Debunking the "WoW is better for online dating than dating sites" story

The only problem is that the story really doesn't hold up. The source of the story is an infographic that lauds the lovely pleasures of WoW and online gaming. But the makers of the infographic itself, the facts that are presented, and the sources of those facts are not very reliable.
Let's debunk this idea.
Online university ... not really
The infographic was put together by a site called Online University, making its internet home at onlineuniversity.net. It sounds like a reputable place, right? A place where one could go to, say, get a higher education and learn something ...
Not really.
The site has some infographics and some articles. Many are links to other resources on the internet (including real universities) where people can go to get more information.
This Online University really isn't a university. It doesn't have any accreditation or any semblance of being an institution of higher learning. Not that the site claims to -- but it certainly doesn't say anywhere that it's not, either, something that would be important to do when using such a word as "university."
There is no contact information on the site other than a contact form with no email or phone number. The whois record for the domain notes it was registered via GoDaddy's proxy service. No other sites supporting the accuracy onlineuniversity.net could be found via Google.
Essentially, the site is only a small step away from an SEO farm.
Warcraft dating "facts"
The infographic cites a survey at WoW Ladies for the majority of its primary WoW data. The following facts are taken from WoW Ladies:
- 74.7% are dating someone else who plays the game
- 14.9% of WoW players are single
- 24.3% of WoW players dating one another traveled up to 30 miles to meet
- 75.7% traveled 100+ miles to meet
There are a few problems with drawing any conclusions from this data. First, the WoW Ladies survey had a sampling size 336 participants. That is hardly enough to determine any facts or drawn any conclusions for the greater population. Second, the survey was done on and shortly after April 25, 2008. This data is old, and in this very fast-paced, changing world of the internet, it's hardly useful to draw conclusions on a population from four-year-old data. Third, and perhaps most notably, WoW Ladies itself is a specific community with specific audience and participation. It says it right in its logo: "Girl gamers of the World of Warcraft."
Keen eyes will also note that the infographic cites WoW having 12 million players; however, that's incorrect, it's a number from 2010. Right now, WoW has around 10 million players.
These are all key elements of the conclusion, but when the premise doesn't hold weight, it's hard to accept the conclusion as valid.
Putting things in context
While the idea of WoW as a dating method might seem silly (or not so silly if you've met folks through it, which we know many have), it's important that we call truths when we see them. Given a closer look at the source of the news, it's hard to look at this as anything but a bit of fluff that doesn't hold much weight.
Perhaps the greater moral of the story here is that you shouldn't believe everything you read. Five minutes of digging will disprove a lot of stuff.
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 3)
Adam Holisky Mar 23rd 2012 11:48AM
I want to note that I don't think anything is wrong with the WoW Ladies survey. It's just fine for a blog to do that -- hell, we do it here a lot. But it's not news worthy. It's fun and blog worthy for the community it's done in.
Pyromelter Mar 23rd 2012 6:46PM
Your avatar is precisely how I feel about the article you linked.
evoxpisces Mar 23rd 2012 9:42PM
@Pyro: LOL
rayketh Mar 23rd 2012 6:07PM
Also, just because you're dating someone who plays doesn't mean you met them in Azeroth. I met my boyfriend on good ol' planet Earth and we found out we both like slaying dragons together after we met in real life.
shotiechan Mar 23rd 2012 9:14PM
This.
I actually met my SO in a different online game many, many years ago-and we have played many MMOS together over the years since.
Jamie Mar 23rd 2012 9:38PM
I actually met my wife in Maple Story, but for a considerable amount of years before we decided to live together and get married we'd play Guild Wars and WoW (mostly WoW).
But yea, it's important you have more common interests than games.
kunukia Mar 23rd 2012 10:18PM
Likewise, my daughter met her husband online, and after they started living together, they started playing MMOs together. They brought me into WoW, because I heard them raving about the vanilla Beta and was intrigued.
Jon Mar 23rd 2012 6:09PM
Forget eHarmony, Match.com, and even WoW. OKCupid is the best - it's free and it doesn't put up barriers to prevent you from talking to people you're interested in. As an added bonus it's very popular with LGBT/Alternative lifestyle, as opposed to "Christian" dating sites.
TimR Mar 23rd 2012 7:05PM
It depends what you are looking for.
I met my wife through eHarmony. Neither of us are religious at all, either. I think a pay site is better if you are looking for a serious relationship, as you need to be committed to be shelling out the monthly fee.
Free sites encourage you to browse around and contact people, which is fine, but I didn't find it worked as well. The people I know that use the free sites have a lot more casual encounters, not so much luck landing a serious relationship.
Seika Mar 23rd 2012 7:09PM
I met my boyfriend on OkC! He plays WoW on and off now - his character is a goblin hunter who builds evil robots masters named Dr. Willy Crabhammer (we're on a RP server) :D
roseclown Mar 23rd 2012 7:37PM
Heh, I actually use OKCupid. It's okay, it certainly has it's issues but is a fairly fun place for quiz taking and other stuff. However, I have noticed most people are looking for casual encounters of 'sexy times' kind, which I am not into, so it can be hard to find people who are a bit more serious at times.
But it is great for the more alternative types! I had tried out eHarmony, and I hated the matches they gave me. It seems that just because I marked 'christian', despite my more liberal beliefs and rather unorthodox beliefs, I got pared with the super conservative kind. No lie, one guys profile said (when describing the ideal woman) "Someone who will bare my children". After I realized that 99.9% of guys that I was getting matched with were like that, I canceled rather quickly.
shotiechan Mar 23rd 2012 9:09PM
You tend to get what you pay for; and even sites with a nominal fee will weed out a lot of people, which, depending on what you are looking for, may be a very good thing or not.
Luke Mar 24th 2012 9:03PM
I'm just chiming in to agree with Jon, OkCupid is awesome no matter what you're looking for. Romance? Friends? Friends with benefits? Friends with better benefits...
aminnocci Mar 23rd 2012 7:31PM
Says "Site is an SEO farm"
Links to site in article, giving it an SEO boost.
Bronwyn Mar 23rd 2012 6:23PM
Didn't they find that dating sites don't work that well in general anyway?
lividmonkey Mar 23rd 2012 6:24PM
My wife turned me on to WoW. I was playing other games such as EQ2 and CoH. There seems to be an idea that girls who play WoW are brought in by their boyfriends, and that just isn't true. I do have a guildmate who seems to pursue the dating thing on WoW, and oddly enough, seems to have better chances with females on WoW than the dating sites. Now if only the age proportion was right...
Francesca Mar 23rd 2012 6:24PM
I love people that try to *interpret* surveys. Seriously. I think it's almost fun to detail all the things that are wrong about the conclusions they come up with.
That being said, WoW is a fine place to meet people - I'd compare it to.. being a jogger who meets someone at a park because you both like jogging and you just click.. or whatever.
I did meet my fiance through WoW and he did move across many states to be with me.
I'm thinking it probably would've ben easier though to sign up for an actual dating site and just list WoW as a hobby.
And a gamer dating another gamer is hardly news. Who else would understand that no you can't come to dinner RIGHT NOW because you're in the middle of a boss fight?
McGintoy Mar 23rd 2012 6:28PM
This would be like determining that 90% of Californians are Conservatives based on a survey of 100 random people in Orange County.
Pyromelter Mar 23rd 2012 6:37PM
I would add... and only polling rich white men over the age of 60.
Killik Mar 24th 2012 6:14AM
@Pyro You'd just conduct your poll on a golf course.