Finding the line between you and your roleplaying character
We've finally reached that magical moment when we stop speculating on what we'll see in Mists of Pandaria and start experiencing it first hand. Pretty much every WoW news site out there is inundating us with tons of information about Mists, the pandaren, the zones, the quests, and everything that is to come. If you're one of those who managed to get a beta key at this early stage in testing, you've even experienced some of that new content yourself. This can actually create a ton of issues when you're a roleplayer, and it has to do with the line between roleplay and real life.
In roleplay, there's a definitive line between what you as a player happen to know and what your character is aware of. There's a line between what you see in game and what your character sees and experiences. And there's a really big line between what you are feeling as a player and what your character is feeling in any given situation. Experienced roleplayers are aware of that line's existence and do their best not to cross it, but new roleplayers may not understand what that imaginary line is or even realize it exists.

In roleplay, what you see as a player doesn't represent what your character sees. If you read someone's roleplay description and it includes a detailed background history, that's information you as a player happen to know -- it's not information your character knows. Even something as simple as a character name is forbidden knowledge to your character, unless they happen to overhear someone else call that character by name or introduce themselves and exchange names.
If a player is using a roleplaying addon, getting that information is even easier. But these roleplaying addons aren't there so that your character can have a stunning moment of omniscience; they are there so that you as a player realize that character over there is a character open to roleplay. And in some cases, it's also there to give some small glimpse into what that character looks like or how they act, which makes that decision of whether or not to walk up to them and speak a little easier for you. After all, if someone's description says that they're surly and angry, you may not want to strike up a conversation.
This plays into beta information as well. The things you as a player learn about the beta and the next expansion are not things that your character would know about. Important storylines or plot points, surprise reveals or other spoiler information is just that -- spoiler information. Presuming that your character already knows everything that's going to happen in the future is a foolhardy venture that will generally garner a negative response from most roleplayers.

Roleplaying in a game like World of Warcraft means that there is plenty of information readily available to you as a player that wouldn't be as obvious to the character you play. Everything from age, height, weight, and even gender may be a mystery to your character, depending on how that other character is presented. Character level is not something that comes up in common conversation. It's likely your character could never tell if someone was a war veteran from the days of Outland and Northrend unless that person happened to be wearing something that indicated it.
One thing players tend to forget is that classes are not things that are obviously seen. You can't simply tell someone is a rogue by looking at them; you can't really discern a mage from a priest. The thing that determines how a character is recognized is purely how they are dressed -- and if a rogue is wandering around decked out like a holy man or a warrior is tromping about in caster attire, there's nothing that says they are in actuality a rogue or a warrior. And a worgen? If that worgen is in human form, there's nothing to indicate that they aren't just another human being running around in the world.
For a new roleplayer, the best way to grasp this peculiar concept is this: Turn off all nameplates, and then hit Alt+Z to remove any player frames from your screen. Walk around. Look at what you see and what you don't see. If you can't see it without the help of the game, your character isn't seeing it, either. And that means it's something your character just doesn't know about.

Perhaps one of the most difficult concepts to grasp as far as the line between player and character goes is the line that exists between who you are as a player and how you happen to be feeling, and what your character is feeling. Just because you are angry in real life doesn't mean your character should be angry; just because you're unhappy in real life doesn't mean that your character should be depressed as well. Your character has his own range of emotions and feelings, and they should never, ever mix with yours.
This isn't to say you can't feel happy when something good happens to your character or sad when something really terrible happens to him. But if you take these feelings as serious emotions and start applying them to real life (or vice-versa), that's when things get tricky and out of control. Think about it. You have a friend who you've been roleplaying with for a few weeks, and your character and theirs have a pretty good friendship going on. One day, you're angry about something in real life. Maybe your car got scratched. Maybe a check bounced. You take that anger in game, and your character is really, really angry, lashing out at that other character that he's friends with.
Guess how that makes the player behind that character feel? They're wondering why your character is angry and trying to handle it in character, assuming there is something in the fictional land of Azeroth that made your character upset. They don't know that you, the player, are really upset about real-life things. Expecting them to know is like expecting them to suddenly develop psychic powers.
In a vice-versa situation, say your character has developed feelings for another character. They decide they're going to start the equivalent of Azerothian dating, and you spend your roleplay nights happily roleplaying romantic dinners and evenings of quiet conversation. Suddenly, your character has an altercation with that fictional boyfriend or girlfriend, and said significant other decides to part ways, upsetting you in real life. Or perhaps you start feeling like you're in love with the player behind that character, rather than two characters in love with each other.

