WoW Rookie: How to balance life vs. WoW

WoW Rookie actually picks up the occasional question from folks who are more "casual players" than "rookie players." In this sense, I'm talking about people with full-time jobs, families, and other commitments than playing WoW. It's a matter of priority; folks love the game, wish they could put more time into it, but can only squeeze so many hours a week into killing pixel monsters.
Balancing a full life with the wide world of Azeroth is a tricky thing. If there's one true fact about WoW, it's that it has a lot of content. A lot of content. Right off the bat, achieving level 85 can easily take over 24 hours of play time. If you can only spare three hours a week, that's at least a few months to reach maximum level. Even scoring level 85 doesn't mean you've seen all the content; you've barely scratched the surface. Endgame activities like PVP, raiding, and achievements multiply the amount of time it would take to "finish" the game, even if you don't count the ongoing cascade of new content with each new patch.
A reader asked:
I'm having trouble keeping up. I've been playing a few months and I don't know how to keep it going with summer and kids' vacations How do I keep up with it all, and get all the achievements done, without giving up my life? I only have about four hours a week to paly and feel like I'm falling behind. Is it possible to get caught up?
Bad newsHow do you do everything in WoW within a few hours a week?
The unfortunate answer is: You don't. Especially if you're just starting the game, there is no reasonable way for to you to blow through all the achievements, all the instances, all the experience in just four hours a week.
WoW is a truly huge game, and there are a lot of time sinks. Even a well-oiled, veteran 5-man group can take over an hour in a heroic dungeon, let alone the PUGs you're likely to face as a casual player. These dungeons are often considered the core of the game; when you ding 85, you cruise into the dungeons, do stuff to get the best preraid gear possible, and then do other stuff.
New achievements are added every patch, and the old achievements take a very long time to complete. I've considered leveling up a brand new character from zip-to-everything to get a measure of how long it takes to "finish" all contemporary possibilities, but I'm not crazy. Doing "it all" takes many, many hundreds of hours.
Pick and choose
Given that there's no way you can do everything, you need to pick and choose what aspects of the game you want to pursue. Even the playstyle categories we generally hear about take more than a few hours a week. (Battleground PVP is probably an exception here.)
Be realistic about the amount of time you can play the game. By the same token, be realistic about how much time gameplay takes. Here's some ideas of "expected weekly time" each play style takes, if you want to stay contemporary:
- PVE dungeons 4 to 7 hours per week
- PVE raiding 6 to 10 hours per week to get geared, then 4 to 6 actually raiding
- PVP battlegrounds 3 to 6 hours per week, depending on if you're lucky enough to get a quick win in the daily battleground
- PVP arena Usually, 4 to 8 hours, depending on how long it takes you to win enough matches
And there's nothing saying you must "keep up" based on gear. It's probably foolish to even try, if you're not trying to do high-end arenas or raiding. After all, the gear you leveled in is sufficient for most quests.
It's not a competitionThis is the thing that's most important to remember: WoW isn't a competition. You don't need to race anyone to an imaginary finish line. If you chalk up and ignore the idea that you're not pursuing the two admittedly high-end playstyles (raiding and the arena), then you're not hurting anyone by taking your own, sweet damn time.
More importantly, you'll get to see the content eventually. Blizzard is constantly finding ways to help casual players get in to see the raids, such as with the upcoming patch 4.2 nerf to extant raids. If you didn't get to see the content before now, you'll easily be able to pug the content in patch 4.2.
Focus on what you love
Seriously, stay focused on the parts of the game that you love and have fun doing. Do what you can in the time you have, and screw the rest. Not only is that the best option -- that's all you can do.
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Reader Comments (Page 2 of 2)
Sunaseni Jun 10th 2011 12:28PM
The thing is, what's the point of spending your entire week's worth of playtime just to do the gear treadmill? If you don't plan to be an endgame raider, PVP-er, or whatnot, there's really no reason to maximize your JP/VP gain or optimize your gear.
If I had only 4-hours a week, I'd rather spend that time playing through Cataclysm's zones for the storyline and game play, do achievements, and generally explore and see what the game has to offer. That way you can play the game at YOUR pace, without worrying about "staying competitive" in a mode of game play that clashes with the limited time you have.
DayDreamer Jun 10th 2011 7:42PM
PUGs and wipes can ruin things, but it doesn't mean you can't win or shouldn't try.
You could just quest, but unless you're playing with a friend, the social aspect of the game is lost and it's very lonely.
You could also gear up and do raids after they get nerfed in 4.2.
You could also look for a guild that's more about dungeon runs and old content so you're at least in a group of 4 other people.