found 2 tanks who were not flakes and can be depended on to show up when they commit.
I should think that there's got to be more guilds out there like us somewhere with the millions of people who play WoW.
muffinmocha May 11th 2011 12:05PM
I miss it everyday, everyday I plan to log, but I end up doing something else, like writing this...Dark Intent
muffinmocha May 11th 2011 12:09PM
I miss playing everyday. When I wake up in the morning, I'd tell myself, "today, I will get on my warlock." Instead, I get home from work and end up doing something else, like writing this blog, http://warlock-darkintent.blogspot.com
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