The Drama Mamas are both 100% correct. Their advice in this situation is spot-on. While it can be hard to step away from someone that you feel so strongly for, it will be worth it in the end. When I split up with my ex (he cheated on me, but there were other issues as well and I know my lack of maturity at the time definitely played into it, so I won't blame him 100%, although I never ever cheated) I never thought I'd meet another man who would love me. Well, guess what? I did. I met a man far more worthy of my love, and my husband and I couldn't be happier. When I split with my ex, I never, ever thought I could be as happy and as deeply in love as I currently am. Boy, am I ever glad I was wrong. My husband and I have now been married for almost 8 years (our anniversary is in April) and we were common-law for several years before that. We fall more and more in love as time goes by.

Good luck, Other Woman. As the Drama Mamas said, you know what to do. You will be better for it in the end.

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