Breakfast Topic: Do you view death as a failure?

Or does it? My fondest memories in any MMO almost always revolve around moments of temporary insanity -- times when we bit off way more than we could chew and somebody (or everybody) died spectacularly as a result. Heck, there's even a guild based on the premise! Still, you won't get very far exploring the range of what your character can do if you never push the envelope. Some players relish the challenge of seeing how far they get soloing a raid instance; others quail from the inevitable string of deaths. An overly cautious approach can push activities like PvP completely off the table for players who are afraid that death equals failure in their eyes and the rest of the players around them.
Does death during the normal course of questing, grouping, or running a raid you're fairly familiar with represent a personal failure to you? Do you feel embarrassment when you die in front of other players? Do you prefer that the game be balanced so that you rarely if ever die? Maybe you believe a little death and danger add spice to in-game life. If you wish WoW's overall challenge rating were a little less forgiving, do you think you'd feel comfortable with dying more frequently, or do you think the bar and community attitudes on death and skill are already firmly entrenched?
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While you may think that no death is a good death, some are definitely worse than others. I can pinpoint my least favorite immediately - it was a full party of mid-40s players running through Jintha'Alor to finish making Zul'Ferrak mallets. The final pulls as we approached our goal were level 51 elites, and quite challenging for our under-leveled group. We finished and started heading out, to be met with respawns. I, a cloth wearer, was taken out pretty quickly, while the rest of the group managed to run, and keep running, to safety. I must say that extracting myself from this temple, swarming with angry trolls, was quite interesting. But there are still other scenes that come to mind - instance runs gone wrong and particularly underhanded PvP tactics. What about you? Do you have a least favorite encounter with your friend the spirit healer?



