Debunking the "WoW is better for online dating than dating sites" story

The only problem is that the story really doesn't hold up. The source of the story is an infographic that lauds the lovely pleasures of WoW and online gaming. But the makers of the infographic itself, the facts that are presented, and the sources of those facts are not very reliable.
Let's debunk this idea.
Online university ... not really
The infographic was put together by a site called Online University, making its internet home at onlineuniversity.net. It sounds like a reputable place, right? A place where one could go to, say, get a higher education and learn something ...
Not really.
The site has some infographics and some articles. Many are links to other resources on the internet (including real universities) where people can go to get more information.
This Online University really isn't a university. It doesn't have any accreditation or any semblance of being an institution of higher learning. Not that the site claims to -- but it certainly doesn't say anywhere that it's not, either, something that would be important to do when using such a word as "university."
There is no contact information on the site other than a contact form with no email or phone number. The whois record for the domain notes it was registered via GoDaddy's proxy service. No other sites supporting the accuracy onlineuniversity.net could be found via Google.
Essentially, the site is only a small step away from an SEO farm.
Warcraft dating "facts"
The infographic cites a survey at WoW Ladies for the majority of its primary WoW data. The following facts are taken from WoW Ladies:
- 74.7% are dating someone else who plays the game
- 14.9% of WoW players are single
- 24.3% of WoW players dating one another traveled up to 30 miles to meet
- 75.7% traveled 100+ miles to meet
There are a few problems with drawing any conclusions from this data. First, the WoW Ladies survey had a sampling size 336 participants. That is hardly enough to determine any facts or drawn any conclusions for the greater population. Second, the survey was done on and shortly after April 25, 2008. This data is old, and in this very fast-paced, changing world of the internet, it's hardly useful to draw conclusions on a population from four-year-old data. Third, and perhaps most notably, WoW Ladies itself is a specific community with specific audience and participation. It says it right in its logo: "Girl gamers of the World of Warcraft."
Keen eyes will also note that the infographic cites WoW having 12 million players; however, that's incorrect, it's a number from 2010. Right now, WoW has around 10 million players.
These are all key elements of the conclusion, but when the premise doesn't hold weight, it's hard to accept the conclusion as valid.
Putting things in context
While the idea of WoW as a dating method might seem silly (or not so silly if you've met folks through it, which we know many have), it's important that we call truths when we see them. Given a closer look at the source of the news, it's hard to look at this as anything but a bit of fluff that doesn't hold much weight.
Perhaps the greater moral of the story here is that you shouldn't believe everything you read. Five minutes of digging will disprove a lot of stuff.
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Reader Comments (Page 2 of 3)
ImSteevin Mar 23rd 2012 6:36PM
I actually did meet my girlfriend in wow, we were in the same guild and long story short, we've been living together for over a year now and are very happy. :)
ladeezluvlarry71 Mar 23rd 2012 6:44PM
Really glad you posted this. Their interpretation of that survey is not only wrong, it's dangerously wrong.
Even though anecdotal evidence points to their conclusions (I can only manage to be single for maybe a month at most before I meet someone in WoW I end up falling for and spending too much money to date >.>), the facts don't.
taijathehuntress Mar 23rd 2012 6:47PM
I met my girlfriend on wow in an lgbt guild on proudmoore. Shes moving here on the first and were looking at marrying within 2 years. Love of my life that girl.
Prelimar Mar 23rd 2012 7:01PM
congratulations! : )
Revynn Mar 23rd 2012 7:01PM
This article makes me wish there was a WoW version of Mythbusters. There was a machinima or two made a while back based on the concept, but a long running series would be great.
Nathanyel Mar 23rd 2012 7:07PM
I didn't know dating websites were any good at all :P
Cindabella Mar 23rd 2012 7:27PM
There is a lot wrong with their research. First, the study would have been convenience sampling, which in the world of Statistics, would not even be reliable because that result wouldn't be able to be reproduced. Second, the sample is not large enough when you think about the number of people who play WOW.
Yes, I'm a lady. Yes, I have a fiance who plays wow. No, we didn't meet on wow, or any dating website. And yes, he traveled hundreds of miles to meet me.
devonaelick Mar 23rd 2012 7:30PM
My fiancee and I met on WoW about 5 years ago. We celebrated our 4 year anniversary last month, our daughter's 18-month birthday 2 weeks ago, and are very happy. I'm from Ontario, Canada, while she is from Orange, California. She moved here 3 years ago and we'll be moving back to California together in May. My life couldn't be happier right now, and I doubt eHarmony could've done a better job than WoW did for me. Is our relationship perfect? No, of course not. That would be silly to say. But it IS a wonderful life, and I'm honored that WoW played such a large part in making it happen.
