May 14th 2010 6:23PM Hey, Drama Mamas!
I really appreciate your answering my questions. You weren't kidding when you said that you were going to do a lot of finger wagging.
I read your answers, and I read the comments as well. I found Arann and Soonerwolf's comments especially helpful. I talked to my wife today about setting a date night every week for just the two of us, a family day to spend uninterrupted time with our toddler, and a personal day where we are to pursue individual activities. She actually really liked the idea. My wife has told me that she feels neglected before, but I spend every moment that I am not at work with her. I guess guaranteeing her a night together every week was something she wanted all along.
Lisa, Robin, and all of the commentators: thanks so much for your input,