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7-29-2011 @ 1:07PM
I'm sure this wasn't the advice he wanted to hear. Reality is hard to take sometimes. Good luck to ya NoChance.
7-29-2011 @ 1:33PM
Well, whoever writes a letter to the Drama Mamas hoping he only gets a pat on the head and "World's been bad to you? Nuuhuu, here, have a cookie" definately chose the wrong audience to cry to.He sure IS in a difficult situation (and probably most of the.. ehr.. more experienced in life people reading this have been in a situation similar to this one - I sure was once) and I wish him all the best of luck. But as both Mamas clearly stated: He's out of the deal (at least from what little information around the whole matter he gave in his letter) anyways. Backing up and leaving her alone, as Lisa suggests, seems to be the right thing to do now. And it sure as heck is not worth loosing a longtime friendship because of a strange feeling in the stomach. Unwanted help can create a much worse outcome: He might end up breaking the friendship with D.T. -and- loose what reputation he has in S.H.s person right now, just for trying too hard to be an unwanted Mr. NiceGuy nobody asked for in the first place.
7-29-2011 @ 1:51PM
Sometimes its for the best anyway. I was in his situation before, backed off, got and subsequently married the girl, only to have it fall apart.Not saying I wouldn't do it again, but sometimes its not worth it.
7-31-2011 @ 12:19PM
@ VorkenI am just the opposite (i hope) i met a girl through wow, became really good friends, and eventually fell head over heels for her. We are engaged and this winter she is moving here (im in OR and she is from NC) I would move there but i am in college full time working on my bachelors (hehe) degree
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