Jan 8th 2010 9:16AM Good advice overall, but I hope when you say "need everything you can" that you really mean "need everything you want." If there's even a remote chance that you will use it, then yeah, go ahead and need on it, but if I, as a tree druid, roll need on attack power leather that I will never ever use, just because I can, and there is a rogue in the group that wants it, that makes me a ninja too.
Nov 28th 2009 4:58PM "I am a stay-at-home mom, so during nap time and after the kids go to bed for the night, I play. My husband plays when he gets home from work until he goes to bed. "
This is the part that concerns me. My husband and I both play, and at first we played like this too...all the time. Since then we've cut back because we realized we weren't spending any real time together. I can't offer any advice re: the cheating issue, but I can say that it sounds to me like Brokenhearted and her husband never actually see each other to talk, work out issues, and to do husband and wife type things. This could be having a huge impact on their marriage.