TL;DR - met fiancee on WoW, have kid, am happy
lanseb Mar 23rd 2012 7:39PM
"The infographic was put together by a site called Online University, making its internet home at onlineuniversity.net. It sounds like a reputable place, right? A place where one could go to, say, get a higher education and learn something ...
Not really."
LOL. So much love for this.
tara.dawes Mar 23rd 2012 7:52PM
Met my husband via WoW (his brother was my guild leader at the time - and he was our resident silent shaman). I have a lot of hatred for most "dating" sites - I tried to get an account via Eharmony prior to meeting my now husband and based on their "scientific" hooey I was deemed "not ready for one of their relationships" - yeah WoW proved to be a better matchmaking service anyway, happily married to a great guy now that I honestly never would have met had it not been for a video game!
splodesondeath Mar 23rd 2012 8:36PM
Even given the number of stories you get to hear from community members about meeting their significant other through WoW, it takes a pretty big leap to go from "There are people using the Internet who meet other people who use the Internet who love each other," to "WORLD OF WARCRAFT DOES IT BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE MUAHAHAHAHA,"
The whole idea is preposterous in itself - but I mean, that's what the article's about.
Steffan Mar 23rd 2012 8:42PM
Yeah, that seems a little silly basing a "scientific fact" or whatever they want to call it, off a small survey from a blog.
I just have one question: What in the world is an SEO farm?
Martin Mar 23rd 2012 9:41PM
Basically a link factory, with engineered meta data designed to push the site to the top of Google's (and to a lesser extend, Bing/Yahoo's) page rankings.
SEO = search engine optimization, and describes the process of associating the right keywords to a page, the right title page tags, etc.
Martin Mar 23rd 2012 9:39PM
Last time I checked, WoW Insider has no inside information at all. Should we bash you for that? I won't defend the linked infographic/article as I haven't looked at it, but taking onlineuniversity to task for truth in a name is weak when your own name is pushing the limits of credibility.
Khirsah Mar 23rd 2012 10:30PM
Am I reading that right?
24.3% traveled UP TO 30 miles
75.7% traveled 100+ miles (100 miles or more)
24.3 + 75.7 = 100%
I know it is a minor thing compared to all the other flaws in the data, but are we expected to believe that nobody traveled a distance ranging from 31 to 99 miles? Nobody traveled 50 or 60? Just seems strange is all.
quelaenvyn Mar 24th 2012 12:40AM
"14.9% of WoW players are single"
This also work against their theory also giving that after rounding down this mean only 1 out of every 10 is single, Warcraft Census give my server pop at ~8000 character.
So 800 characters are single, give the demographic survey gave that college student state that female players was 25% gives 600 Characters play by Male Single Players to 200 Character play by Female Single Players.
Like out the whole LGBT angle of this argument out, now have 7.5% try to comb though 90% of my server try to find the other 2.5% and We haven't even cover how many of these are alts.
When you add that the single player that would turn to WOW to find love is more likely to be that stereotypical anti-social gamer, The chance of this 800 tree find one other rather Straight or LGBT is low with a forest of 7200 stand in the way, compare to a date site with no forest.
dmberreth Mar 24th 2012 3:13AM
89.3% of all statistics are made up, or poorly interpreted from their original sources, right?
There used to be a running joke in my guild back during the Wrath days that we were our server's primay hookup spot. After I met my current girlfriend through WoW and we took up co-leadership of her guild, about 15 couples ended up coming together after they met in our guild. It was great.
Still? I would never suggest even thinking of WoW as a place to turn for meaningful, long term relationships. Because I will also note, out of those 15 couples, I believe only two remain together today.
Phoenix Psaltery Mar 24th 2012 6:21AM
My wife and I actually met in Second Life. I traveled 800 miles to meet her, and she introduced me to WoW. Now we are officers in our guild.
Ain't love grand?
Dude Mar 24th 2012 8:39AM
Go to pub > Wow
For meeting dates or potential dates. No, really.
orco42 Mar 24th 2012 9:28AM
I was one of the lucky ones. I met my wife in wow and we have had many hours of fun in game.