Breakfast Topic: Male or female?

When you first create a new character, you have many choices to make. Some of these choices -- faction, race, and class -- will dramatically affect your gameplay. Others, like hair color and facial features, are purely cosmetic. One decision, however, straddles the border between significant and arbitrary: Will you be male or female? Male and female characters have no stat differences, so picking one over the other is essentially an aesthetic option ... or is it?
Gender politics in WoW are a huge topic in their own right, so we'll keep the scope narrow and focus just on the choice at the point of character creation. How do you decide which sex to be? Some believe that one should play one's own sex and not the other (the term G.I.R.L. [guy in real life] springs to mind here). Others say it's totally up to each player, and it doesn't matter if a guy wants to play as a girl or vice versa. Still others think your choice of character gender says something about who you are as a person; a rival camp claims your choice of sex has little to do with who you are in real life.
How did you make that decision when you first created a new avatar? Perhaps you automatically gravitated toward your own sex, or the opposite. Perhaps you felt pressure from an outside source -- social mores, a friend, your beliefs or opinions -- and chose given those parameters. Perhaps you just took whatever the game gave you at the outset.
Are most of your characters male? Female? Or do you have an even split? Which sex do you play the most, and why? Do you think a player's gender choice says something about who he or she is?
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 11)
okiishirow Jul 1st 2011 8:06AM
Only Males.. i feel a little bit wrong in my head when playing countergender.
thepiratester Jul 1st 2011 8:23AM
^^ I once thought that way- but I changed my tune over the years because WoW is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo limited with toon customization options. I ended up making a female Draenei Shamy. It was my attempt to mix it up a bit trying to keep the game fresh. However, no matter how much I tried mixing it up there was always at least 3 clones in or around the area I was in. Everyone looks the same >.>
Faith-lb Jul 1st 2011 8:38AM
If the human males did not look like they got hit in the head with a frying pan... over and over and over, I would have all males... I also hate the fact they look all hulky bulky... doesnt make sense unless you are a warrior/dk/maybe pally but a hulky bulky mage ? are mages shooting fireballs from their sixpacks or something ?
MattKrotzer Jul 1st 2011 8:42AM
Also the harelip. Human males are astoundingly bizarre looking. Makes me wonder how the humans have so many children running around.
Wolfshanze Jul 1st 2011 9:41AM
Faith-lb wrote:
>>>I also hate the fact they look all hulky bulky... doesnt make sense unless you are a warrior/dk/maybe pally but a hulky bulky mage ? are mages shooting fireballs from their sixpacks or something ?
Wolfshanze Jul 1st 2011 9:43AM
Faith-lb wrote:
))) also hate the fact they look all hulky bulky... doesnt make sense unless you are a warrior/dk/maybe pally but a hulky bulky mage ? are mages shooting fireballs from their sixpacks or something ? (((
Bulky, yes... Hulky, no. Sixpack? please... I always thought all Human males look like they've been sitting in front of the TV watching too much football while eating nachos and drinking beer...
Sixpack, no... Beerbelly, yes.
P.S.
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Amaxe Jul 1st 2011 10:00AM
@MattKrotzer
"Draenei males are astoundingly bizarre looking. Makes me wonder how the draenei have *any* children running around."
Fixed it for you ;)
loop_not_defined Jul 1st 2011 10:26AM
I've played as aliens, military commanders, cyborgs, animals, mutants, hive minds, spirits, vampires, immaterial gods, elementals, etc. etc. etc. You can't even finish Starcraft or Warcraft III without playing as a woman.
Video games are constantly asking you to play something you're not. Why cross the line at sex? It seems like a completely arbitrary decision, leaving me with little choice but to assume it's sexual insecurity.
Phoenix_the_II Jul 1st 2011 10:43AM
Wait... You mean you can have male characters?
Oh ****....
Grumpy Wow Guy Jul 1st 2011 11:06AM
Male. Unless it's a Draenei. However, now Alliance has Dorf shammies, so just make a Dorf.
Honestly, make whatever the hell you want.
tracy.i.perkins Jul 1st 2011 11:57AM
Agreed. Except in my case it's females only as I'm a female in real life. It's just too awkward to be opposite your gender. Plus, I'm sorry but most of male character models look ugly and it's weird to /flirt with a G.I.R.L. when I'm straight and so is my toon.
Noyou Jul 1st 2011 1:05PM
I do hate the human "hairlip" thing but it has brought to my attention how many people have a very thin upper lip in real life. I never really noticed it before. It's kind of scary. And yes as others have stated- lack of customizing options will drive me to eventually make female toons. I have played female toons in other RPG's on PS2/Xbox. I usually go for the male version unless I don't like the way he looks then try for the female option.
Moonfaxx Jul 1st 2011 2:07PM
I'd much rather stare at the back end of a female than a guy. Both men and women agree on this point. Proof? Look no further than Elaine from Seinfeld: "[T]he female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian, it's for gettin' around, like a jeep."
So let's all (men and women alike) just settle on the fact that women are beautiful. And men pale in comparison.
shadcroly Jul 1st 2011 2:55PM
Definitely. I dunno what it is, but I honestly just feel really funky playing a character of the opposite gender. I feel more natural and more comfortable playing a character that's the same gender as me.
Arrohon Jul 1st 2011 9:13PM
It really depends on what I'm playing. I refuse to play female characters for certain races and male Blood Elves. I have plenty of male humans though I'd likely create a female if I ever make another human. Female dwarves are kinda scary looking so I'll always go male. I'll mostly go for female night elves in the future but all the ones that I have now are male. I probably won't make a gnome (I'd get mad since I can't punt myself) but if I did it would be male. Draenei will be female unless it's a plate wearing class. I only have one worgen and it's male. If I create another worgen its gender will likely depend on the class (I'm going to delete my worgen soon because giant wolfmen don't look right in dresses... he's a mage not going to remake him as a female because I like his name too much). All horde races are to be male as I find the female models kinda bad except for blood elves.... all blood elves are to be female except my ONE blood elf mage.
8xwdj8xj6z Jul 2nd 2011 12:58PM
I'm with Moonfaxx on this one. When I'm in something like Second Life, the avatar represents me. But when I'm playing WoW or any number of other games, that thing on the screen isn't my avatar--it's more like my puppet. I'd rather look at a girl for hours and hours and hours, especially since I'm seeing the back 99% of the time.
Quasi Jul 4th 2011 3:08AM
"I'd much rather stare at the back of a woman than a man" is such a cop out, like going out of your way to tick people off and then saying "Its just a game". Fact is your playing a girl cause you want too, dont try and make it sound manly, especially by spouting off some heavily rehearsed line.
Dont get mad though, its just a game.
Kege Jul 1st 2011 8:07AM
All of my characters are always Male. The big argument i hear all the time from a male playing a female is, "i don't want to look at a mans backside every time i play." My argument to that is why would you want to look at a characterized females backside?
mrmojoz Jul 1st 2011 8:24AM
Yes.
MattKrotzer Jul 1st 2011 8:39AM
Mostly because we're guys, and a female backside is generally more appealing to straight men. I can pretty much guarantee it wasn't a female player who first noted the female draenei "waggle."