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7-01-2011 @ 10:43AM
Kendro said...
There is another possibility, apart from P taking a break to visit H across the country, that would explain H's absence. H could be a little down over the fact that P hasn't been on for a bit, and even though there are other forms of communication, the loss of the bond via a favorite medium between the two could be causing a bit of heartache.
Love makes people do stupid things, communication to see what is going on, and attempting to let both parties explain themselves to the proper authorities within the guild would be the most productive next step to this problem.
Or as others have suggested, you could just avoid any situation and hassle between the two of them by outright replacing them right now. That will most likely cause quite a few feathers to get ruffled though. Even if people are disgruntled over the viewed unprofessionality of certain parties, I doubt few people would like to see someone get the boot over a handful of missed raid nights, especially if they were previously close to said person.
Those are my thoughts on the matter, yes it does suck that they are both missing at the start of Firelands, which I imagine causes more frustration that anything; but, if you were previously content with them, and you are located on a backwater server, it could be difficult to find competent replacements.
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7-01-2011 @ 12:56PM
Noyou said...
It also could be in this economy that P doesn't have the money for WoW or internet and doesn't have the heart to say it. To me that's the first thing I thought of. If he said it had a fixed date like 3-4 weeks? I think as many have mentioned communication is the first step. Assuming anything always seems to result in one thing. Regardless of that H should be mature enough to either excuse themself or perform their guild duties as needed. Again communication is simple. Tell them hey- H is gone we really need you to be at as many or all raids as possible. If you can't please give us a weeks notice. And then lay down that you will have to find raid replacements which could result in them losing their spots in the raids. Then If H continues to miss raids and not give you guys enough notice the message is clear. Hope that helps and good luck.