"Every female
WoW player has healed at least once." This, dear reader, is something I was told in-game the other day. As a dedicated anthropologist, I balk at sweeping generalizations such as these -- such things are almost never true. And the person who said this didn't mean "used a healing ability" -- he meant "played as a dedicated healer."
Once I called him on his generalization, there was more back-pedaling than in the Tour De France. Of course he knows that not every female player has played a healer. Female players who have only played for a few weeks and chose a pure DPS class, he allowed, wouldn't have!
But of course, there is a stereotype in
WoW that women heal. We've talked about it before, but it makes me wonder two things:
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Do most women have a healing character?
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If there's any truth in the stereotype (which I think there might be), why does healing appeal so much to women?
I have a theory, just a theory, if you'll allow me. I reckon it might be more that men stick to DPS and tanking, whereas women are happy to try healing. And once they start healing, they find that it's one of the more varied and interesting roles to play. Especially in PvE, where you learn fights by repeating the same actions over and over, healing is the one role that has the variety. So women stay healing once they start. But, like I said, it's just a theory.
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Reader Comments (Page 3 of 9)
Tiek Mar 12th 2012 8:34AM
The women in my guild are DPS, with one who switches to heals when needed.
dryankem Mar 12th 2012 8:42AM
My wife and I are the opposite. Her main is a fury warrior and she's never healed, doesn't even have an alt that could, just thinks it would be boring.
Myself on the other hand, I love healing. I find every fight unpredictable and of my 6 85s, 5 of them have a healing speck (only my DK can't heal). My main is my disc priest.
Jade Mar 12th 2012 8:35AM
Most of the women I know that play, and they are significant in number, play tanks. And very pro tanks.
Most of them also play male characters.
So much for stereotypes.
Aaron Mar 12th 2012 1:51PM
"Most of [the women I know] also play male characters."
That'd be an interesting discussion as well.
Female player, male character: Meh.
Male player, female character: Creepy.
My level 20+ characters are almost evenly split between male and female:
Male - Dwarven Arms warrior, Worgen Resto Druid, Tauren Bear Druid, Draenei Frost DK.
Female - Human Shadow Priest, Dwarven Prot Warrior, Troll Fire Mage*.
As long as my women are melting faces instead of dancing on a mailbox, why does it matter? Is it a stereotype about G.I.R.L.s, is it based in a belief that masculinity is something to which we should all aspire, or are there legitimate reasons for men not to play women?
* Originally created for the Noblegarden achievement, but I sure enjoy blowing stuff up.
stmart Mar 12th 2012 8:35AM
You're an anthropologist...
You should be able to grasp the concept of woman being "maternal"...
Men being men...They go for Tanks (you protect everyone else...You're the hero) or DPS (you're a mean killing machine...Feeling of power ...)
Woman are compassionate by nature.....More caring, nurturing........Healing seems natural to them...
it's as simple as that in my opinion...
NOW I wouldn't say EVERYONE thinks like that...But I think it explains most cases ;)
Jade Mar 12th 2012 8:46AM
I'm really afraid the only thing simple about that, is your opinion.
I can understand the need to put people into little categories where their gender rolls fit your own personal beliefs, but that doesn't make it accurate.
I'm afraid you wouldn't be a very good anthropologist if your entire grasp of gender roles was based on 1950's television.
Ruana Mar 12th 2012 8:56AM
Wow. Just .... wow.
So my compassionate and caring husband (he's hella more than me) who hates healing because he was forced into it on his shaman in vanilla fits into your generalization ... HOW?
And I'm a MT for my guild because why?
Terrant Mar 12th 2012 9:03AM
By now, we sadly have evidence that a "mean killing machine" can lurk in pretty much people of every gender... hell, pretty much every category in the grouping system of humanity.
Meh Mar 12th 2012 8:35AM
Shadow priest for life.
Been playing since vanilla and have never rolled a healer.
Shammytime Mar 12th 2012 8:38AM
I don't know most of the women I have known in wow have played hunters, a few had alt warriors and a random druid...who they tanked with.
I See What I Did There Mar 12th 2012 8:45AM
My significant other plays and she has never rolled a class even capable of healing.
Sandriya Mar 12th 2012 8:54AM
I'm female, and I've been playing WoW since 2006. I've never healed, whether on an alt or main. Just never appealed to me.
cathplayswow Mar 12th 2012 8:53AM
I am a woman who has played since early 2005. I am strictly a DPSer, rotating play among my rogue, enhancement shaman and death knight. Although I've tried every class, I've never played a dedicated healer. Even my priest -- still only level 26, though she was born at the time of the Burning Crusade expansion -- is shadow spec.
Honest to god, I'm flabbergasted that some of you are still saying, "Women don't play WoW!" Or are you just trolling?
Whatever. I do think there is something to be said for Nyold's guess that it has more to do with where you like to be positioned in a fight. Personally, I'm most comfortable surrounded my allies. I love going up a against a boss, but I'm happy his attention is not focused on me. Healers are just too far away from the action for my taste.
noel mcleod Mar 12th 2012 10:51AM
I really have to wonder if Olivia was just trolling with her original post. Skype / Vent means you *mostly* know the gender of the person you are playing with even if you don't know them in RL, but I have to say that I know what my teenage daughter (!) plays - warlock, rogue and kitty/bear druid. Just barely knows how to throw a heal on the druid!
matt Mar 12th 2012 8:55AM
I usually find that the most engaged players are healers. want to know why you just wiped? Ask a healer, 10 to 1 they know who, what, when, where, and why. The idea of healing as a "nurturing" role, may have some legs for RP purposes, but most PvE healers I know are control freaks on a power trip (myself included) There are no gender barriers on the lust for control.
I off dps on some fights and I can't tell you how boring it is to me. if you have never done it, roll a healer, you won't regret it. You will likely fail miserably the first time out but that's part of the initiation.
For the purpose of contributing my anecdote: We have 6 healers in guild 5 men & 1 woman. the other 2 women in our guild are hardcore DPS. Only once in my WoW career was I the sole man on the healing team.
Kat Mar 12th 2012 8:59AM
Two of the women in my guild heal. While two of us DPS (I myself play a hunter while the other is a Frost DK). That makes 4/10 of my guild raiders women. BUT one of those women plays a male toon, which is interesting. Everyone thinks she's a guy until she opens her mouth and then the questions start. "You're a girl, why do you play a male toon." etc etc. To which she counters "If guys can play female toons, why can't a woman play a male toon?" It's a good question, especially since a lot of the guys in our guild play female toons. Why does no one question them for it but she immediately gets questioned for playing a male toon?
Tanya Mar 12th 2012 1:22PM
When I play horde, I usually play male BElfs or Taurens just to challenge gender stereotypes a bit (yes I'm female).
Tri Mar 12th 2012 8:59AM
My guild has a 10 man raiding team. Out of three healers, two of us (me included) are female. We used to have a third woman on the team - she is a mage, though. She has healed before, however... ;)
I can't explain why I like to heal, though. It's really stressful, and I always blame myself if something goes wrong.. *rolls eyes*
Tom Mar 12th 2012 9:00AM
You speak as if this is a negative stereotype. Would you have the same reaction if the statement read " Every male WoW player has tanked at least once'?
Is healing somehow 'lesser' than tanking? Or DPS?
Or, perhaps, are you feeling pressure to compete against male standards?
Remember, all stereotypes are there for a reason, you might not like it, but there's a reason.
Terrant Mar 12th 2012 9:11AM
I wouldn't say it was a negative stereotype; I think Olivia took issue just because it's plain ol' incorrect.
Tanks and healers are both venerated in my experience.