And that's really the crux of it. Roleplaying is a game. You're pretending you're someone else -- but that someone else? They don't really exist. The feelings, the things they see, the things that they know are separate from who you really are out there in the real world. Other roleplayers are playing with you under the assumption that you know where that line is. They are just as emotionally detached from their characters as you should be from yours.
Think of it in terms of acting, and you'll get a better appreciation for what roleplaying is. Actors on a set reading lines at each other are paid to pretend that they are feeling what the character they are portraying is feeling, and really good actors are really good at getting into character. But at the end of the day, when the lights turn off and everyone goes home, they aren't feeling that character anymore. It's just a job. Roleplaying is like acting, except it's not a job. It's just for fun. It's a game. So treat it like one, mind the line between game and reality, and you'll have far more fun with far less stress.
Filed under: All the World's a Stage (Roleplaying)






Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
Strawder Mar 31st 2012 2:42PM
Wow that video is old. It's likely the first WoW Machinima ever made. Never gets old, either. Anyone know what happened to the guy who made it?
LynMars Mar 31st 2012 3:56PM
I still have that video faved on YouTube (someone else who loved it uploaded it, with credit to the creator), alongside Balgosa's stuff from both SW: Galaxies and early WoW, and Cranius' newer stuff. You're right; it never gets old, it's just nice storytelling to a song that works well for it.
Marcosius Mar 31st 2012 4:56PM
About that, "your character is not all knowing" ... I'm commonly quite confused what is common knowledge and what's not. I mean, if I want to discuss the orcish history IC, how much of it has been lost to time, or would some things even be told to a non-orc? Like, is it common knowledge who was the first one to drink demon blood, is Thrall's history commonly known, so on and so on - things you'd figure someone would know, but aren't sure what the common populace is expected to know?
The fact that some lore is contradictory or barely explained at best doesn't help either - like Anasterian dying fighting the Scourge and being somewhere upwards of 4,000-5,000 years old - some 12 times older than the average high elf lifespan according to other information.
Snuzzle Mar 31st 2012 5:32PM
I'd imagine it would be much like what the average person knows about his or her country's history. For example, almost every American child knows that Lincoln freed the slaves, and Columbus discovered America, but how many know the deeper truths? I'm sure the average orc knows that Thrall helped free their people and who broke the blood curse, but as far as deeper than that, I would doubt it.
Xantenise Mar 31st 2012 5:46PM
If I'm not sure I say my character read it in a book once.
snarkygoldfish Mar 31st 2012 6:23PM
"You are not your character."
This should be in 72pt neon blinking glitter text...not only on this article, but as a prompt before logging in for some people. The headaches that this has caused me over the years....my god. On a site I used to RP on...there are people that STILL confuse the actions of my character, who was a very scary woman, to my actions. Four years later, I'm still told by people that they're leery of approaching me because of my character's reputation.
It's easy to get emotionally invested in your character. You spend so much time developing them and seeing the world through their eyes and creating these adventures and experiences for them....but there's lines you shouldn't cross. Always remember where your character ends and where you begin.
Unfortunately...all three listed problems are something I'm dealing with with my current GM. He's a lovely guy most of the time but I dread RPing with him. He's extremely controlling...and he has about 5 characters that are all....him. With different accents. The characters are NEVER wrong, always pulling things out of their ass in order to control a conversation/situation to be "right." ...And I've been scolded several times OOCly because my character greatly dislikes one of his and doesn't hide it very well at all.
Deadborder Mar 31st 2012 7:01PM
"You are not your character."
This, many times over.
Far too many RPers fail to recognise the OOC/IC boundry. While their character may not be the same race or gender or personality or whatever as the player, they still act like they are one and the same. This oft manifests itself in becoming super-defensive and possessive, acting as if any attack or criticism or slight was aimed squarely at them as a person, rather then at their character.
Unfortunately, it's a problem that's pretty much institutionalized in RP communities. One cannot offer criticism or advice or suggestion without it being taken as a personal insult or even an attack on the player themselves. And RP communities support this attitude, taking the approach that those who dare criticise characters/RP are cyber-bullies or the like, hating on the players themselves, usually followed by accusations of being "anti-RP" or so forth.
The result? Nobody dares criticise; nobody suggests that anything can go wrong, nobody does anything about truly awful RP. Rather, the "all RP is good RP" mentality takes hold.
Luke Apr 2nd 2012 8:02PM
-looks around-
Only one page of comments? Yeah I kinda thought those 10 page comment threads about how everyone hates Garrosh and the "Alliance gets shafted in lore" were a product of people taking their RP way too serious.
/sigh
This was a needed article. I just hope you don't lose readers for it.